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Keir Starmer’s war on mothers Women are punished for having children

Britain needs more babies. (Chris J Ratcliffe/Getty Images)

Britain needs more babies. (Chris J Ratcliffe/Getty Images)


July 25, 2024   5 mins

As their swift suspensions indicated, Keir Starmer can probably cope with a rebellion of “pissed-off” Labour MPs over his failure to commit to scrapping the two-child benefit cap. But when even Suella Braverman, the Right-winger that right-thinkers love to hate, gets in on the act, he must sense trouble brewing.

The benefit cap, which prevents parents from claiming universal credit or child tax credit for more than two children, has become a totemic image of evil Tory policy, symbolising a simultaneous attack on poor people and women’s bodies. For Labour MP Rosie Duffield, it has a Handmaid’s Tale cruelty, as “women are subjugated according to their social class”. Others may be less feminist in their objections, but they still think the policy is too harsh. “It’s pushing more children and families into relative poverty,” said Braverman, adding that “it is time for it to go”.

During a punishing cost-of-living crisis, and following the brutal pandemic years in which the government spent an estimated £96.9 billion on paying people not to work, it seems perverse that the Labour administration should cling onto such an unpopular, mean-spirited policy as the two-child cap: scrapping it, by contrast, would cost £3.4 billion a year. This is even stranger in the context of anxieties about the UK’s falling birth rate and the realisation that the days in which migration could provide extra workers are numbered. We seem to swing from one anguished policy debate about how to encourage people to have more children back to the defensive position of cajoling them to have fewer. Where’s the logic?

After all these years of headless policymaking, it would be tempting to argue that there is, in fact, no logic; that policies are rushed in and reversed with little thought about their contradictions or unintended consequences. Unfortunately, policies relating to fertility decisions generally follow one, neoliberal line of thought: that questions of who should have children and how many should be framed by the state and the market.

Duffield is right to argue that, while the obvious target of the two-child benefit cap is “the caricature of the ‘feckless’, ‘irresponsible’ people who drop children every few minutes without being able to pay for them”, the subtext is “an attack on women’s right to choose how many children they have”. Throughout the 20th century, family-planning policies sought to limit how many children were born to poor or unmarried women, while boosting the more “desirable” fertility of the middle classes. On the global stage, international organisations and NGOs have spent years trying to reduce the number of children born in poorer parts of the world, couching population-control policies in progressive-sounding language about the environment and women’s reproductive rights.

In the late Nineties, Tony Blair’s New Labour government continued this approach with gusto. One flagship initiative was the 10-year Teenage Pregnancy Strategy, launched in 1999 with the aim of halving the under-18 conception rate. This involved providing young people with better access to effective contraception and abortion; strenuous efforts to warn them not to get pregnant, via sex education and a communications campaign; and interventions with young parents to “support” them not to get pregnant again. The strategy achieved its target, and was described by social commentators as “the success story of our time”.

Other initiatives took a less explicit tack. Those such as the New Deal for Lone Parents, the National Childcare Strategy and Sure Start sought a solution to the problem of mothers on benefits by cajoling them into work and their children into nurseries. The New Deal for Lone Parents, as social policy professor Jane Millar has noted, was particularly significant — throughout the post-war period, policy was largely based on the assumption that single mothers would stay at home to care for their children, and thus ”one parenthood was a marker that indicated legitimate withdrawal from the labour market”. But under New Labour, being a single mum was no longer an excuse for not having a job: in fact, it made employment even more important, to reduce “social exclusion”.

“Something important did get lost: the idea of children as a personal and social good.”

As the BBC reported in 1998, all of New Labour’s “welfare to work” strategies hinged on one “single idea”, that: “Work is good for you. Those who can, should work. More people in work means fewer on benefit which means reduced social security costs, which in turn means more for health and education. It is apparently the ultimate win-win policy.”

There were certainly some good things that came out of New Labour’s obsession with work. For those people who can work, it is better to have a job than it is to languish on benefits. Women need access to contraception, abortion and childcare if they are to have careers and, above all, freedom and equality. But, as the ensuing years have shown, work is not the solution to all welfare problems. In tying the compulsion to work so closely to new motherhood, something important did get lost: the idea of children as a personal and social good.

When the key priority for everybody, including mothers of young children, became to earn their way through paid work, the social value of having and raising children diminished. Aspirational young people were to go to university, and others into work: those who chose parenthood were othered as “socially excluded”, outside of the norm. The emphasis on getting children particularly from poorer families into childcare compounded the idea that parents were ill-equipped to care for and socialise children in their all-important “early years”. The decision to have children was framed as an individualised act of careful self-actualisation, to be done only when one’s career and finances allowed it; and when the reality of “juggling” work and home could plausibly act as its own contraceptive. Childbearing became more of a choice than ever before, but one that was heavily hedged by the weight of that decision.

The policy mentality that prevailed through the New Labour years is summed up by David Blunkett, the former home secretary who is one of the few voices still defending the spirit of the two-child benefit cap. Referring to an article he wrote in 2001, in which he cautioned people not to “see the Government as an ATM machine”, Lord Blunkett recently told The Telegraph:

“It’s a combination of government support and personal responsibility. So if things go wrong, and you have more than two children, then we need to help. But we also need people to think seriously — can I, at this moment, afford a third, fourth or fifth child? We need to help, but we need people to also accept some level of responsibility themselves.”

When New Labour finally left the building, the coalition and Conservative governments picked up the reins of the individualised family policy logic: only with less cash to go round. Mothers on benefits weren’t just “supported” into work: they were explicitly “unsupported” if they had more than two children. Middle-class parents had their own version of the cap, with the (equally misguided) introduction of means-testing to Child Benefit. If one parent earned more than £50,000 per year, the once-universal child benefit payment would be reduced: so while a dual-earning couple could bring home just under £100,000 and have the full benefit, a breadwinner earning £51,000 would receive less. Any pretensions the Conservatives might have had to be the party of the traditional family quickly withered.

What we are left with now is a policy framework that, whether explicitly or implicitly, penalises people of all social classes for having children. This is deeply ironic given the economic anxieties about the affordability of welfare provision in a time of sustained low birthrates, where it has been suggested that Britons may need to work until their early seventies in order for anybody to be able to retire. But a bigger problem is what this says about the value society places on its own reproduction and renewal.

As pronatalists have learned over history, policy cannot directly encourage people to have more children than they want — and nor should it try. But policy can help families with some of the practical, material pressures that come with procreation, and transmit a positive message about why kids are good for us all. If we don’t support people to have the children they want, we can scarcely blame them for not having the children we need.


Dr Jennie Bristow is a sociologist of generations and author of Stop Mugging Grandma


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Arkadian Arkadian
Arkadian Arkadian
3 months ago

“such an unpopular, mean-spirited policy as the two-child cap”
My understanding is that it isn’t unpopular at all, or so we were told by journalists during the election campaign.

Dennis Roberts
Dennis Roberts
3 months ago

There was an article on the BBC with a comments section yesterday – large majority of upvotes for comments wanting to keep the policy.

Dennis Roberts
Dennis Roberts
3 months ago

“But policy can help families with some of the practical, material pressures that come with procreation, and transmit a positive message about why kids are good for us all. If we don’t support people to have the children they want, we can scarcely blame them for not having the children we need.”

Childcare costs far more than child benefit provides, so it makes little difference to parents in work. Removing the two-child cap therefore seems to me to be about helping parents not in work.

Fundamentally I’d far rather see any help directed to those that would like one or two children but don’t have any because it’s too expensive, not to those that want large families.

Dennis Roberts
Dennis Roberts
3 months ago

‘When the key priority for everybody, including mothers of young children, became to earn their way through paid work, the social value of having and raising children diminished. Aspirational young people were to go to university, and others into work: those who chose parenthood were othered as “socially excluded”, outside of the norm. ‘

Hello feminism!

Christopher Barry
Christopher Barry
3 months ago
Reply to  Dennis Roberts

Our society is objectively better for women and men being equal in the workplace. Baby and bathwater and all that…

Dennis Roberts
Dennis Roberts
3 months ago

That may be so, but it has consequences and one of those is the lower ‘value’ placed on family / motherhood that the paragraph I quoted described. Why not point out that the drive to get more women in the workforce has meant women are increasingly considered valuable for their contribution to the economy and not for being a mother? It’s not noted enough in my opinion.

Dennis Roberts
Dennis Roberts
3 months ago

This was Labour’s first test of whether the left of the party would be able to exert enough influence to turn on the money taps. They look to have been soundly defeated and shows the advantage Keir has with such a large majority.

Stuart Bennett
Stuart Bennett
3 months ago

Pay for your own children. You already get free healthcare and free education and you expect free bread and milk as well?

Arkadian Arkadian
Arkadian Arkadian
3 months ago
Reply to  Stuart Bennett

I must confess I never understood the meaning of child benefit.
When my kids were in primary we benefitted from free school meals too and now free bus passes (we are in Scotland), but although we are not rich, we are by no means poor and we could well afford all of the above.

Stuart Bennett
Stuart Bennett
3 months ago

The belief you are entitled to other people’s money so you can have life the way you want it is risible. Having a child you alone or at the most you and your immediate family aren’t able to provide for is the most selfish act I can conceive of. I mean that from point of view of the child you have brought into the world.

Billy Bob
Billy Bob
3 months ago
Reply to  Stuart Bennett

No doubt you’ll claim the pension though? You’ll be happy to take the tax money paid by those children to make your retirement more comfortable?
If you resent helping children at the start of their lives, why should they pay to look after you at the end of yours?

Stuart Bennett
Stuart Bennett
3 months ago
Reply to  Billy Bob

Nice try, but you’re sidestepping my point rather than addressing it. Whataboutism is exhausted.

Billy Bob
Billy Bob
3 months ago
Reply to  Stuart Bennett

Why is it? Why shouldn’t we help young families give their children as good a start as we can?
Why are you against helping struggling youngsters but seemingly in favour of helping pensioners?

Douglas Redmayne
Douglas Redmayne
3 months ago

People should only have children if they can afford them. Ideally that means no child benefit and forcing private payment for maternity services. Education should still be provided free by the state as should contraception and abortion facilities for those too poor.

Billy Bob
Billy Bob
3 months ago

That’s getting dangerously close to eugenics there Ayn Rand

J Dunne
J Dunne
3 months ago

The comment I hear most about this from people in everyday life is that the only families having more than two children on any meaningful scale these days are Muslims. Which means that getting rid of the cap will simply help to fund the replacement of indigenous Brits.

That is why the cap is widely popular.

Most young people I know struggle to afford to have any children at all, such is the cost of housing, so taking away their right to have more than two doesn’t bother them at all. You may as well be telling them they’re not allowed to own more than two Ferraris.

Kathleen Burnett
Kathleen Burnett
3 months ago

The proposal is that women have a right to as many children as they want. This is fine if the woman is in an isolated self-supporting environment. But she’s not. She is in a society where there is a compact involving shared rights and responsibilities.

Point of Information
Point of Information
3 months ago

To reapply the Terry Pratchett quote used by R Shrimsley in the FT yesterday: “No practical definition of freedom would be complete without the freedom to take the consequences. Indeed, it is the freedom upon which all the others are based.”

Applies to the choice to have children and the choice not to have them – both have consequences and costs, but if it is a personal choice then it should also entail personal responsibility.

Robbie K
Robbie K
3 months ago

There are two issues here:
First, it’s interesting that Starmer is dismissing the ‘broad church’ of traditional Labour and continuing his Machiavellian approach to purging the left.
Second is this

What we are left with now is a policy framework that, whether explicitly or implicitly, penalises people of all social classes for having children.

Just the type of reverse wrong think that is filtering into society from the likes of DEI.
People are not ‘penalised for having children’.

Christopher Barry
Christopher Barry
3 months ago
Reply to  Robbie K

I’m with John Ashworth on the first point. Starmer is not refusing ever to scrap the cap, but he wants to do a review into child policy and that would be an option. On that basis, the MPs’ rebellion was impatient.

In the second point, I get your point. And maybe we need a cultural rethink of how expensive it really is to have children? Speaking as a dad, I think there is a lot of pressure to buy the best for children: prams, clubs, tutors, theme park holidays…. Sure, there is a cost, but let’s start a conversation about whether it does need to be as expensive as it often is for children to get “the best in life”.

David Morley
David Morley
3 months ago

women are subjugated according to their social class

As an issue this has lower pulling power for feminists on the Labour benches than « violence against women and girls ». It may leave families struggling, but it just doesn’t have the same neat fit with a narrative of patriarchal oppression.

Starmer needs to keep a large number of feminists on side if he is to succeed. VAWG can buy him that support. Extending benefits to third children simply would not have. Once the policy was changed it would simply go away as an issue. VAWG will keep on giving.

John Riordan
John Riordan
3 months ago

“…has become a totemic image of evil Tory policy, symbolising a simultaneous attack on poor people and women’s bodies.”

Really? Women’s bodies are under attack because the women in question can’t have unlimited access to other people’s money?

How stupid does even a Progressive need to be in order to believe something like this?

Sean Lothmore
Sean Lothmore
3 months ago

Surely the point of a nation, community, or tribe is to create a safe social structure for people to raise children. If we forget that we are just engaged in playtime. Our ancestors going back tens of thousands of years understand that, which is why we are here now.
Going back more than 3 generations in my family tree almost all of my ancestors had 5 or more children. Most of them survived to adulthood. There was no benefits system but somehow they could ‘afford’ to have children.They could feed, clothe, and house them on a single income. Either we scrap the two-child cap, or make having children ‘affordable’. Otherwise we must accept a black-death level demographic collapse in a couple of decades.

Santiago Saefjord
Santiago Saefjord
3 months ago
Reply to  Sean Lothmore

Unfortunately Sean, people don’t care. All they care about is ‘freedom’, ‘responsibility’ and ‘fiscal conservatism’. Which really translates to: I’m doing fine, so who cares about the whiners.

That’s why so many Brits have left the UK. Those ancestors could afford to have kids because affordable housing was more ubiquitous and protected by the state. Believe it or not social housing use to mean a house for life, it was hard to remove someone legally in most situations as compared to modern private renting law. Here’s a good breakdown:

“Whilst business lettings remained largely unaffected, housing was strongly influenced by social legislation. Life-time security of tenure, strict rent controls and public sector housing provision created an environment that was generally hostile to private landlords. ” https://www.landlordzone.co.uk/news/landlording-a-history

Taxed to death, taxed for having children, starved in a real estate market that only works for kidults who stay at home for five years to save for a mortgage or supported by the bank of mum and dad. Doesn’t work for anyone who isn’t middle class or whose parents force them out of the house.

It’s okay though, I took my freedom, responsibility and conservatism to the USA. In sure it will work out better for me here.

Christopher Barry
Christopher Barry
3 months ago
Reply to  Sean Lothmore

Good point about affordability of parenting. I think that there is a lot of pressure on parents to spend money on their children to have “the best”. (I am a parent of young children currently.) We should start talking about what is really necessary for children to be loved. Not the whole solution: I know that for some people (who are in work), even the basics are a struggle.

Ash Sangamneheri
Ash Sangamneheri
3 months ago

Excellent article. I think the 2 child cap seems sensible. Perhaps as society we need to provide better support for having two children than just having more children… quality over quantity.

Norfolk Sceptic
Norfolk Sceptic
3 months ago

You mean, like having schools that don’t stray into woke ideology?

Christopher Barry
Christopher Barry
3 months ago

How does that relate?

I see lots of the word “woke” in the comments in general. It seems to embody general progressive woes without having much concrete meaning any more. Not entirely in the spirit of UnHerd, resisting crowd-think, surely?

Tyler Durden
Tyler Durden
3 months ago

This new government are merely Eurofederalists getting the UK ready for the single currency. All the old rules of alignment apply and take priority, the Growth and Stability Pact etc.

Arkadian Arkadian
Arkadian Arkadian
3 months ago

OT
I wonder why the number of votes to the various comments get zeroed after a while these days.
/OT

Utter
Utter
3 months ago

Yes, it used to be after a few days, now more quickly. Either a glitch or a feature. The latter could be in response to bots boosting numbers – up to a few months ago there was a relatively even spread of ups and downs, now scores such as 80 up, 0 down are quite common.

David Lindsay
David Lindsay
3 months ago

Scrapping the two-child benefit cap is Labour Party policy. This non-legislative amendment called only for progress towards that. Yet support for that amendment has incurred suspension of the whip. They are better off without it. But even so.

“Don’t have children unless you can afford them”? (I have none, by the way.) What if your circumstances changed? Redundancy, say? Or illness? That is why we have a Welfare State. Lifting the two-child benefit cap would cost only as much as we were already sending to Ukraine. Where has the money for that come from?

59 per cent of the families affected by the two-child benefit cap have at least one parent in work, and many have both. Why is there any such thing as in-work poverty? If you want to take down benefit scroungers, then look to the people who use the State to make up their refusal to pay their staff the rate for the job.

HS2 is back in the news. Someone has had the £700 million that it cost to send four volunteers to Rwanda, a scheme on which the eventual intention was to spend £10 billion. The Covid Corruption Commissioner will have more than enough to be getting on with. We have been paying £400 million per year to rent the Bibby Stockholm, a 48-year-old engineless barge that cannot be worth more than a few million pounds. Political kickbacks? What do you think? And so on, and on, and on, and on, and on. Let no one say that there is no money.

The Conservatives introduced the wretched two-child benefit cap, yet even they abstained rather than vote to keep it. So did Reform UK. All four stripes of Unionist from Northern Ireland voted to scrap it, as did the Alliance Party and the Liberal Democrats. To have voted to keep the cap was to be to the right of all of those. 361 Labour MPs were.

42 Labour MPs did not vote. Some, such as Keir Starmer, were obviously absent, but several were in the chamber, while at least two more were ill but would have voted the right way if they had been there. Over to them to resign the whip in solidarity. What are they waiting for? What could they possibly expect to get out of this Government? To wild applause, Ian Lavery denounced the two-child benefit cap from the platform of this month’s Durham Miners’ Gala. Over to him.

Allison Barrows
Allison Barrows
3 months ago

My husband and I married in our early 20s but didn’t have our first child until nine years later, when we could afford to. We waited another three to have our second child, and stopped there, but, had we been financially able to, we’d have gone on to have a third.

No one gave us money to have our two kids.

Billy Bob
Billy Bob
3 months ago

Then that’s a rather sad indictment of society wouldn’t you agree? You had to wait until you were in your thirties before it was financially viable to start a family, and had to stop before you were ready because of financial restraints.
And we wonder why the birth rate has fallen so far below replacement level

UnHerd Reader
UnHerd Reader
3 months ago

If Labour really believe that work is good for you, then why do they punish everyone by taxing and shifting money around? One of the simplest, most successful policies of the Coalition government was to raise the tax threshold. It means everyone, including and especially lower earners got to keep more of their cash (and thus have a greater incentive to work)

What Labour have always done, and which Gordon Brown finnesed to an art form, was to make the tax and welfare system unfair, complex and indeed labyrinthine. In effect, they create an insanely complicated loop of money where their quango mates in various depts can collect their fees before giving it back. All under the guise of ‘making work pay’, or as earlier lefties would call it, ‘wealth distribution’

It’s utter sleight of hand nonsense, and it annoys me every time I think of it. To come back to the point of the article, their would be a lot less need for things like child benefit if taxes were lower and simpler. But then the infinite nest of quangos and gov depts wouldn’t get their cut. And Labour accuse the Tories of nepotism and ‘jobs for the boys’. Hypocrites as always.

Howard Clegg
Howard Clegg
3 months ago

There’s no fecking money, there’s no fecking money, there’s no fecking money. I’ve lost count of the number of times they said this pre July 4. Are these people deaf or are they just making some obscure partisan point to the “hated’ leadership? I suspect the latter.

David Lindsay
David Lindsay
3 months ago

There was one Conservative rebel, but Labour was the only party to vote to retain the two-child benefit cap, making it the most right-wing party in the House of Commons. The arguments being made by the Government’s outriders are in favour of that cap in principle, backed by the false claim that its retention had been a Labour manifesto pledge.

It is also false to claim that the Magnificent Seven had voted against the King’s Speech itself, or that Rebecca Long-Bailey had “challenged” Keir Starmer for the Labour Leadership in 2020 as if he had been the incumbent. It is inconceivable that the Seven might be permitted to stand as Labour candidates in 2029, so they should say now that they would not take the whip if it were offered.

Abstainers who have gone on record that the cap ought eventually to be lifted are already being told the same thing, that their cards have been marked. They, too, should act accordingly. Any performative leftishness that the Labour Party might still tolerate should be left to the likes of Clive Lewis, who went through all that palaver over the Oath before voting against a call for a measure that would immediately have lifted 300,000 children out of poverty while improving the circumstances of a further 700,000, giving one million in all.

The Government’s taskforce on child poverty has no timetable, no terms of reference, and no membership beyond being co-chaired by Liz Kendall, which speaks for itself, and by Bridget Phillipson, who is at least a second generation figure of the right-wing Labour machine in the North East of England, making her a member of one of the great Brahmin castes of Europe. In 2015, if Andy Burnham had voted against the introduction of the two-child benefit cap rather than obeying Harriet Harman’s order to abstain, then Jeremy Corbyn would not have become the Leader of the Labour Party. That cap is therefore totemic to the Labour Right, a tribal marker and absolutely sacrosanct.

Annette Lawson
Annette Lawson
2 months ago

I agree totally and we must all start talking and thinking – “children are a good for us all”, and not just babies over whom most can and do coo.

Angus Douglas
Angus Douglas
2 months ago

Sorry, I refuse to read an article that has such a ridiculous headline. I don’t care how much you want to bring Starmer low, but he is not making war against mothers.