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Our Queen’s sacrifice She knew the crown must be borne as a pilgrimage

The monarchy is less secure. Serge Lemoine/Getty

The monarchy is less secure. Serge Lemoine/Getty


September 10, 2022   5 mins

It seems that it should be a near spiritual ritual of Britishness to live through the end of the reign of one sovereign and the beginning of another. The emotions around the death of a monarch are, for those who feel them, central to what make us more than a vast number of people arbitrarily living together on an archipelago of islands. They strangely elevate us above the pleasures and travails of our daily lives. They connect us to others around the world who share our monarchy for reasons that might usually feel contingent, if not odd — but for a moment in time acquire a solemnity.

Elizabeth II’s incumbency was so enduring that any number of people lived lives here without such an experience. Now, her passing risks bequeathing something more akin to a shipwreck than a pre-ordained and pre-planned moment in time, the passage of which should bring, as well as grief, the solace of continuity. Britain has become a country in which we are part strangers. Precisely because the Queen prolonged a particular past, this week has been a temporal rupture.

In her spirit still lived her father and grandfather, the kings who, because of the two world wars, reigned over what was probably for the first time an overtly British nation-state, rather than a tenser union of once separate kingdoms. To mourn Elizabeth II is to mourn that 20th-century Britain. In reality, it was a short era. By the Seventies, something that fighting the two wars had created was already dissolving. But the last genuinely optimistic decade of 20th-century Britain tied the Queen to two iconic imaginative forces that still, in rather different ways, exercise their pull.

In the first, Bobby Moore, born in the East End during the Blitz, climbed the steps at Wembley, and, not wanting to dirty the Queen’s white gloves, wiped his hands, before she handed him the Jules Rimet Trophy. For English football, that summer afternoon has constituted an ideal of greatness against which everything since has fallen short, even as there are any number of ways in which football in Britain is more inclusive than it was on 30 July 1966. If the 56 years of hurt were to end in Qatar this winter, there would be no fusion of the club rituals of football at 3 o’clock on a Saturday with the national team’s victory, no way of avoiding the question of what the World Cup was doing being played in the middle of European domestic seasons in Qatar, and there would be English not Union flags flown in celebration. Much more likely, there will be more years to add to a song written for an occasion where attaining that ideal in the Queen’s presence seemed in touching distance.

The Beatles are the second vehicle of collective emotion, running from war to the Sixties, to which the Queen was connected. John Lennon was born during the Liverpool blitz and Paul McCartney’s parents met in an air raid shelter. They played as children on bombsites. Then, like the Queen in the Fifties, the Beatles became in the Sixties the new outward face of post-war Britain, even as the shadows of the older Britain ran through some of their best songs from A day in the life to Eleanor Rigby. McCartney said that growing up, the Queen seemed akin to a film star: someone it would be impossible for a working-class boy like him to meet. But he did. He’s now a member of the Order of the Companions of Honour. As the Beatles were falling apart in 1968, McCartney, always at home in pre-rock and roll British musical culture, wrote a music-hall style ditty, “almost”, he said, “like a love song”, about the Queen. On Abbey Road, after he finishes singing “And in the end the love you take is equal to the love you make”, there is a gap. Then the 23-second Her Majesty begins: the last sound on the last album the Beatles made.

The age of Queen Elizabeth II could not stop in the Sixties. Through the increasing political and economic fragmentation of the United Kingdom from the Seventies, the Queen served as an exemplary constitutional monarch. She might even be said to have practised denial in the face of what was changing: order being necessary, she knew that a public show of it is required from the person who bears witness to the underlying tumult.

Nothing symbolises the United Kingdom Union, not even the armed forces, as much as the monarchy. The monarch must represent the whole of the Union and be sensitive to its constituent parts. This is much easier said than done. The Queen in part succeeded because deep in her character ran an unwillingness to perform angst against some abstract standard of the way things are supposed to be. The Union is not helped by gimmicks and cannot withstand a lot of tortured contemplation. It just has to be lived as though it were self-evident that it and the tapestry that constitutes it matter. In appointing her last Prime Minister and meeting her end at Balmoral, she may have, at the last, still served the Union well. By appearing while dying with a smile on her face to meet Liz Truss, she has also given what seems like an accidental premiership unfolding in a national emergency a dignity in its beginning that it would not otherwise have.

Without her, though, the monarchy itself is less secure. There will be less of the already severely strained charity bestowed towards those inside it who let it down. Meanwhile, the Queen appears to have been the last tie binding the Sussexes to the Royal Family. If the attacks hit and wounded her anyway, the grief writ across Prince Harry’s face as he arrived at Balmoral tells its own story. Unless the emotions of his dash to Scotland brings reconciliation, the burden of protecting the monarchy from filial and fraternal score-settling now uncomfortably passes to its targets.

Britain has lived through a not insignificant number of kings and queens who did more to jeopardise the monarchy than to preserve it. By contrast, the Queen made it an institution that attracted admiration, perhaps even abroad some envy. At the very point when there might have appeared every reason to doubt the purpose of a constitutional monarchy so overtly laden with pomp and pageantry, she gave it an almost transcendent purpose.

This achievement was not at all obvious in the first half of her reign. Probably she had not yet accomplished it. There was no war where she could demonstrate her fortitude as George VI did. While she was not born to be Queen and came to the throne at a young age, her accession did not have quite the air of tragedy that gave such meaning to her father’s life as king. She had to become through service the Queen she became, including the Queen who could so delightfully take tea with Paddington. Perhaps the Crown though instant in acquisition must be borne as a pilgrimage. Perhaps his utter inadequacy to the trek was why Edward VIII opted to dump it on his brother and niece. Perhaps it was a simple willingness to meet the longevity of the journey that took her so far. She appeared to find truth in an Aboriginal proverb she quoted in a speech in Australia in 2011: “We are all visitors to this time, this place. We are just passing through. Our purpose here is to observe, to learn, to grow, to love… and then we return home.”

More prosaically, the Queen possessed a seemingly innate capacity to practise self-discipline and humility. Her predictability on such matters is why many self-proclaimed republicans could respect her. Could anyone have doubted that she unhesitatingly would have thought that the Covid rules about funerals applied to the Duke of Edinburgh’s?

Nobody from the outside can know how much over seven decades the Queen sacrificed and where, for better or worse, she reached her limits. Over the past year, what she did not have the physical strength left to do, from the Cenotaph to the State Opening of Parliament, made the nearness of the end apparent. What was left though in the Jubilee was a chance for what is still, for now anyway, the United Kingdom to say thank you while the Queen was alive to receive the gratitude. On the last day, she left Windsor and came to London again to play her part. Now, with the help of the rituals she would have recognised, those of us who want the monarchy to endure through the parting must too try to rise to the change.


Helen Thompson is Professor of Political Economy at the University of Cambridge and co-presenter of UnHerd’s These Times.

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Josef Oskar
Josef Oskar
2 years ago

I live in Italy, here the TV news are reporting non stop what is happening in London, people are mourning the passing away of a great person and monarch. The British people do not realize how much soft power Britain still has in the world. Much of it is thanks to Elizabeth Windsor’s dedication to her duty.

Mark Vernon
Mark Vernon
2 years ago

“Almost transcendent” feels like the telling phrase to me, if the “almost” signifies the uncertainty about whether there’s more to being human than politics, culture, shared past, hopes for the future.

My guess is the Queen felt that transcendence more clearly than anything else. There’s good evidence Charles does too. If he can make enough of us conscious of it – in his gestures, feeling, dignity, turns of phrase – the monarchy will be wanted, along with the sense that unity is deeper than inevitable divisions. The early signs are hopeful, I’d say.

Malcolm Webb
Malcolm Webb
2 years ago

The Queen presents a shining example of a very fine woman who understood the overriding importance of taking a proper responsibility for her own actions and towards the needs of those for whom she had a duty of care. In her own unique case that second duty extended to all the citizens of her realm.

I do not think The Queen would have had much truck with the confused and somewhat trivial sentimentality of this article, nor its sense of fear and trepidation for the future.

I believe The Queen well understood the limits of her own influence and the inability of any individual to determine matters outside their control. However, it seems apparent to me that The Queen also fully understood the vital importance of taking individual responsibility for the proper conduct of her own affairs and for setting the best example she could towards those for whom she had responsibilities – and in that I think we all can usefully learn a great deal from the life of the truly wonderful Queen Elizabeth.

Russell Hamilton
Russell Hamilton
2 years ago
Reply to  Malcolm Webb

“I do not think The Queen would have had much truck with the confused and somewhat trivial sentimentality of this article,”

No, the Queen wouldn’t have read it. I thought it was a good article, and as Helen wrote “The Queen in part succeeded because deep in her character ran an unwillingness to perform angst against some abstract standard of the way things are supposed to be”.

I think the observation that “She had to become through service the Queen she became” is something to ponder.

The word ‘King’ is taking a little time to get used to – I suspect we’ve become so hyper-aware of language these days that just to hear the word ‘King’ brings resonances of roaring masculine imperialism. Impossible to measure, but there must have been an effect on British society of having such long recent periods – Queens Victoria and Elizabeth – of having a woman at the top of the status hierarchy. Apart from several forgettable men, it was female for a long time. When I was growing up the most prominent members of the royal family were the Queen, the Queen Mother and Princess Margaret – hardly a man in sight. Will there be a lot of people who are going to be ‘triggered’ by having a man at the top and hearing the word King so much?

Last edited 2 years ago by Russell Hamilton
Judy Johnson
Judy Johnson
2 years ago
Reply to  Malcolm Webb

I agree and I think that this was because she was happy to be a servant to her people. I wish more politicians today were willing to serve; the word ‘minister’ means servant!
Humility is a rare gift.

Andy O'Gorman
Andy O'Gorman
2 years ago

As a woman if integrity, she did not opt for the crown to her grandson, and I truly hope Charles is up to the task of continuing his mothers unique diplomacy.
He also need to keep his opinions to himself and then pass on the crown to William.
Queen Elizabeth was truly a remarkable woman – who could have done that job for a week, let alone 70 year!

Iris C
Iris C
2 years ago
Reply to  Andy O'Gorman

I disagree with you. Charles has shown himself to be a thoroughly decent person. He may take a more active role as Head of State (within the constraints of our unwritten constitution) but, to my mind, whatever action he chooses to take would always be morally justified and to our benefit. As head of the Commonwealth, he has an influence in the world which should not be under-estimated…

Cantab Man
Cantab Man
2 years ago

Over the span of a vast lifetime, the Queen played by and stayed true to the rules of a very ancient game. Very different from the ‘shift-to-applause’ world of doing anything and betraying any value for a mere moment of fame bestowed by the mob.

The Queen’s approach had its ups and downs: Holding true to service, duty, honor, steadfastness and loyalty whatever-may-come has its share of proclaimed and heaped-upon villainy about not getting with the times, whatever the rage happens to be in any given year.

Like the British warships of yore, her hull was battered year over year by the sea-waves of fad, fecklessness and fickleness, and yet she held fast for the safety and security of the British, the Commonwealth and many others in the world who traveled with her upon her decks. Dependable and resolute for her passengers even while they were looking out with apprehension within the eye of many great storms.

Such individuals rarely receive lasting praise while they live. Such virtues as duty, honor, steadfastness and loyalty are dearly purchased with the currency of decades of proven service, and these virtues can only be redeemed to their fullest when the departing can say upon their deathbed, in full honesty, transparency and glory before God:

“I have fought a good fight, I have finished my course, I have kept the faith.”

And the world who has benefitted from her lifetime of service can testify as witnesses to this solemn endgame for the Queen.

God save the Queen.

Last edited 2 years ago by Cantab Man
Philip Crook
Philip Crook
2 years ago

We hold the Queen up as an example to us all but there are many, many others who devote their lives to duty in similar ways. Did she lead them or would they do it anyway? I swore a loyal oath to her and her heirs and successors but I did my duty much more for my soldiers and colleagues with barely a thought for the Queen. Ultimately though she was at the head of it all and led us well

Tony Price
Tony Price
2 years ago

I am neither a republican nor a monarchist, and no-one would set up a system like this now, but it seems to do the job. A Head of State is basically a ceremonial position and stop of last resort, and we are lucky enough to have had sensible people doing it for the last couple of centuries (barring an Edward or two), with the next one in line also probably OK. The Prime Minister is the boss here, rather unfortunately though that may have been for the last few, and the Monarch is a symbol of continuity and a massive boost to our world-wide soft power (and tourist business) which is declining rapidly enough as it is. I don’t care about the money, which is a mere bagatelle compared to current government wastage, as long as it is spent mostly in the UK and on employing people, and is recognised as essentially belonging to the people and not the person on the throne. It does need slimming down though (fewer parasites there doing little for their privileged life) although I understand that Charles is on that. I rather like him anyway as someone who doesn’t always toe the line! 

Anthony Reader-Moore
Anthony Reader-Moore
2 years ago

A brilliant and moving analysis.

LCarey Rowland
LCarey Rowland
2 years ago

‘T’is not often, in history, that humility is found in a reigning monarch. But Elizabeth’s humility shone forth in her official functions.
The woman knew her place: demonstrating–even from her precipice of power– humility and grace in every act she publicly performed.
Even mean Mr. Mustard would venture out to catch a glimpse of her. Would that he now finds respect enough for Charles. . . to hazard, every now and then, a public show of support for the one man who is appointed by faith, destiny and a withering empire, to somehow display that mantle of humility.
And yet, we can discern that King Charles does definitely have a plan–a set of cherished values–for transitioning Britain and the world into a community that accepts, humbly but wisely, responsibility for–as Moses wrote– our “subduing” the earth. That’s a phrase which is, as we speak, being re-defined in a new world.This global community is now struggling to repent of its rapacity, and take appropriate responsibility for our impact on the natural world.
Per chance, per Providence, Charles will succeed in his quest to become a responsible–not merely royal–citizen of this troubled world. Perhaps he will get by, in this prospect, with a little help from his friends. Perhaps he will ascend to handling, responsibly, the mantle and the sceptre of inspiring world citizens to take proper care of a world on which the sun never sets.
God save the King!

John 0
John 0
2 years ago

Maybe the Queen was the symbol of a previous era in government and politics, where leaders viewed the position as a duty and made sacrifices to do it right. George Washington on the other side of the pond was similar. Now most government is opportunism and dishonesty on a new global scale.

jason whittle
jason whittle
2 years ago

My daughter tells me the students are celebrating. Too little history at school I am afraid. We hear so much of terrible, brutal, and obnoxious kings and queens. Democracy has a free pass despite producing even more hipeless leaders. We all remember Henry VIII but what about his father who did so much for Britain? A great soveriegn passes quietly and only few will understand how she was a nation’s backbone; perhaps a few more when they find their descendants wanting…

King Charles limply repeated his mother’s vow of service. When she said it our hair stood up on end. This time it felt contrived and soon forgotten.

Ian Stewart
Ian Stewart
2 years ago
Reply to  jason whittle

Your daughters friends sound rather odd, unless they’re doing it as a form of youthful rebellion. The only other people I’ve come across celebrating her death are some exhibitionist Americans seeking clicks, a crazy Scottish chip shop owner, and the fans of the Dublin football club Shamrock Rovers – who have confirmed yet again that Irish nationalists are quite awful people.

Diane Merriam
Diane Merriam
2 years ago
Reply to  Ian Stewart

I was in the college cafeteria when the news came down that Ronald Reagan had been shot. There were quite a few students almost cheering and saying things like I hope he shot straight. I couldn’t take it after fine minutes or so and I stood up and said, “Look, Reagan wasn’t the president I voted for either, but he is our President and, more than that, he is a human being that was just shot. What is going through your heads?” There were a lot of shame-filled faces, but if I hadn’t spoken up it wouldn’t have stopped and they would have thought nothing of proceeding to feel happiness over the near (as it turned out) death of a person who was trying to be good according to his standards of good (even if I didn’t agree with him on many issues).
Whether a President or a Queen, somehow leaders become nothing but a symbol, no longer human beings. The young haven’t lived long enough to see the realities of life and death, to have it sink in how precarious life can be, to realize that we are all equally human beings, even those who we have deemed to be nothing but a place filler.

David George
David George
2 years ago
Reply to  jason whittle

Jason: “My daughter tells me the students are celebrating”
I guess the best we can say of them is that they’re young, foolish and misinformed. Perhaps they should listen to this thoughtful talk – Jordan Peterson explores the perils of fame, the weight and grandeur of the monarchical system, the legacy of its longest-reigning Queen, the past and future of Britain and the great loss so many have to bear. A truly great discussion: 14 minutes, https://youtu.be/_5os9bT9zuo

Susan Lundie
Susan Lundie
2 years ago
Reply to  jason whittle

“Students are celebrating”. Strangely, there was an exchange under an article on the Telegraph in which a number of people mentioned their surprise at how upset their children, from teens to considerably older, were at The Queen’s passing. Then again some comments have been vile.
I disagree about The King’s message yesterday. I found it reassuring myself and most certainly not limp, but my husband, now deeply cynical about the political class and royalty (other than respect and love for The Queen and her service) expressed himself surprised and impressed by its sincerity. As did many, many posters under the Telegraph item discussing it.
Each to his own of course. After the last several years of deeply disappointing government one would be foolish to have particularly high expectations, but I feel rather better about the future than I have for some months. We’ll see.

Last edited 2 years ago by Susan Lundie
Andy White
Andy White
2 years ago

The 56 years of hurt ended this Summer with the England women’s team winning the European Championship. How did HT miss that outpouring of national elation?

Bit strange anyway that she chooses such a specifically English achievement as the World Cup win to support an otherwise pro-Union case. It’s a heartfelt and affectionate piece, but it doesn’t add up.

dj Stach
dj Stach
2 years ago

Judging from the article, one has the impression that it is not the Queen, who always served as a stand in for the “Britain is Best” meme”, who is being mourned but that with her passing the desolute situation of the nation as a US satrap can no longer be hidden.

Maureen Finucane
Maureen Finucane
2 years ago

Most of these authors write as if they are personal friends of The Queen. Considering the personal inherited wealth of the Royal Family who have done nothing to merit it, the least you can expect is that they carry out their boring engagements without complaint.

Javier Quinones
Javier Quinones
2 years ago

Look up In Defense of Not Mourning Queen Elizabeth at Reason magazine.

Andy O'Gorman
Andy O'Gorman
2 years ago

Nobody said that you have to mourn her passing, however you respecting her live endeavors would not go amiss!

Arkadian X
Arkadian X
2 years ago
Reply to  Andy O'Gorman

Not sure what he meant, but the article is actually not bad.