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August 11, 2023 - 10:00am
In 1987, I was first diagnosed with an eating disorder. It’s hard to convey just how different things were back then.
If people had heard of anorexia and bulimia, it tended to be through gossip columns on Karen Carpenter or Lena Zavaroni. Those with “slimmer’s diseases” were regarded as vain and selfish, even among members of the medical profession. Sufferers did not just feel overlooked; if we were discussed at all, it was rarely with any sympathy.
This is possibly why, when Princess Diana gave her famous speech on eating disorders in 1993, I felt so grateful I could almost cry. It seemed as though it could be a turning point on how sufferers were perceived, and maybe it was. The past three decades have seen dramatic improvements in eating disorder awareness, and an end to sufferers being dismissed — officially, at least — as “middle-class brats”. This has not, however, been matched by a reduction in eating disorder prevalence or severity.
We are definitely living in kinder times. I wonder, though, whether all publicity is good publicity, particularly when it falls into the hands of the not-yet-suffering. Princess Diana’s own experiences with bulimia are due to be featured in the latest instalment of the Little People, Big Dreams series of books for children. When I look at the way this will be presented, I can’t help but think it’s a terrible idea.
“Whenever [the Princess] felt alone,” children will be told, alongside a brightly-coloured artwork of a sad-faced, beautiful princess, “she sought relief by eating all the cakes she could find in the royal kitchen. But that sweet feeling of comfort didn’t last. Once it was gone, she would try to get rid of all the food she had eaten by making herself sick.”
Reading that, I am certain it will inspire some vulnerable, deeply unhappy girls to experiment with bulimia. This is not because some girls are so stupid that they’ll decide sticking their fingers down their throats will make them the queen of everyone’s hearts. This form of contagion is never that straightforward. That does not make it any less destructive.
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SubscribeIt is by no means limited to girls; the first people I knew who did this were guys on the high school wrestling team. Fashion models I worked with would pig out on McDonald’s and casually puke in the bathroom before sitting down for hair and makeup. The Romans had vomitoriums.
Some (well, many) people overeat to the point of obesity, some starve themselves, some work out obsessively, some binge and purge. Some of it is a means to cope with deep unhappiness, or, in the case of the wrestlers and models, a need to maintain strict weight requirements. The Romans just wanted to keep the party going.
A children’s book about Diana’s bulimia will certainly inspire experimentation. Why must every human weakness be made public in this way? I understand that those who struggle with emotional or psychological problems need help, but must it be turned into some sort of confessional? I’m troubled by the seeming chic-ness of everyone claiming disorder status (“I’m on the spectrum”; “I’m non-binary”; “I have Celiac”). Where we once suffered in silence, we’re now shouting our troubles across social media, and affecting, thus infecting, others. This is not progress.
It is by no means limited to girls; the first people I knew who did this were guys on the high school wrestling team. Fashion models I worked with would pig out on McDonald’s and casually puke in the bathroom before sitting down for hair and makeup. The Romans had vomitoriums.
Some (well, many) people overeat to the point of obesity, some starve themselves, some work out obsessively, some binge and purge. Some of it is a means to cope with deep unhappiness, or, in the case of the wrestlers and models, a need to maintain strict weight requirements. The Romans just wanted to keep the party going.
A children’s book about Diana’s bulimia will certainly inspire experimentation. Why must every human weakness be made public in this way? I understand that those who struggle with emotional or psychological problems need help, but must it be turned into some sort of confessional? I’m troubled by the seeming chic-ness of everyone claiming disorder status (“I’m on the spectrum”; “I’m non-binary”; “I have Celiac”). Where we once suffered in silence, we’re now shouting our troubles across social media, and affecting, thus infecting, others. This is not progress.
Teenage girls seem to have replaced eating disorders with gender dysphoria these days.
Teenage girls seem to have replaced eating disorders with gender dysphoria these days.
I think it all boils from to age appropriateness. Children don’t need to be exposed to all the social disorders plaguing the world. However, at some point young adults need to be exposed to objective, critical information about all these disorders.
It very much grows out of the Progressive Left’s canon belief that Western culture is itself sick and false. The relentless exposing of children to such disorders ostensibly to help them “cope” with problems they didn’t know they had is in reality a way of promoting pathology as understandable and even in some ways appropriate response to the inevitable alienation of Western life. Of course this requires the Left to step forward and assume the role of saviors.
It very much grows out of the Progressive Left’s canon belief that Western culture is itself sick and false. The relentless exposing of children to such disorders ostensibly to help them “cope” with problems they didn’t know they had is in reality a way of promoting pathology as understandable and even in some ways appropriate response to the inevitable alienation of Western life. Of course this requires the Left to step forward and assume the role of saviors.
I think it all boils from to age appropriateness. Children don’t need to be exposed to all the social disorders plaguing the world. However, at some point young adults need to be exposed to objective, critical information about all these disorders.
In the eighties or nineties, there was an advertising campaign against heroin use. It pictured a skeletal, sick-looking young woman whose health had been destroyed by heroin use. The intended message being heroin kills, but the message received by a significant number of young women was heroin makes you thin.
In the eighties or nineties, there was an advertising campaign against heroin use. It pictured a skeletal, sick-looking young woman whose health had been destroyed by heroin use. The intended message being heroin kills, but the message received by a significant number of young women was heroin makes you thin.
Why would you re-“introduce” bulimia to girls at all? We essentially beat the bulimia and anorexia epidemics in the 90’s. Today, all the girls who would have been anorexic are slicing off their private parts instead.
Actually, maybe starving and barfing was better than doctor-assisted, genital self-mutilation. Never mind, bring on the bulimia books.
Why would you re-“introduce” bulimia to girls at all? We essentially beat the bulimia and anorexia epidemics in the 90’s. Today, all the girls who would have been anorexic are slicing off their private parts instead.
Actually, maybe starving and barfing was better than doctor-assisted, genital self-mutilation. Never mind, bring on the bulimia books.
I am in the middle of reading Hadley Freedman´s new book: “Good Girls”. She discusses the overlap of transgender craze and anorexia / eating disorder.
I am in the middle of reading Hadley Freedman´s new book: “Good Girls”. She discusses the overlap of transgender craze and anorexia / eating disorder.
Thank you Victoria for your insight and comment.
Do we really think we should make a picture book for children, with princesses to boot, about every single human malady and trauma? Whoever thought that the best thing to do is to fill their heads with all the possibilities of all the things that could possibly go wrong…?!
It’s stupid beyond belief and also highly offensive. Because when certain young people develop eating disorders there won’t be a glamorous title and world adoration to jog it along, just misery, isolation and a solid commitment to deceiving those who love and care for you in order to hide and prolong this terrible disease. Young people with these illnesses don’t generally have the option to be a sad skinny princess that can still do the cover of vogue. Not only is this book sharing unhelpful ideas in an unhelpful way with children far too young, it is showing them the princess version. Anyone who has had or seen eating disorders up close knows that there isn’t really a princess option. Years of treatment, acute units, lack of genuine understanding….
Any other gems in the series? How about a book introducing kids to the suicidal rich and famous? Or how drug addiction took some of the most talented musicians of history..? That could be an audiobook with songs AND overdosing sound effects….
It is stupid beyond belief but then we are at the height (hopefully) of the Age of Stupid.
It is stupid beyond belief but then we are at the height (hopefully) of the Age of Stupid.
Thank you Victoria for your insight and comment.
Do we really think we should make a picture book for children, with princesses to boot, about every single human malady and trauma? Whoever thought that the best thing to do is to fill their heads with all the possibilities of all the things that could possibly go wrong…?!
It’s stupid beyond belief and also highly offensive. Because when certain young people develop eating disorders there won’t be a glamorous title and world adoration to jog it along, just misery, isolation and a solid commitment to deceiving those who love and care for you in order to hide and prolong this terrible disease. Young people with these illnesses don’t generally have the option to be a sad skinny princess that can still do the cover of vogue. Not only is this book sharing unhelpful ideas in an unhelpful way with children far too young, it is showing them the princess version. Anyone who has had or seen eating disorders up close knows that there isn’t really a princess option. Years of treatment, acute units, lack of genuine understanding….
Any other gems in the series? How about a book introducing kids to the suicidal rich and famous? Or how drug addiction took some of the most talented musicians of history..? That could be an audiobook with songs AND overdosing sound effects….
Some religious sisters in the Middle Ages starved themselves for reasons other than piety, for which they were thoroughly shamed. Perhaps people might need a moral framework?
Some religious sisters in the Middle Ages starved themselves for reasons other than piety, for which they were thoroughly shamed. Perhaps people might need a moral framework?