For a certain type of person, it is the centre of the world. A vast, shining city in the desert, a sprawl of shopping centres and Instagrammable restaurants. Dubai is a J.G. Ballard nightmare; frozen, Botoxed faces communing in neon-lit bars, pouting and preening in massive complexes built on the backs and bodies of migrant workers. It is a city built around screens: to account for the cultural vacuum at the heart of what is essentially a 40-year-old jumbo strip mall, its tourists swap the usual holiday charms for pictures of themselves rubbing shoulders with the likes of Molly-Mae and England WAGs.
For all these reasons, Dubai is loathed by a certain other type of person — one who abhors philistines, and for whom that city represents the vacuous vanity of a class which should be relegated to Tenerife all-inclusives. Much of this ire is trained on the marriage of luxury and meaninglessness at the heart of Dubai holiday culture: a tangle of fake wealth, fake boobs and fake sophistication is perfectly calculated to enrage the skiing set. While they may have some points (holidaying in a supersized House of Fraser isn’t on my bucket list either), this snobbery runs in parallel to one of the most ubiquitous and noxious legends of our time. The story goes that there are only two reasons why a young woman of small fortune might find herself in Dubai: to shop, or to get rich by having the weirdest sex imaginable.
I will not explain these familiar pub myths in too much depth in the interest of decency, but rest assured they are gross. A couple of years ago, these stories exploded onto Twitter timelines, with subsequent waves of interest sparked by “leaked” images and videos (of which Katie Price most recently fell victim). They involved extremely niche, and extremely extreme, sex acts which influencers were paid eye-watering sums to carry out during “content” trips to the UAE. National newspapers took note, revealing the haggling over £10,000-a-night deals that went on in Instagram DMs. Gossip websites speculated about heinous acts intended to satisfy the deviant tastes of loaded, mysterious Arab men — these involved coprophilia, German shepherds, underage boys who needed to “become men” and, invariably, exclusive hotels or yachts.
There is decent evidence for at least some of these acts — not least one particularly stomach-churning video which emerged in 2022, sparking the first wave of social-media obsession with the influencer/sex-worker crossover. We must not be shocked that in every city the world over, there are enough freaks to make a party; even less so when a city is sloshing with gold. But what is so different, so unsettling, about the “Dubai porta potty” legend — as it is known for reasons you can work out for yourself — is how wilfully it has taken root, and how ancient the Western fantasies are that it speaks to.
For centuries, the orientalised perversity of the Arabian world has been a titillating, disgust-flecked obsession in the West. What began in pre-Islamic Persia with Scheherazade’s tales in One Thousand and One Nights quickly spread throughout Western Europe after Antoine Galland’s French translation in 1704. This provoked a flurry of imitations, contes de fées set in oud-scented wonderlands. The archetypes were set: as in Western fairytales, bloodthirsty aristocrats and fraught sex-relations are everywhere — a wife is caught in bed with a black slave; she transfigures her husband with magic, but is killed in retribution. A woman’s dismembered body washes up in a river; her husband has killed her, wrongly suspecting that she was unfaithful. The jealous Prince Behram imprisons Princess Al-Datma in a tower and, pursuing her after her escape, murders her. These fairytales fed the Western appetite for Eastern narratives of cruelty and debauchery, and came to shape the character of the deviant Arab which lingers today.
As the 20th century unfurled, this trope picked up scandalous pace. The Sheik — first a novel by Edith Maud Hull which sold one million copies upon its release in 1919, and then a film starring Rudolph Valentino in 1921 — portrayed its kidnapping protagonist as exotic and sexually aggressive, an arc which is redeemed when he is discovered to not in fact be Arab at all, but a harmless Western romantic in disguise. The allure and threat of the voracious Sheik spawned a thousand afterlives, not least with the wildly popular 1921 ditty The Sheik of Araby, composed to answer the mania surrounding the film. What is essentially a parody song contains some rather choice lyrics: “At night when you’re asleep / Into your tent I’ll creep.” It’s a love song — the damsel will “rule this world with me”, after all — but the comedy comes from a vision of a lascivious brute who invades tents, pompously reiterates his status as sheikh, and is both floppily romantic and latently vicious.
Whose appetite?
That’d be the phages, not the philes.
The article seems to be rather stuck between wanting to scold the perception that Dubai has a lot of debauchery-for-hire going on, while also conceding that it is, in fact, true that it does. Plus, the fact these exoticized Eastern cultures do have rules that demand women wear bags over their heads because men cannot be expected to maintain self-control otherwise, might have something to do with how they are perceived in the West.
Side-note: I dimly recall that line from Disney’s Aladdin causing a bit of a fuss at the time it came out, and I think Disney changed it. But, again, if you decapitate people, or flog them, as part of your judicial system, eh, people may draw their own conclusions about how you do things.
Fair points, except i wouldn’t regard it as “stuck” but rather a useful exploration of some of the underlying issues deep within the Western psyche around sexuality via the “otherness” of Eastern culture.
I’ve long suspected that ancient conflicts, including but not confined to that between Christianity and Islam, have their basis in some almost unfathomable dichotomy involving sexual relationships,and the control (or otherwise) of primitive urges. For this reason, i admire Poppy Sowerby’s imaginative effort in bringing this up-to-date. I can imagine some readers spluttering over their cornflakes.
Robin Williams was going pretty wild and off script in that movie. Disney had to remove some of the lines, but it was still hilarious.
I dunno, Poppy’s feminist nihilism about internet-heavy pop culture is not that interesting. Exploring the vacuousness of entitled leeches has no redeeming features.
It’s the modern world, innit? Poppy takes a deep dive into it and reports back, so we don’t have to. It’s a useful service, I think.
I can’t imagine too many people fantasising behind closed doors about what goes on in Dubai. I think even in a culture as depraved as ours most people haven’t sunk quite that low.
calculated to enrage the skiing set.
It does of course have apurpose built indoor ski centre-marvellous.
I am far more concerned by their cowardly support of Islamist terrorism, and control of our horse racing industry. The hypocricy of these Arabs is beyond belief.
The hypocrisy is the other way around.Every Informed people in UK horse racing will have heard the rumours surrounding Sheikh Mohammed’s sexual sadism.And yet everyone in UK horse racing has chosen to turn a blind eye because UK racing is so dependent on his patronage.Of course maybe the rumours are false
Well said
Christ told people that they’d already committed adultery just by thinking it.
Islam’s equivalent changed Allah’s teaching when he became obsessively lustful toward his daughter-in-law, enabling him to marry her.
The somersaults of Islam’s scholars in order to justify this are legendary.
In terms of the contrasting messages given about sex – well, you join the dots.
An utterly ghastly place with even more ghastly Brit ex pats: The capital of seditious hypocricy and a weird form of totalitarianism marching hand in hand with debauchery…
Brings to mind the stories of pre-WWII Berlin.
Having visited Dubai many times, the first part of this article rings pretty true in its description of Dubai, and indeed much of the “developed” Middle East. It’s all neon lights, and garish displays of wealth galore. The more tasteless and ostentatious the better.
Whilst Poppy might be right that sexual debauches can occur anywhere, she skates over the reasons for it and wrongly identifies the causes in my opinion.
First, there’s the eye watering amounts of money sloshing around. What do you buy when you can afford everything, and already own it? Next, repressed sexuality, combined with fundamentally misogynistic attitudes, in which white women are essentially viewed as whores. See Rotherham for further details. Next add in a pretty shaky, biased legal system. And hey, presto, you can do what you like.
Trying to project all that onto some weird fetishes Westerners might have for the Arabian Nights etc seems a bit of stretch to me, but hey ho.
“just another grotesque tumescence of our own porn-saturated culture that social media has helped to create — and is probably just as likely to go down in a Kensington mansion as an Emirati penthouse”
This writer can’t understand what’s happening right in front of her face… (a) If these things are going down in a Kensington mansion, it is likely owned by someone who also has an Emirati penthouse. (b) Social media has played a minor role in creating our porn saturated culture; it ain’t even the internet that’s to blame. It’s the numerous slips down the slippery slope that have fundamentally changed social expectations of sexual ethics – everything from decriminalizing pornography (because, hey, it’s harmless, right?), to making divorce no-fault (because, hey, it’s harmless, right?), to pretending men and women do or should have the same sexual desires (because, hey, women are the same as men, right?), etc. etc.
The lack of self-awareness in UnHerd’s vast stable of feminist writers is, I regret to say, just what misogynists would expect of them. Please, ladies, stop letting the side down…
Indeed.
‘Influencer’ is a job? Really.
I lived in Dubai 90s to 00s and saw the blatant evidence of Arab male depravity when it came to sex. We were hunted on the streets as children by Arab men trying to lure us into their cars. This was a consistent feature of my youth until the Russian prostitutes arrived.
We lived near a large detached house which my neighbour’s dubbed the ‘p***y palace’, as there was usually a line of women outside from midnight into the early hours of the morning – waiting to be let in for god knows what level of debauched behaviour.
The stories we heard about what happened to Western women who were lured into liaisons with an Arab man were often the most disturbing – obviously none of the content would ever reach the papers so much of this could be considered to be urban legend, but the behaviour from some Arab men would make you believe otherwise.
This isn’t to say that all Arab men were like this, I had some local male friends outside the expatriate community who were respectful and civil.
So I’d guess there may be more to the influencer stories than meets the eye. There is no freedom of the press in the UAE, which bears reflection.
In a poor article, a supremely bad sentence.
‘But what is so different, so unsettling, about the “Dubai porta potty” legend — as it is known for reasons you can work out for yourself — is how wilfully it has taken root, and how ancient the Western fantasies are that it speaks to.‘
Clearly written by someone who hasn’t seen Inbetweeners.