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Your boss doesn’t care about your feelings Faceless corporations are exploiting workers

"Your feelings are just one of many unpredictable variables." (The Office)

"Your feelings are just one of many unpredictable variables." (The Office)


April 4, 2024   6 mins

You’re at work one day when your company’s “wellness” department begins handing out “emoji” stickers with words like “frustrated”, “overwhelmed”, and “stressed” printed below their creepy yellow faces. No one uses them, of course. But the message is clear: “[Insert Faceless Corporation] cares about your feelings.”

I would venture that most people would find this scene, relayed to me by a friend, largely innocuous. At the risk of stating the obvious, faceless corporations don’t care about your mental health. And they don’t care about the “stigma” surrounding the expression of feelings. To them, your feelings are just one of many unpredictable variables that must be brought to light, their risks neutralised, managed and controlled.

Yet many on the Left have received the sudden and unprecedented attention to mental health over the past decade as a triumph. Unions, understandably seeking to protect workers from new work hazards, routinely demand attention to emotional wellbeing in the workplace; their student counterparts, meanwhile, have moved from the fight over fees to overseeing the expansion of “mental health” to include an ever-broadening array of human experience.

And in both cases, they are pushing at an open door. For ultimately, managerial jabber about breaking down stigmas is a thin veneer for their view of you as a liability. Your unruly emotions are a potential risk to business, institutions, even society as a whole — you could go off sick, you could go on strike, or you could otherwise be unpredictable in ways that hurt the bottom line. But the corporate obsession with mental health is only the most obvious and easy-to-critique manifestation of a much more profound societal malaise: our whole culture has shifted towards a deep and pervasive concern with human behaviour — to the point that humanity itself is a risk.

Every day, we are told that we are living in the “Anthropocene”, whereby the “irreversible impact of human activity” has permanently scarred this planet. Part of the story of how humanity got too big for its boots is its apparently erroneous belief in its own rationality. If we could approach people as they truly are — not the mythical rational subject of the 18th-century Enlightenment but as truly emotional beings — then we could harness our feelings and transform them from risks into assets. Maybe “climate anger” can be harnessed for climate activism, suggests one study. Maybe the “mindful consumer” can change the world, offers another.

As a good person, employee and citizen, you learn to consider that exercising your free will without the careful consultation of expertise as reckless. You must consider yourself not just as “at risk” but also “risky”. You should be perpetually insecure, constantly surveilling your inner world, and ready and willing to seek guidance when you find a problem. Core to this worldview is disclosure. You must not only be on the lookout for risky thoughts, feelings and behaviours in yourself and others, but must openly identify them since doing so opens the door to training.

Bupa, for example, enjoins us to “open up” and make “mental health a normal topic of conversation in the workplace”. Doing so entails four steps, the first two dealing with identifying and expressing potentially risky emotions and “issues”, and the latter two with “training” and “treatment”. Its “Managers guide” even recommends adding staff discussing their wellbeing as a standing agenda item in team meetings. Unilever suggests embedding “wellbeing ‘rituals’ into the everyday”. A mental health toolkit for construction workers states that a “sound mind = a safe site”. Those who do not disclose are a workplace safety hazard. Emote — then seek the rules, the guideline, the script.

At the heart of these initiatives lies a concerted effort to cultivate a new mindset among employees and citizens — one where individuals are encouraged to view their thoughts and feelings as risks, who bring their “whole self” to work so that it can be assessed for hazards that can be managed and controlled. This is a necessarily “inclusive” mission: your whole self includes the expression of everything about you. No one and nothing must escape the lens of the bureaucratic machine. Everyone, it’s time to talk.

“No one and nothing must escape the lens of the bureaucratic machine.”

But what are we supposed to talk about? Here, talking about your feelings is the only safe, neutral territory. Translate material problems into the language of feelings and these can be converted into something safer, something more productive, something less risky and unruly.

Of course, many interventions and advice for maintaining mental health are harmless in and of themselves, and will undoubtedly help many people. But populations have been doing this for decades — and there doesn’t appear to be a movement of “mindful consumers” changing the world, or young people with self-esteem so high it’s vaccinated them from social ills; there are no fewer “mental-health problems” and no drastic decline in suicide. And every time, despite each intervention failing, bureaucrats fail to ask themselves whether emotion management really was the best path to solving problems. Instead, they become more pessimistic about humanity. And they become more zealous in their pressure to penetrate deeper, to exert more control.

The underlying propulsion toward bureaucratic control extends to the use of mental health as a governing strategy at the beginning of the 20th century. Back then, however, it was called “mental hygiene”. Since the dawn of the industrial revolution, those in power had found themselves frustratingly bound by the willingness of the lower orders to work or not work and their reluctance to fit into the new world of round the clock production. Mental hygiene was intimately and unabashedly tied up with control of populations, treating their unruly behaviours like diseases infecting the healthy social body. Expanding the purview of emotion management to the healthy, it promised to cure social ills through education, adjustment of self, life and work, and “breeding out defectives”.

Mental hygienists adopted the view that emotions were central to all behaviour and personality development. This new class of bureaucratic servants pioneered large-scale survey instruments that promised to quantify the emotional reactions of populations. Once expressed in a measurable format, emotions, like a lack of worker or soldier morale, could now be pinpointed as the source of problems and “rehabilitated” accordingly. For instance, the phenomenon of soldiers losing the will to fight had long been an issue for those waging wars. New forms of emotional surveillance allowed them to identify and label these potentially destabilising elements and offered up new scripts that contained their distress. The horror of what these individuals had been through and their unwillingness to endure any more could now be safely identified, given a destigmatising medical label, quarantined from infecting the remainder of the military body, and honourably discharged.

This may sound well and good. But mental hygiene had a darker side. Its two-pronged focus on maintaining as well as preventing mental ill-health meant that eugenics had been an integral part of the movement from early on. While vociferous proponents of eugenics for the promotion of national mental hygiene, such as the German psychiatrist Ernst Rüdin, initially emphasised voluntary measures, they would eventually oversee the forced sterilisation and murder of psychiatric patients during the Second World War.

This isn’t a Reductio ad Hitlerum. The point is that underlying both the kind and extreme versions of mental hygiene was a strong belief that, if only people could be made to feel, think and behave in the “right” ways, business could proceed as usual. Some were simply more hopelessly resistant to intervention than others. From this perspective, you can’t be trusted to have an inner world that is all your own because it is that inner world that is pivotal for business, social and economic success. And if any of those things are threatened, so too is your freedom to think and feel freely and, above all, privately.

Tarnished by this dark history, the term “mental hygiene” fell out of favour during the Forties. However, many mental hygiene organisations simply rebranded themselves with a concern for “mental health”. This more recent concern is obviously charted much more humanely than the bleak path its forebear travelled. Yet its fundamental understanding of the role played by unruly emotions remains just as intact as it is mistaken.

It is tempting to believe that all of this is going somewhere. But it is precisely because society has given up on having any kind of goals at all that such an outlook can flourish. Today, the path to freedom is no longer located in the outside world, in grand projects of societal transformation, but instead in the heads of individuals. Big ideas have shown themselves capable only of leading humanity to ruin. And so the modern individual has learned to understand freedom and emancipation as a kind of “self-care”.

In this world, expanding the regulation of everyday life, subjecting it to rules and increasing its predictability become ends in themselves. If those in power cannot solve social problems, they can at least teach fragile subjects to be “resilient” to a world beyond their control. As Christopher Lasch wrote back in the Seventies, modern people don’t seek religious transcendence nor even worldly success so much as “mental health” as the “modern equivalent of salvation”. And as a result, we are being sold our own bureaucratic iron cage as a kind of freedom.


Ashley Frawleyis a sociologist, a columnist at Compact and COO of Sublation Media.

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Lancashire Lad
Lancashire Lad
26 days ago

Whatever “bureaucratic iron cage” the writer thinks we’re being sold, i’m willing to wager a majority of the population either aren’t buying or are paying no more than lip service to it.
The tendency to focus on emotional states by the younger generations is perhaps natural, as they begin to experience the adult world for the first time and have to acquire the means by which to negotiate it. I’d maintain it’s impossible to remain in that state for long; the constant drip-drip-drip of emoting promoted by the MSM and workplace bureaucrats just becomes too exhausting. Not all, but the majority of adults will eventually turn away from a surfeit of emoting as a natural human instinct.

Ashley Frawley
Ashley Frawley
26 days ago
Reply to  Lancashire Lad

I agree and I find it encouraging that most people do eventually see through the bullshit.

Sam Brown
Sam Brown
23 days ago
Reply to  Ashley Frawley

Yes, but I wish they would do it quietly…..

Xaven Taner
Xaven Taner
26 days ago
Reply to  Lancashire Lad

Bureaucratic systems don’t require the participants belief in them to function, that’s one of their most pernicious characteristics. In any large organisation you will struggle to find anyone who wholeheartedly endorses the bureaucracy, and yet they all tick the boxes, fill out the spreadsheets and maintain the lie. It’s also worth noting that “rational management” includes the use of incentives and disincentives and is bound up with disciplinary systems that can have real effects on people. Much of the way bureaucracy seeps into our lives and forms of thought conforms to Marx’s summary of ideology: they don’t know it, but they still do it.

Lancashire Lad
Lancashire Lad
25 days ago
Reply to  Xaven Taner

Yes, good points. Employees of the NHS, education sector and civil service in the UK will find that a familiar background to their working lives.

Alex Carnegie
Alex Carnegie
26 days ago

The recent increased willingness to talk about mental health may be healthy but I think we need a whole new set of words to enable greater clarity. There is a difference between a bad hair day and full blown schizophrenia complete with hallucinations. Eskimos apparently need thirty words to describe different types of snow. If we are going to talk so much about our mental health, perhaps we need a similarly enlarged vocabulary to enable individuals to be more specific.

While much of the current enthusiasm for mental health is perhaps just yet another self serving attempt to create nice middle class roles comparable to those in regulatory and compliance functions – seemingly essential if adding little value – there is a nugget of usefulness. I just wish it was taught in a positive way as “resilience training” rather than medicalising it. I used to work in highly stressful environment and it would have been useful to have been taught a few tricks on how to manage stress beforehand instead of learning by trial and error.

Stuart Bennett
Stuart Bennett
26 days ago

Expecting anyone other than your family and close friends to have anything more than a passing regard for your feelings is completely ridiculous. This is especially true in the workplace. Keep them to yourself and do your job. If your job is making you sad find another that doesn’t. Your employer owes you your agreed rate of pay, you owe them the labour you agreed to provide when you voluntarily agreed to work for them. That’s it. If you stop thinking about how you feel and concentrate on what you should be doing you’ll likely find you get happier too. It’s a fact about the mind you can only pay attention to one thing at a time.

AC Harper
AC Harper
26 days ago
Reply to  Stuart Bennett

Your employer owes you your agreed rate of pay, you owe them the labour you agreed to provide when you voluntarily agreed to work for them. That’s it. 

Spot on. When I started work in 1971 the ‘deal’ was that the business was loyal to you (implied job for life) if you were loyal to the business (implied working as required).
That no longer applies – and I told my young adult sons that the rules had changed. If your name, in a cell on a spreadsheet, happened to be in a section that was going to be made redundant or have the conditions of work changed, then you were out of luck. Your loyalty counted for nothing.
So the Wellness Team, or HR, ‘caring for your feelings’ is just a nominal spreadsheet function applied by the business to maintain its profitability. Nothing personal.

David Morley
David Morley
26 days ago
Reply to  AC Harper

When I started work in 1971 the ‘deal’ was that the business was loyal to you (implied job for life) if you were loyal to the business (implied working as required).

That no longer applies

This was even more the case in Japan – but once that implicit contract was broken employee behaviour also changed. Trust was gone.

John Riordan
John Riordan
25 days ago
Reply to  David Morley

That link was broken when technological progress made entire skillsets redundant over periods shorter than a career. It is not because of any deliberate betrayal of the social contract by corporations, if that’s what you’re implying.

And this is accelerating – I’m an IT contractor and even the skills I learned only 5 years ago are becoming obsolete, so fast does the technology develop.

RM Parker
RM Parker
25 days ago
Reply to  AC Harper

Spot on: and unfortunately all too familiar. If HR were at least honest about their actual motivations, I’d be less inclined to consider them the spawn of Shaitan. But here we are.

Stuart Bennett
Stuart Bennett
24 days ago
Reply to  AC Harper

I’m afraid I see the idea of a job for life as still expecting to have your needs put first. If someone is expecting a guaranteed job for life with the same employer they better get good at something and be self employed.

Ethniciodo Rodenydo
Ethniciodo Rodenydo
25 days ago
Reply to  Stuart Bennett

The more an organization bangs on about mental heath, wellbeing etc. the more cynical, uncaring and ruthless the company is.

Alex Lekas
Alex Lekas
25 days ago

Also, the more the company bangs on about mental health, the more employees it will have who claim mental health issues. You always get more of what you allow, encourage, subsidize, or tolerate.

R.I. Loquitur
R.I. Loquitur
25 days ago
Reply to  Alex Lekas

“You always get more of what you allow, encourage, subsidize, or tolerate.”

E.g., transgenders.

Dillon Eliassen
Dillon Eliassen
25 days ago

I have pretty good health insurance so I visit my mental hygienist every six months; I only have to shell out a $15 copay. They put that Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind doohickey on my head and 45 minutes later I wake up in the recovery room and the friendly staff give me 8 ounces of apple juice and an oatmeal raisin cookie. I prefer my appointments be mid-morning so I can get back to work right around lunchtime.

Paul T
Paul T
25 days ago

Fetch water, chop wood.

Adam Huntley
Adam Huntley
25 days ago

I suspect much of the origin of this declaration of interest in employees well being springs from the same promotion of LGBT+ rights, equality etc, namely virtue signalling. A company with a tick box of compliance, attains the same dubious corporate kudos as when it initiates and advertises it’s commitment to the latest Stonewall or Mermaids delusions.

Alex Lekas
Alex Lekas
25 days ago

many on the Left have received the sudden and unprecedented attention to mental health over the past decade as a triumph. 
Of course, they have. The entirety of the modern left’s MO consists of a binary between oppressed and oppressor, victim and aggressor. No, your boss probably does not care about your feelings, nor do you care about his. You both have a job to do, each exchanging your time and talent for a paycheck and benefits. That’s it. Let’s not make this any more complicated than it has ever been. This need to reduce every single human to a quivering pile of feelings and emotions – while trivializing genuine mental health concerns – is not good for society.

Gordon Arta
Gordon Arta
25 days ago

I do hope that, if Dr Frawley is to become a regular, she is encouraged to get out more. There are already worrying signs that she is disappearing up her own fundament, always a danger for academic sociologists.

Ashley Frawley
Ashley Frawley
25 days ago
Reply to  Gordon Arta

I’ve been writing for UnHerd for four years. Please do tell me the signs though? I’m fascinated.

Albireo Double
Albireo Double
25 days ago

Yes kids, you have a choice in life. Here it is.

Work hard, take risks, self-determine, make something of yourself, maybe buy a house and raise a family. Be someone.

Or, feel, emote, blubber, wimp out, opt out, and put yourself at the mercy of dead-eyed politicians for the rest of your life. Do as you’re told. Be a nobody.

Your choice, but get on with it please, because that’s the game we’re all playing, and you’re no different.

John Riordan
John Riordan
25 days ago

It all sounds very Orwellian but where is this actually happening? I’m an IT contractor so I see the inside of two or three different companies per year (although mostly virtually, ever since the pandemic), but never once have I seen any forcible emphasis on mental health in the workplace. To me, the workplace looks much like it ever did – people just getting on with the work at hand.

Michelle Smith
Michelle Smith
22 days ago
Reply to  John Riordan

Definitely does happen. I now have weekly check-ins with my manager – a man ten years younger than I am – and it’s excruciating for both of us. What are you supposed to say?