‘One senses a feeling of hopelessness.' Spencer Platt / Getty Images

According to the Declaration of Independence, Americans possess “certain unalienable Rights… among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness”. Life and liberty are self-explanatory, but “pursuit of happiness” often confuses people. According to the eminent historian Arthur Schlesinger, this doesn’t mean chasing happiness, but rather actually enjoying it. In short, the Declaration states categorically that Americans have an “unalienable right” to be happy. That’s significant, especially since, according to a recent poll, two in five Americans aren’t happy and 17% want to move abroad to rediscover that elusive emotion.
The survey found that 5% of the 2,000 participants are actively investigating emigration, while 2% have started the formal process. Just to put this in perspective, 2% of the American population is about seven million people. The effects of this exodus are already apparent in the UK, where over 6,100 Americans applied for British citizenship last year, the most since records began and 26% more than the previous year. The increase is even higher in Ireland, where applications rose by 46% over one year.
Back in September, my niece was shot at while travelling on Interstate 5 near Seattle. Two family members were hit, though both have recovered, physically at least. The assailant was suffering from severe paranoia, convinced that drivers on the highway were chasing him. He fired at five other cars, causing serious injuries. The day before, he had sought help from police and social services, but was turned away. Frustrated, he got a gun, as one does in America.
Since the shooting, the spectre of that masked gunman continues to torment. With life suddenly precarious, my niece and her husband are musing about moving to a safer country, like Canada or the UK. I doubt that it will come to anything, but it’s nevertheless significant that a quintessentially American family is even thinking about upping roots. As that survey suggests, they’re not alone.
I’m not interested in discussing America’s obsession with guns. That will never change. The core issue instead is the American quality of life — the point at which things become intolerable for some people, for any number of reasons. In the past, when Americans grew concerned about employment or housing or crime, they moved to another state. Now, they have run out of boltholes in America, and are talking seriously about leaving the country. What does this mean for the ethos of America, a place that was once Eden for the hungry, huddled masses?
According to the poll, 65% described American society as “toxic”. A similar number complained about “divisiveness”. More specific concerns related to healthcare, education, job opportunities, the cost of living, and the work-life balance. Stated simply, these people feel that they’re having to work too hard for fewer real rewards. The threat of bankruptcy is ever present, even for those in good jobs. More than 100 million Americans are currently carrying medical debt, with over 40% of cancer patients filing for bankruptcy within two years of diagnosis.
The poll also found that discontent seems to be deep-seated and is not simply a knee-jerk reaction to a second Trump presidency. A sense of alienation has instead been building for some time, perhaps compounded by the failure of the Biden administration to address the core concerns of the discontented. Perhaps not surprisingly, dissatisfaction is highest among Millennials, with 25% of that group expressing a desire to emigrate. This can probably be explained by the fact that crippling student debt renders it difficult for this generation to replicate the standard of living enjoyed by their parents.
That said, Trump’s victory in November exacerbated the discontent felt by those already unhappy. Previously, the loss of an election was tolerated like a bad winter or a leaky roof. Time, it was assumed, would bring relief. In contrast, this election seems existential to many Americans, something that strikes at the very core of how they perceive themselves and their country. One senses a feeling of hopelessness, an inability to do anything to resist Trump’s malicious power, bolstered as he is by a sympathetic Congress and a cabinet of sycophants.
In the days after the election, Google searches on topics relating to emigrating were 15 times higher than before November 5. Traffic on sites providing information on moving to New Zealand, the most popular destination, was 76 times higher. Bureaucracy.es, a firm that provides advice on the visa process in Spain, found that three times as many people were booking consultations as before the election. Marco Permunian of Italian Citizenship Assistance asked his staff to arrive early on the day after the election. The phones in his office started ringing at 6AM and didn’t stop.
Since the election, fears have been realised; many Americans are experiencing genuine harm to their quality of life because of the flurry of budget cuts and executive orders. The DOGE raids on federal government agencies have resulted in thousands of professionals suddenly finding themselves out of work. Despite Trump’s campaign promises, the price of food has not come down, and costs are likely to rise even higher as a result of recently imposed tariffs. Robert Kennedy’s erratic behaviour at the Department of Health and Human Services represents a clear threat to American well-being, as do the drastic cuts to the budget of the National Institute of Health, where cutting-edge cancer research takes place.
One unexpected effect of the Trump presidency is the sense of shame that many Americans now feel. The cuts to USAID, the agency responsible for administering aid to poor countries, seem cruel and niggardly. That sense of shame was compounded exponentially by the recent treatment of Ukraine and Trump’s alarming friendship with Putin. Across social media, a lament echoes: “I’ve never been so ashamed to be an American.”
Disgruntled Americans seem to think that they’ll be welcomed wherever they want to go, an attitude that perhaps reflects their sense of entitlement. In fact, all countries limit immigration, just like the US does. Some, however, are recognising the advantages of offering residence permits to highly trained Americans — just the sort that the US can ill afford to lose. A Spanish scheme is directed at the self-employed, particularly in tech industries, who can easily move their business to Spain. Portugal has a Golden Visa programme open to those willing to invest €500,000 immediately, or donate €250,000 to a Portuguese charity. The scheme advertises heavily on social media, highlighting Portugal’s great food, pleasant weather, low crime rate and absence of guns.
It’s easy to dismiss this interest in emigration as the typical whining of disgruntled liberals; they’re derided as snowflakes accustomed to getting their own way. In any case, there’s a big difference between talking about leaving and actually doing it. Despite what that poll suggests, I doubt that seven million Americans will actually leave in the near future. The complexities of pulling up roots, leaving family behind, negotiating the intricate visa process and actually finding a new home will undoubtedly cause a good number to abandon the idea and instead just wallow in discontent.
The important point, however, is not that people will actually leave the US but rather that they’re seriously talking about doing so. That’s what’s unprecedented. There’s been a lot of coverage of this trend in the mainstream media of late, but nearly every writer misses a crucial point: America is not supposed to be a place that people want to leave. It has built its reputation on being the promised land, the apogee of ambition.
When I was growing up in southern California, I was taught that America was the best country on earth. It was the land of the free, as if freedom didn’t really exist elsewhere. That’s what everyone is still taught; it’s the American Gospel. The myth is reinforced by the fact that most Americans don’t travel outside the US and those who do often fail to immerse themselves in different cultures. Comfortable in a cocoon of imagined exceptionalism, they find it difficult to recognise that freedom and prosperity might exist elsewhere.
When Americans spend an extended time abroad, however, a transformation often takes place. I witnessed that when I taught at the University of St Andrews, where around 20% of my students were American. They arrived as quintessential Yanks — self-righteous and confident — but their certainties were gradually undermined. At the end of their four-year degree they’d come to a realisation that America was not uniquely perfect. Every year, some would ask for advice about how to stay in Britain. I was supposed to be an authority, having travelled the same path decades before, when it was, however, much easier.
My mother, after arriving in America from the Netherlands in 1950, had the quintessential immigrant experience: she worked long hours, put her five kids through university, brought a house. She believed that America had been good to her. Then, late in life, she visited her birthplace and found that her old friends enjoyed a better quality of life. They didn’t have to worry about retirement, or crippling medical debt, or getting shot. She began to wonder whether she’d made a big mistake. Perhaps fortunately, dementia kept her from witnessing her entire net worth disappear down the healthcare sinkhole.
Over the last few decades, Americans have experienced some illuminating failures — in healthcare, gun violence, education, housing and the quality of life. The open-minded among them are exploring better options elsewhere. That, I suppose, is to be expected of a people who believe in their unalienable right to be happy. Supremely confident, Trump has told the discontented that if they’re not happy, they should just leave. Stay tuned, Mr President, they might just do so. For some people, realising the American dream might require leaving America.
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SubscribeSo the author of this piece, an “emeritus professor of history”, would do well to remember that just a few short months ago the “malicious” President of the USA was elected by a majority of citizens via the democratic process.
There are many points that could be made about his essay, and some of them might even be sympathetic to what he says, yet i’ll ask just one question; why was it, does he think, that the US electorate so thoroughly rejected the Democrat campaign and all it purported to stand for, i.e. another, even more vacuous dose of progressive liberalism? Does he consider that might have anything to do with why so many Americans are unhappy?
I was in America during the election campaign last autumn. Trump did not win the election, the Democrats lost it. Important distinction. No one I met was enthused by either candidate: “300 million of us, and these two are the best on offer?”
Just you wait. Trump’s honeymoon with the voters will be as short as Starmer’s.
That may happen, but the question posed in my second paragraph (and to which you allude) is entirely ignored in this article: namely, why the Dems lost, and if that wasn’t at least as much responsible for the unhappiness as his railings against Trump.
The professor, like practically all Dems, has no interest in why the party lost. These are people incapable of self-awareness or introspection. It never occurred to them that their ideas are not popular or that their candidate was seen as barely functioning or that Trumpists were wildly enthusiastic. Dems called voters racist and misogynist for not supporting the poorly qualified female racial minority, as if those three words represent an accomplishment. They refuse to learn. That’s too bad. They need to learn. A healthy republic requires a yin AND a yang.
Narcisists often can’t connect their prior actions to the reactions of others. All their narratives start in the middle of the real story. So “a lady here yelled at me today…I hate this place” is the story from them. What is either untold or disconnected from the story is that they kicked the lady’s dog…
The writer leaves us with a disconnected narrative because he hates Trump and can’t see or say anything good about him, even though there is plenty of evidence that Trump’s actions and policies are to resolve prior failures of the liberals.
My position is one of balence. Trump is a mixed bag.
So you were visiting America, spoke to a few people and have a lock on its psyche. Hope you know how silly that sounds.
“Trump did not win the election, the Democrats lost it. ”
Nope. Trump won the second-highest number of votes ever recorded in a presidential election. (The highest was recorded by the charismatic Joseph Robinette Biden in the mail-in election of 2020.) He won the popular vote. He won all swing states. 99.5% of all counties swung right. A record number of people cast republican votes for the first time ever.
That is as emphatic a win as you are likely to see in your lifetime.
Not really. By any historical standards a narrow win. Though a clear and decisive one.
But DM’s comment has some merit – neither candidate really did enough to win. The worst one lost – and deservedly so. Same as in the UK where Starmer/Labour “won” far less than Sunak/Tories lost.
I suspect we’ll look back and note that early 2025 was “peak Trump” before disillusionment and reality set in.
To the article – I doubt there will be a significant exodus of Americans.
Depends on how successful he is. So far he has done more for the us than Biden in 2 months.
We would also all do well to remember that Adolf, Putin, Erdogan, Mussolini, Stalin, Chavez, Ortega, Duterte and Maduro were all elected to power through a democratic process before taking over democracy.
I agree with you about the useless Dems though but it doesn’t mean that the current alternative is OK either.
The election was Hobson’s Choice.
“Despite Trump’s campaign promises, the price of food has not come down” after almost three months in office! Emeritus professor of history? How did that happen? Perhaps tribal instinct and a rampant amygdala turns our brains to mush?
Actually the price of eggs did just drop. So…
You don’t understand! This is just an unfortunate coincidence that shouldn’t be paid attention to
He grew up in California, that insane place divided between postmodern Liberal-Left White Elites, and below poverty ethnic majority; where the sidewalks are owned by the fentanyl using homeless, crime and drugs are legal, schools teach gender-dysphoria and cultural guilt as the main curriculum, and universities mostly teach diversity studies and d***o polishing for $200,000 of student debt, $300,000 if taken to PhD.
Then his relatives live in Seattle (a suburb of Vancouver and San Francisco), which does not even need describing as all know what the mad Dems have done to that once wonderful place….
And so he says his ilk in USA with to form up a mass Diaspora and move out to change old and amazing places in the world into the nightmare dystopias they made of the paradises they wrecked, as one supposes he is busy doing in St Andrews.
DO NOT LET THESE LOONS INTO YOUR COUNTRIES!
haha, love the TDS from above
””Trump’s malicious power, bolstered as he is by a sympathetic Congress and a cabinet of sycophants.””
But it would take pages to even begin on that….
Indeed. Most February statistics have yet to be released and then will be subject to revision so the “three months in office” thing (it was only just two months as of yesterday) is more than a tad tendentious.
Give me a break. The EU is clearly a better place if you are unambiguous and have inherited wealth. Or you don’t want to work at all, especially in the UK. But 50% of all immigrants at the turn of the 20th century returned to their country of origin because the quality of life was better. The people who stayed like the Jews had no choice. In any event, here in Texas, the moving vans arrive daily with hard working people seeking prosperity.
“ In the past, when Americans grew concerned about employment or housing or crime, they moved to another state.”
They’re still doing so. Perhaps the author is unaware of the recent and significant population increases in Texas, Florida, South Carolina, Utah, Tennessee, North Carolina, Idaho, Arizona, et al. Spend a little time on the Gulf Coast of Florida if you want to find friendly, polite people who mostly seem happy. Just be nice and you’ll be welcome regardless of your politics.
This is not new; it has been happening for some time. Look at YouTube – the place is full of channels with expats, slow travelers, and assorted nomads. Many of these folks retirees so remote work holds no candle for them. My wife and I have looked at it. When living in Greece or Thailand or wherever else can be done at 60% of the cost, it makes perfect sense, especially if you’re good with the culture of whatever destination is picked.
Bye bye.
You’re describing the rich technocrats to a tee.
Portugal is another destination.
I’m describing plenty of people with limited means, some with no more than social security.
I’m not judging, and rich is a relative term. I believe people make the best decisions for themselves. In fact I think it is the basis of a moral society.
It is a process though. You get better at making decisions over time. The first step is to find out that people around you can help you make good decisions. As surprising as that sounds to my kids.
Portugal won’t be welcoming for much longer. The influx of wealthy expats is pushing house prices beyond the means of locals. The influx of poor immigrants is also lowering their wages.
Frustrated, he got a gun, as one does in America.
I know the first thing I do in the morning is reach for my gun.
One must now, after the Liberal Left let in 22 million unvetted illegals, and have legalized crime.
I propose that the USA and Canada do an exchange. All the Americans who feel they would be better off in Canada because America is turning into a totalitarian hellhole because of the evil orange man can trade citizenship with all the Canadians who feel that Canada is turning into a socialist hellhole sliding towards all-out communism. I wonder which country would get the more productive citizens and thus the better end of that deal. Hmm…
I’d be happy if I could buy a double gin and tonic on a Canadian flight……
7 million have “started the process” – while 6100 have applied to the UK. Now I know we may not be first choice but 6100 is less than 0.1% of 7 million.
Count me highly sceptical of that 7 million…
maybe the other 699,3900 of them are checking out people smugglers and rubber rafts; get free accommodation and a cell phone to begin the process of settling in.
This could be from the Daily Beast or Salon.
It’s not liberals only, and it’s not Americans only. There is an industry of consultants helping Westerners relocate on continents other than North America and Europe, be it to escape high taxes, heavy regulations, wokeness or trumpism. And there is a plethora of consulting firms whipping up the discontent on YouTube, especially Nomad Capitalist and Wealthy Expat.
OK. Let me see…Which is America’s biggest problem? People wanting to leave or people wanting to get in?
Might be worth thinking about the earning power / tax-paying potential of each group respectively. That said, the US economy needs migrant labour so I suspect we’ll see the numbers remain steady in spite of the 47th president’s bluster.
The us taxes Americans where ever they live.
Fantastic article—thank you. I admit I’m among those eyeing leaving the US. Relationship experts say that ‘contempt’ is the only emotion that can’t be recovered from.
Liberals go public with their desire to flee the US whenever anyone to the right of Bernie Sanders gets elected. Unfortunately, this is the most frequent broken promise in US politics. There are still here, and still as annoying as ever. This year, they have apparently moved on from painting swastikas on synagogues to burning Tesla dealerships. Please, please, take them off our hands. They will love your censorship and run-down medical wards.
I’m not subscribing to Unherd anymore. It’s just full of leftists like seemingly every other print magazine on the web. Done with this leftist, narcissistic stupidity.
Translation: I want my preconceived ideas to be shouted back at me, I don’t want to read anything written by somebody who may see the world differently.
One blatantly stupid article doesn’t condemn UnHerd in my opinion. I think the editors here occasionally throw us one of these mindless pieces just to see if we are awake. There are plenty of thoughtful articles from many perspectives that make UnHerd worth subscribing to.
Quite. Refuting an article with which you disagree is harder work, and better for your mental muscles, then consuming friendly confirmations of your prejudices.
There may even be the odd nugget of previously unknown fact or opinion with which you realise you agree, and end up learning something new.
Therein lies the problem. More cultish members such as Jim don’t want to learn anything new, they’re just happy in their own echo chambers and they don’t want anything to spoil it
“Across social media, a lament echoes: “I’ve never been so ashamed to be an American.”
Presumably that’s what 70+ million Trump voters felt before the election too.
“More than 100 million Americans are currently carrying medical debt, with over 40% of cancer patients filing for bankruptcy within two years of diagnosis.” – that’s a frightening statistic, certainly for anyone from Europe, where our darned ‘socialistic’ medicine protects us from such horror.
Agreed. For all the faults of the NHS (and there are plenty) it’s cheaper per head, everybody is covered and doesn’t leave you with crippling debts simply because you got ill or had a baby.
Unless you don’t get timely treatment then you may wish you could have seen a doctor sooner.
It may not leave you with crippling debts but it may leave you cripplingly dead, because you couldn’t get a timely cancer diagnosis (I speak from family experience). A better comparison to the broken American system would be the continental healthcare model.
The unsubstantiated assertion the author makes is easily fact-checked and is off by orders of magnitude.
See my fact check a dozen comments below.
You don’t get out of life with anything.
We’ve got Rosie O’Donnell.
Canada has less guns but all the criminals have them a plenty. Shootings in Toronto are very common. The important distinction from the US is that you’re not allowed to protect yourself especially if you happen to own a gun, and police will not protect you either, they won’t even come unless you convince 911 that you’re actually at this very moment being stabbed or shot.
And unfortunately much of western Europe is following Sweden as far as gun (and bomb) violence is concerned. And does the USA have to put concrete barriers across pedestrian zones and Christmas markets to deter Islamist car and truck attacks?
Not enough data here on which to draw conclusions. After five years are those emigrants still abroad? Self sufficient? Retirees? Youth? Skilled? Unskilled? What were there reasons for emigrating and how did they get themselves into such a mindset? Maybe it is healthy that citizens have alternative options or opportunities for adventures. But will they find something better or just more of the same? Americans are notoriously naive and uninformed about the “outside” world. Interesting research but much more room for further study.
I grew up in a working class suburb about a mile south of Detroit, no murders or stabbing, even today. I have lived in an affluent part of London and people are shot and stabbed on a regular basis, they invariably know each other and this is still a peaceful neighbourhood. Extrapolating from a violent incident to categories an entire country as unsafe is illogical. In addition the USA is the size of Europe. Europe has barely found a period without open armed conflict, from the Balkans to the Baltic, from Basques to Corsicans, Irish freedom fighters and sickeningly regular Islamic terror attacks. Good luck finding peace by moving to a different continent, it might be easier to live in a quiet neighbourhood, they exist everywhere, stay away from the frontline.
Assertion
“More than 100 million Americans are currently carrying medical debt, with over 40% of cancer patients filing for bankruptcy within two years of diagnosis.”
FACT CHECK: FALSE A new KFF analysis of government data estimates that nearly 1 in 10 adults (9%) – or roughly 23 million people – owe medical debt in excess of $250.
Assertion
“with over 40% of cancer patients filing for bankruptcy within two years of diagnosis.”
FACT CHECK: FALSE
Per https://www.thelancet.com/journals/lanonc/article/PIIS1470-2045(13)70249-3/abstract 2·2% of the 197 840 individuals who were diagnosed with cancer during this period filed for bankruptcy after diagnosis; in the control group, the bankruptcy rate was 1·2%.
Thanks for providing a fact check over some of the absurd statistics trotted out by this TDS ranting professor. His article is almost worthless as a piece of analysis but at least provides a forum below the line to dissect some of his absurdities. As is often the case the more interesting and balanced analysis appears in the comments.
“Over the last few decades, Americans have experienced some illuminating failures — in healthcare, gun violence, education, housing and the quality of life.”
And where is the supporting evidence for these assertions? For a supposed professor of history to make such statements without substantiation beggars belief.
One might just as easily say “Over the last few decades, the English have welcomed millions of immigrants with open arms and celebrated the illuminating successes this has created — in social cohesion, newly affordable housing, the creation of an unheard number of high-paying jobs and safer streets in the inner cities”.
We’ve discovered, since USAID was cut, that it was used as a method of exporting the Woke revolution from ‘progressive’ US Dems by funnelling US tax dollars to toxic UK organisations like Stonewall and Hope Not Hate.
As a UK citizen I approve of this action of Trump, as I suspect a majority of Americans do.
“One senses a feeling of hopelessness, an inability to do anything to resist Trump’s malicious power, bolstered as he is by a sympathetic Congress and a cabinet of sycophants.”
Today’s message in UnHerd from the TDS silo.
““One senses a feeling of hopelessness, an inability to do anything to resist Trump’s malicious power”
If the author had any honesty (which he doesn’t – see fact checks below) he would have written this in the first person singular.
Good riddance to those who want to leave, we have millions who want to come here, most of them preferable to you.
You can continue to bring in the desperate poor uneducated from South America who don’t know better, we can receive your educated skilled and frustrated people who want to leave that sinking ship. All those hundreds of thousands of people who are forced to go bankrupt due to medical bills speaks volumes
about how skrewed up the US is. And that’s just the tip of the iceberg. The maga fanatics need not apply, under Trump the US is headed for disaster and misery. It’s just the beginning. A big beautiful mess is coming, millions will want to leave.
Yes but, please tell me Mr. Canuck, where on the North American continent these political malcontents will be able to go once the U.S. owns Canada?
Well … Canada is six states and Greenland another – all probably Democrat, which should help matters in the Senate!
There is no ‘great American exodus’. This is laughable. We just had anywhere from 8 to 12 million illegally crash into the country during the Biden Administration. So cranky celebrities leave. We’re happy to see comedian Ellen DeGeneres go; she didn’t leave because of Trump- she crashed and burned herself in Hollywood. And miserable Ridie O’Donnell decamped to Ireland- good riddance. Cher, who has been promising to leave for years, remains in Hollywood. Methinks, the British should look inward at their own disfunction and observe the chaos within and their own citizens fleeing.
Guess who’s been in charge for 12 of the last 16 years. What a peevish and puerile article.
Unherd is off my list of renewable subscriptions, they’re proving over and over to be no different than the blob media.
Bye bye…
Unherd should put similar labels on their articles as supermarkets do on food. Articles with, say, unhealthy levels of TDS could be indicated bright red.
Know thy enemy. It’s the beauty of free speech, if you have ears.
This stuff sounds good to them . Why might that be?
Go shop your echo chamber somewhere else. I come here because like some other non-legacy medias, UnHerd shoots both sides.
“Frustrated, he got a gun, as one does in America.“
Er, no one doesn’t. Anecdote is not data.
Well I believe that there are more guns than people in the USA, it’s fairly easily to buy them, and some 40,000 gunshot deaths p.a., so it’s hardly a controversial statement.
If I remember correctly, most of these deaths are suicides.
Cucumbers are poison!
About half are suicides. Doesn’t really affect the position.
Buying a gun is a pain in the rear end, actually. Especially in a place like Seattle.