I have been doing some online dating recently which gives you a lot of practice both in presenting yourself and in noticing tribal politics in other people.
I was having a friendly online chat with one woman and she asked me what I thought of Boris Johnson. As this was the Guardian’s online dating site and she had described herself as a socialist I assumed there was likely to be a correct and an incorrect answer here. But as I was quite interested in her I tried to be truthful in the least off-putting manner.
I said I had voted Remain but think we should respect the Brexit vote and I would certainly consider voting Tory if Boris Johnson stood the best chance of bringing the country together around a One Nation programme, perhaps not that different from the 2017 Tory election programme (shorn of the silly bits on adult care).
Pre-empting her own tribal thinking I also added that I don’t think you can read off peoples’ attitudes and behaviour in everyday life from their voting decisions. I know arrogant, selfish socialists and generous, self-effacing Tories.
Alas, I never heard from her again.
Life is so much more interesting when you cannot predict someone’s views on pretty much everything from the way they are dressed or what they think of Boris Johnson.
For many years I have been quoting the American political thinker Daniel Bell who when asked for his political credo back in the 1980s said: “I am a social democrat in economics, a liberal in politics and somewhat conservative on social and cultural issues.” It is more or less my credo too.
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