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What I learned at Terf School Some 'feminists' prefer abuse to analysis

Abuse not analysis. Beata Zawrzel/NurPhoto via Getty Images.

Abuse not analysis. Beata Zawrzel/NurPhoto via Getty Images.


January 6, 2025   5 mins

What is a Terf? Initially it was used as a term of abuse. I have been on the receiving end too many times to count. “Terfs can choke on my girl dick”, “I punch Terfs” and “Dead Terfs” are a few of the charming statements which I have encountered over the years. Coined in 2008 by a person describing herself as a “cis-het woman”, the acronym stood for “trans-exclusionary radical feminist” and the trans activists embraced it enthusiastically.

Gradually, though, my feminist friends and collaborators came to embrace the word, finding it rather amusing. And responding with humour always diminishes something’s power. We would organise “Terf drinks”, and named a London restaurant we regularly meet in “Terf HQ”. On occasion, when we need to assemble over a particular issue, such as the recent Supreme Court case to decide “what is a woman’ in law, we hold Terf Nato.

For me, for my allies, Terf has come to mean something we should all take pride in: an appreciation for the truth, and for biological reality, and a concern for the safety of women and girls.

So when I spotted a four-week online course entitled: “Feminists Against Women: the Politics of Trans-Exclusionary Radical Feminism”, taught by Sophie Lewis, I found myself tempted — compelled, even — to enrol. In the blurb it promised to tell me: What is a Terf? Even more tantalising would be to discover “What makes Terfs tick?” As a proud Terf of 20 years standing, I should know. For me it’s a Negroni, the Godfather trilogy, and a decent meal in Terf HQ.

Even more exciting, I discovered, was my inclusion in the course: “we will read a spread of excerpts from the past 45 years of transphobic feminism, including Material Girls by Kathleen Stock and Feminism for Women by Julie Bindel”.

It’s not the first time I’ve been the subject of a course. My work on the global sex trade, in particular my book from 2017 on the topic, is often cited by pro-prostitution academics as a “bad take” on what they refer to as “sex work”, and I have often amused myself by reading the inaccurate guff they spout about me. But this is the first time I’ve ever signed up to participate, choosing to attend incognito.

Hosted by the Brooklyn Institute for Social Research, this is an organisation that runs such courses as “From Racial Capitalism to Prison Abolitionism” and “On the Actuarial Self, and the Crisis of Zionist Feminism”. And if that speaks to the institute’s ultra-radical leanings, Lewis herself is of a similar bent. A visiting scholar at the University of Pennsylvania, as well as a freelance writer, her forthcoming book is (predictably) billed as “an unflinching tour of enemy feminisms, from 19th-century imperial feminists and police officers to 20th-century KKK feminists and pornophobes to today’s anti-abortion and TERF feminists”.

She brought a similar energy to the course which she had convened to help people involved in the trans liberation struggle to “know the enemy”. It’s typical rhetoric for the gender wars in the US where they are fought between rabid trans activists on one side and reactionary conservatives who “know what a woman is”. Unlike here in the UK, it is rare that Left-wing feminists are heard and as a result, few points have been scored against the trans cabal. The course, presumably, was an attempt to shore up her allegedly feminist argument against us.

She certainly has form in that respect. Back in 2019 I read her essay in The New York Times, “How British Feminism Became Anti-Trans”, a hit-piece on Terfs, she has devoted plenty of time casting aspersions on me and Kathleen regarding our views on all kind of issues – but mainly gender. We had even featured her in an item on our podcast. Kathleen had discovered a piece Lewis had written about her wedding, held in a cemetery. “How do you square your advocacy for… abolition of the family,” she had written, “with your decision to marry and cohabit exclusively with a spouse?” Good question — and one the article comprehensively failed to answer.

And so I logged on to Terf school with low expectations. As for the poor dears who had to attend alongside me, they were warned they would have to contend with some tricky opinions — ones that run counter to their firmly held beliefs. Hence the obligatory trigger warning; mine and Kathleen’s work “should be considered to carry a giant content warning for transphobia — often misogynistic, specifically, transmisogynistic, generally queerphobic, and sometimes eliminationist tropes”.

Sounds exciting. But even I was unprepared for the 12 hours of turgid neo-Marxist hyperbole I was ultimately exposed to. I’d like to tell you what we were supposed to be learning about, but it was mostly incomprehensible nonsense about how Terfs are quasi-fascists, and how our ideas are based on antisemitism, colonialism, racism and every other -ism you can think of.

“Even I was unprepared for the 12 hours of turgid neo-Marxist hyperbole I was ultimately exposed to.”

I was disappointed my work could be “skipped over”. Given that I feature quite prominently in both the course publicity and the reading materials, I did wonder whether she had cottoned on to the fact that I was in her virtual classroom. Nonetheless, Lewis was considerate enough to include a PDF of both mine and Kathleen’s books for students to read without having to buy them. Kath’s work was described as “crushingly evil”. Other feminists were similarly dismissed. Discussing The Transsexual Empire, a groundbreaking 1979 work by Janice Raymond — the original Terf — Lewis repeats old tropes about her supposed bigotry, even claiming Raymond hoped to annihilate the whole trans community.

Lewis also seemed unable to genuinely counter other of Raymond’s assertions, breezily suggesting she’d “never seen” trans communities use terms like “front” or “back” hole. That’s news to me: one cancer charity last year announced that “bonus hole” is an acceptable alternative to vagina, a word that can apparently “cause someone to feel hurt or distressed”. These terms have been in use as far back as 2018 in “safe sex” guides for trans identified people. It is a well-documented fact that trans activists have been bullying midwives in the UK into using “chest-feeding”, “human milk”, “strapless”, and “girl dick”. But why let a good fact get in the way of your preaching?

Just as tellingly, not everyone received such short shrift: Lewis approvingly quoted Jacob Breslow, even though he’d claimed children can be “the object of our attraction” during a 2011 pro-paedophile conference. Not to worry, though: Breslow, a former trustee of Mermaids, is still a credible Terf-busting source. In his journal article, “They Would Have Transitioned Me”, he suggests that any Terf saying that “all it takes today to get sent down the gender clinic is to be gender non-conforming” can only be secretly envious of those who did get to transition. He then uses this to target two women he is not keen on — namely Stella O’Malley and J.K. Rowling. Both women were inevitably also in Lewis’s sights over the course.

More telling, perhaps, is what the course didn’t touch on. There was not one mention of the male Terfs, such as Graham Linehan, Matt Walsh, or Simon Fanshawe. How interesting Lewis was only interested in taking out the women, the same women who have been responsible for setting up women-only services for victims and survivors of men’s violence, the ones she refers to as fascist enemies. In short, transgender ideology, including when promoted by women, is nothing short of misogyny.

The irony here is that by completely ignoring the real, tangible and positive change for women and girls that we Terfs have affected in our struggle over the years, Lewis completely fails to recognise, let alone teach, what it is that makes Terfs tick.


Julie Bindel is an investigative journalist, author, and feminist campaigner. Her latest book is Feminism for Women: The Real Route to Liberation. She also writes on Substack.

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David McKee
David McKee
2 days ago

“12 hours of turgid neo-Marxist hyperbole…”

Wow. You have to hand it to far-left academics: they really know how to have fun. I would imagine the student drop-out rate must have been phenomenal.

Pedro the Exile
Pedro the Exile
2 days ago
Reply to  David McKee

and apparently its a 4 week course according to the article!!!

Josef Švejk
Josef Švejk
2 days ago

I never really understood the dunking of witches in ponds to see if they would float to prove their non-witchery centuries ago until recently. The transgender mob deserve to be thus tested for sanity. The whole (sic) exercise in gender identification is too silly for words and the admirable Terfs waste valuable time and energy on engaging with them in argument. Get thee gone should be the response to them.

Christopher Barry
Christopher Barry
1 day ago
Reply to  Josef Švejk

You can’t wish people away. Trans ideology is being pushed on society whether we ignore it or not. So Julie and co are not wasting time. The reason for arguing is not to convince those who they argue with but to convince those listening in.

Josef Švejk
Josef Švejk
1 day ago

I disagree. Transgenderism is a bizarre concept and should be treated as such. The more one engages with these foolish and sick people the more one legitimises their argument. I see it as akin to eating parts of one’s body when one is not satisfied by dinner. It is strange, unconscionable and plain wrong.

Quentin Manley
Quentin Manley
1 day ago
Reply to  Josef Švejk

i agree but we should never be too busy to engage with dangerous stupidity. You think that addressing it only serves to dignify it and give it credibility so you let it go unchallenged and then BAM! Next thing you find out that the lunatic lie is being accepted as the truth. As has happened with trans ideology. .

David Webb
David Webb
2 days ago

Superb. Hope Julie’s and Prof Stock’s publishers are demanding payment from the Brooklyn Institute for copyright infringement.
Keep Terfing, Julie.

Paddy Taylor
Paddy Taylor
2 days ago

Wading through this, I rather lost the will and was left wondering: Should a downtrodden, working class Trans Exclusionary Radical Feminist be more properly described as Serf N’ Terf?

Andrew Boughton
Andrew Boughton
2 days ago

Ideologues all eating one another. The revolution consuming itself.

Jack Robertson
Jack Robertson
2 days ago

More like newly-graduated middle-class tyre-kickers play-acting at radical politics for all of five seconds, strictly online and safe, before wandering off to have orthodox lives and families and pretend that the growing number of mutilated young men and women whose vulnerable lives they (casually, in narcissistic, tinkering passing) helped destroy…are nothing to do with them.
‘Viv Smythe is a freelance writer and works for the digital community team at Guardian Australia’
Last seen (2020), this ‘Viv Smythe’ – radical pro-trans feminist 101 activist, blogger, and coiner of the term TERF – was writing tidbit reviews of Hillary Mantel’s latest posh-potboiler for The (Oz) Guardian’s bienpensant audience. Bet these days she’s got a million dollar mortgage in a leafy part of Melbourne, a Tory-leaning husband who pays it (and for the family BMW X6), and would scratch the eyes out of any trans ‘advocate’ who came near either of her own rigidly ‘cis’-gender private school-educated brats.
The poisoning and mutilation of healthy young bodies, in the name of a barbaric and toxic masculine-misogynist ideology, was always (in the main) about…doing so to the ‘gender-troubled’ kids of everyone else except the political, public service, media, academic, celebrity and medical leaders populist opportunists and gutless cowards who brought ‘gender affirmation’ (sic) therapy into insane material reality.

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Brendan O'Leary
Brendan O'Leary
2 days ago

It’s hard to believe that books of “turgid neo-Marxist hyperbole” (thanks for that Julie. I feel like I endured my share of TnMH 50 years ago already) can cover their costs through sales. So who is paying? I get the feeling that it’s us, one way or another.

Derek Smith
Derek Smith
2 days ago

“I signed up for an online course taught by Charybdis”, said Scylla. “It was awful.”

David Morley
David Morley
1 day ago
Reply to  Derek Smith

Very good!

Christopher Barclay
Christopher Barclay
2 days ago

Of course, male TERFs were not included in the course. They are not competing for the feminist dollar. Sophie Lewis and Julie Bindel are not just ideologically opposed. They are competing for market share. I doubt the course was free.

Daniel Lee
Daniel Lee
1 day ago

“Lewis was only interested in taking out the women, the same women who have been responsible for setting up women-only services for victims and survivors of men’s violence, the ones she refers to as fascist enemies.”
This is fundamental Bolshevik canon – the enemy most to be hated and attacked aren’t those on the other side who disagree but those on your side who don’t agree completely enough.

David Morley
David Morley
1 day ago
Reply to  Daniel Lee

And effectively parodied by Monty Python.

Andrew H
Andrew H
2 days ago

Says the woman who was proud to state – obviously in the Grauniad – that she hates men.

Evan Heneghan
Evan Heneghan
2 days ago

That lecturer belongs in a mental health facility.

RR RR
RR RR
1 day ago

This a religious cult. A belief system. With no science and no facts to back it up.

David Morley
David Morley
1 day ago
Reply to  RR RR

Terf or trans? Or both?

Jamie
Jamie
2 days ago

This whole discussion is unbearably sad for students who are seeking an education and enlightenment. TERFs should
Not
Leave the academy and should stay in the game for the sake of the students.

P F
P F
1 day ago

Matt Walsh a TERF?

RR RR
RR RR
1 day ago
Reply to  P F

He sticks up for most women so a feminist in that sense.

David Morley
David Morley
1 day ago

There was not one mention of the male Terfs, such as Graham Linehan, Matt Walsh, or Simon Fanshawe

I was honestly unaware that Matt Walsh was a radical feminist. You learn something new every day.

Derek Smith
Derek Smith
1 day ago
Reply to  David Morley

We should be talking about Trans-Exclusionary Regular Males (TERMs).

David Morley
David Morley
1 day ago

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sophie_Lewis_(author)

The irony is that minus the trans issue and with the clock wound back to when terfs were young, this woman would be a feminist hero.

Hugh Bryant
Hugh Bryant
1 day ago

I’ve never understood TERFs. For decades you insist that there’s no difference between men and women. Then you have a hissy fit because some men decide to take you at your word?

David Morley
David Morley
1 day ago

often misogynistic, specifically, transmisogynistic, generally queerphobic, and sometimes eliminationist

Odd that misandry was missed out. The one thing that both sides agree is ok.

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Ardath Blauvelt
Ardath Blauvelt
1 day ago

Doesn’t the destructive nature of the transgender movement worry you most of all? In their world, women, that is the kind we’ve spent decades trying to advance and protect, simply cease to exist. Do they seek a single, amorphous, supremacy? Is that the goal — no gender/sexual identity or meaning at all, for anyone?

Douglas H
Douglas H
1 day ago

Thank you, St Julie!

Alex Lekas
Alex Lekas
1 day ago

“In short, transgender ideology, including when promoted by women, is nothing short of misogyny.“

Well, yes. Was this in doubt? There is also an anti gay streak, making the Ts doubly dangerous for lesbians.

Andrew Dean
Andrew Dean
1 day ago

Oh Julie forget it … terfdom is so 2020… we’re over it now.

M To the Tea
M To the Tea
1 day ago

I think I’ll call this idea “creation for the sake of creation” or “job creation for the sake of writing, or teaching” because we often feel the need to write about something, even if we’re not being entirely honest about the topic. Take the issue of transgender individuals and the women who react towards them. At the end of the day, there’s a deeper conversation to be had, but it often gets lost in superficial debates.
The other day, I watched a video about a woman who went on a date with a man. For two hours, the man kept telling the waitress to come back in five minutes because he did not decide yet. I have no idea what happened afterward. But why would anyone behave like that? If I were on a date with a man who did that, I would give him 30 minutes to figure things out, and if nothing happened, I’d politely excuse myself, order my dinner, and pay for it myself. I wouldn’t sit there for two hours watching someone repeatedly dismiss the waitress and kept me in a limbo. I hardly doubt that woman would have sit along if the date was with another woman! To me, this man was testing this woman mentally how long she will put up with bad behaviour! 
This brings me to my point: forget about transgender people and forget about women for a moment. Why are we so afraid of men? I think this is the real question that needs to be examined. Yes in private and sexual interactions some men may be violent and are physically stronger than us, but in public though, I think men are more afraid of being called out than women! And definitely not intellectually smarter than us….all our conversations get lost on the physical fear but we do not want to increase our mental powers. Transgender women, love them or hate them, have some very important observations that are not allowed for discussion in the woman groups. Let them be!
So as for women who are transgender—what are they going to do to me in a washroom while wearing high heels and a mini skirt? This fear seems misplaced, and it distracts from the real issues at hand – some men are only physically stronger but not mentally. We gave so much weight that now it has become its own idea but I appreciate we have so much traction out of it!
I think the biggest fear surrounding transgenderism is the idea that most men may not be strictly heterosexual—or that they might actually prefer transgender women if given a choice. This challenges the notion that heterosexuality is the default or primary orientation. In reality, heterosexuality may have been prioritized historically due to religion and the need to control women’s bodies. Its primacy has largely been tied to reproduction, yet ironically, “men” have since found ways to bypass even that! And women doctors or scientist still have not aggressively focus on women health issues but seem often to focus on transgender health issues why is that?…these are issues we could have rather than beating on miniscule minority.

Helen E
Helen E
20 hours ago
Reply to  M To the Tea

‘Minuscule.’

Fafa Fafa
Fafa Fafa
19 hours ago

Most men are naturally “trans-exclusionary”, even if they are not intentionally “feminists”. I wish women who make a living being feminists would realize that.

David Morley
David Morley
1 day ago

Kath’s work was described as “crushingly evil”

This I have to take issue with. I’ve actually read this book and it’s pretty good – not least on the history of feminist ideas which led to trans ideology. I’m less convinced by her solutions, which are too one sided to ever be acceptable to her opponents (her stated intent was to achieve agreement between the sides).

Sadly much written on both sides of this argument is crushingly stupid rather than evil.

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David Morley
David Morley
1 day ago

Two sub species of feminist banging their heads together like stags in heat.

Ray Andrews
Ray Andrews
1 day ago

It’s too bad we can’t suspend normal rules for these bitches and let them kill each other dead.

Jack Robertson
Jack Robertson
1 day ago
Reply to  Ray Andrews

Not on, Ray.

Really, that’s not mere trolling, that’s unwell toxic bile and if it’s even half authentically representative of how you feel about even only some women, then you need to get some help to sort it out.