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South Korea’s incel election Young conservatives claim to be victims of feminism

While young men have to do military service, girls are free to beat them in every school subject. Credit: Chung Sung-Jun / Getty Images

While young men have to do military service, girls are free to beat them in every school subject. Credit: Chung Sung-Jun / Getty Images


February 16, 2022   6 mins

Conservatives in South Korea should be in a tricky position. The nation is currently led by a liberal — who is the most popular president in its democratic history. Moon Jae-in’s administration oversaw one of the world’s best responses to the pandemic, and under his leadership the Korean economy has been roaring, even as much of the developed world has struggled. The last conservative president, meanwhile, was disastrous: Park Geun-hye was impeached, removed from office and later convicted for corruption.

And yet, with the presidential election less than a month away, the conservative candidate Yoon Seok-yeol is showing a slight edge in polling over his liberal rival Lee Jae-myung. How have the country’s conservatives been able to regroup in just five years?

A major reason for this resurgence is the sharp conservative turn of young South Korean men, who are increasingly animated by aggressive misogyny and anti-feminism. These young men have found their champion in Lee Jun-seok, a 36-year-old, Harvard-educated political pundit who became the leader of the conservative opposition party last summer. Warning of the “totalitarian tendency” of feminism and accusing the ruling Democratic Party of fixating on a “pro-woman agenda”, Lee and his supporters have injected a jolt of energy into the South Korean Right.

Until recently, South Korean politics followed a conventional demographic pattern. The younger generation leaned liberal and the older generation leaned conservative, with only marginal differences between the sexes. That began to change, however, after the emergence of the country’s #MeToo movement in early 2018. Since then, politics has polarised along gendered lines.

A January 2022 survey by Gallup Korea, for example, showed that 48% of male voters in their 50s approved of President Moon, as did 46% of female voters in same age group. For voters in their 70s, the gender gap was similarly minuscule — 36% approval among men against 34% approval among women. But among voters in their 30s, only 35% of men approved of the President, compared to 51% of women. The gap was even starker for voters in their 20s: 18% approval among men versus 42% among women. In other words, men in their 20s are more conservative than men in their 70s.

While sexism in South Korea is nothing new, the aggrieved misogyny animating young men is of a more recent vintage. In their 2019 book Men in Their 20s, journalist Cheon Gwan-yul and data scientist Jeong Han-wool found that the young generation’s misogyny was marked by over-the-top hostility against feminism: 58.6% of South Korean men in their 20s said they strongly opposed feminism, with 25.9% rating the intensity of their opposition as 12 on a scale from 0 to 12.

Unlike older men, who held to a patriarchal worldview defined by rigid gender roles, young men reject the sense of masculine duty that typically accompanies old-school sexism. Rather, they see themselves as victims of feminism and define themselves politically by this sense of victimisation.

Among young South Koreans, gender is emerging as the primary dividing line between liberals and conservatives. For the older generation, politics was largely about attitudes toward South Korea’s dictators and the democracy movement of the 1970s and 80s. But for South Koreans under 30, who were born into a wealthy and secure democracy, debates about whether economic growth is more important than freedom are no longer relevant.

Today’s young people came of age after the Asian Financial Crisis of 1997 had destroyed South Korea’s previous model of lifetime employment, and they have spent their entire lives preparing for and taking a series of ruthlessly competitive examinations — for prestigious high schools, then colleges, then large corporations. Instead of poverty and oppression, their main struggle is to achieve economic security in a society that is often brutal to those who lose out.

In this new environment, young women have fared better than before. Sexism, of course, remains a problem: a recent study estimated that structural sexism depresses South Korean women’s wages by between a quarter and a third compared to South Korean men. But since 2009, more women have attended college than men, and in some standardised examinations, they dominate to such an extent that men now benefit from affirmative action. In an exam selecting mid-level civil servants, for example, a rule requires an additional hire if one of the sexes fall below 30% of the overall staff; that is, if a department is hiring ten new employees and two men and eight women make the cut, the department is required to pass one more man and hire eleven employees. In 2021, 79 men and 22 women benefitted from this rule.

The effect of rising autonomy among young women is particularly visible in dating and family formation. In a 2021 study that surveyed residents of Seoul, only 58% of men in their 20s said they had had sex in the past year, a lower rate than for men in their 60s. The numbers were similar among women in their 20s, but for a different reason. While most celibate men said they didn’t have sex because they couldn’t find a partner, most celibate women said it was because they had no interest in sex.

Young Korean women are also increasingly sceptical of marriage and childbirth. According to a survey by the magazine SisaIN, only 8.1% of young women and 0% of self-identified feminists agreed with the statement “People must marry”, versus 37% of the population overall. And South Korea’s fertility rate, which fell to 0.84 births per woman in 2020, is the lowest in the world.

As sex and marriage become matters of individual choice, they are also becoming, for men, a luxury for the economically secure. In the Yonsei University study, men who rated themselves as upper middle class were 12 percentage points more likely to say they had had sex in the previous year than men who rated themselves as lower class. A 2019 analysis by KBS News, which studied men in their 30s, found a clear linear correlation between income and marital status: 86.3% of men in the top income decile were married, compared to only 20.3% in the bottom decile.

These divisions around sex, marriage, and feminism are increasingly mapping onto political divisions. For instance, another study, a December 2021 survey of people aged 20–35, found that those who say they could marry but did not want to were more likely than average to be college-educated liberal women. On the other hand, those who said they wanted to marry but couldn’t were more likely than average to be conservative men who did not attend college.

Frustrated by these arrangements, many young men have focused their ire on women and feminism, which they blame for their economic and sexual frustrations. These young sexists have poured their anger into conservative politics, reviving the country’s formerly moribund Right. They scored their first major political victory in the Seoul mayoral by-election in April 2021, in which exit polls showed a staggering 72.5% of male voters in their 20s voting conservative. This win was followed by the rise of Lee Jun-seok, who made anti-feminism his calling card. Despite never previously winning an election — he had tried three times and failed — Lee was elected president of the main conservative party, the People Power Party, in June 2021.

In the current presidential race, Lee and his sexist supporters have been a major force for the PPP presidential candidate, Yoon Seok-yeol. Lee and Yoon initially feuded, until Lee loudly quit Yoon’s campaign in late December, in part because Yoon courted the support of a few prominent feminists in an attempt to appeal to young women. With Lee and his backers gone, however, Yoon’s support cratered. His double-digit polling lead over his main rival, the liberal Lee Jae-myung, evaporated, and by early January, he had fallen into a double-digit hole. To regroup, Yoon ditched the feminists and welcomed Lee Jun-seok back to the campaign.

Since Lee’s return, Yoon has strongly focused his campaign on appealing to the young misogynists. He has, for instance, promised to eliminate the Ministry of Gender Equality, a bête noire of the sexists, who consider it to be a feminist cabinet ministry. And on his Instagram account, he has peddled alt-Right memes, including a photo of himself buying anchovies (“myeol-chi”) and beans (“kong”) at a supermarket — a dog-whistle for “myeol-kong”, or “Exterminate Communists.” After the shift in tactics, Yoon’s polling numbers soon bounced back, taking a narrow lead over Lee Jae-myung at the time of this writing.

South Korean politics is undergoing a transition. Since the end of dictatorship in 1987, the country’s politics was largely about litigating that past. Conservatives argued that political oppression had been worth it to escape dire poverty, while the liberals focused on the lack of freedom and the crimes of the dictators. The humiliating 2017 impeachment of Park Geun-hye, the daughter of dictator Park Chung-hee, was the final nail in the coffin for that old conservative argument.

Rather than evolving toward the embrace of sound conservative principles like the limited government, however, Korean conservatives have found a new lease on life by appealing to sexism and male grievance politics. If Yoon Seok-yeol does prevail on 9 March, his victory will be touted as the triumph of anti-feminism. That will be an ominous sign for South Korea’s future.


S. Nathan Park is a Washington DC-based attorney practicing international litigation. He is a non-resident fellow of the Sejong Institute and a frequent commentator on East Asian politics and economics.


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N Forster
N Forster
2 years ago

It seems like this article is a bit of a “hit piece” – we are told repeatedly that certain people are sexist and misogynist without any evidence given to support the accusation.
A poor quality article and not what I expect from Unherd.

Gunner Myrtle
Gunner Myrtle
2 years ago
Reply to  N Forster

Seriously – this is like an article saying Trump’s supporters are all white supremacists. There is probably a more complicated dynamic here than just misogyny.

James Joyce
James Joyce
2 years ago
Reply to  Gunner Myrtle

Yup. Far too simplistic.
As my comment notes, only Julie Bindel can shed real light on this terrible, terrible problem….

Samir Iker
Samir Iker
2 years ago
Reply to  N Forster

Amusingly, documented instances of women doing better in certain fields such as education and civil services is not evidence of sexism
Note, both fields of work are similar: low physical stress, fixed working hour, govt paid with zero job loss risk, desk jobs. I bet the plumbers, taxi drivers and warehouse workers in Korea are all men.

And that feeds into the oft debunked “wage gap” myth – those in soft desk jobs, working fewer hours, with lower stress or higher job security, get paid less. The fact that women take the easier jobs or their responsibility to contribute equally as men doesn’t come up, somehow.

Last edited 2 years ago by Samir Iker
Ethniciodo Rodenydo
Ethniciodo Rodenydo
2 years ago
Reply to  Samir Iker

Their state funded pensions are also far better

J Hop
J Hop
2 years ago
Reply to  N Forster

Yes, I did keep waiting to hear what the specific greviences were.

Matt M
Matt M
2 years ago
Reply to  J Hop

It seemed to be opposing having a cabinet position of Minister for Gender Equality and not liking Commies. Both seem reasonable to me (especially the second one given the neighbours to the north). I fail to see how either is evidence of sexism or “misogyny”.

Alan B
Alan B
2 years ago
Reply to  Matt M

Indeed. A more charitable interpretation by the author would acknowledge that these positions may in fact be consistent with “limited government” conservativism

Eric Sheldon
Eric Sheldon
2 years ago
Reply to  N Forster

Park doesn’t define feminism in his piece, which makes his opinions difficult to gauge.

Jacob Mason
Jacob Mason
2 years ago
Reply to  Eric Sheldon

I quite agree. As the recent UnHerd panel on feminism would suggest, this is quite the difficult problem in the developed world.

Sean Penley
Sean Penley
2 years ago
Reply to  N Forster

I also thought it was strange how the suggest that opposing communism is an ‘alt right’ idea. For most of the last 170 years it’s been the idea of basically anyone who thinks mass murder is maybe not necessarily a good thing for their nation.

Julian Pellatt
Julian Pellatt
2 years ago
Reply to  N Forster

I agree with your observation. I thought the author revealed a strong bias by constantly conflating men with misogyny and sexism. What about the misandry of feminists and the constant sexist posturing in the opposite direction. I look forward (in hope) to the possibility that Unherd may one day publish an article about the damaging consequences of aggressive feminism in the post-WW2 era – the benefits are apparent; but every coin possesses an obverse.

Jonathan Ellman
Jonathan Ellman
2 years ago

Opposing feminism is not misogyny. If it were, over 90 percent of men and close to as many women would be misogynistic. Feminism is about status and nothing else at all. If it were about equality, feminism would insist that women take their share of the militaristic responsibilities, and retire at the same age as men.
“… men who rated themselves as upper middle class were 12 percentage points more likely to say they had sex in the previous year than men who rated themselves as lower class”, and that, Julie Bindel, is the meaning of the phrase ‘prostitution is the oldest profession’. Until women come to terms with and understand better their need for status, these conflicts are going to become uglier and uglier. This the result of equal rights without equal responsibilities.

leculdesac suburbia
leculdesac suburbia
2 years ago

You’re throwing the term “feminism” around as loosely as terms like “humanism” or “liberalism” and then ascribing to it whatever sociological phenomenon you don’t like.
I’m really shocked that among UnHerd readers that a comment like this could even be made, and then upvoted.
So many men complain that their lack of success with women is due to women wanting “status” or money or alphas or some such. No–they want a better human being as a partner, and many want that partner to be a male, not a female.
And women are in the military and we don’t have a draft, but I agree, sexes should be drafted equally for that at which they’re most qualified, and I’d suggest that most women wouldn’t be great in combat but could take on a lot of other jobs for the military or on the homefront that support a war effort (in fact, this was certainly the case during the two world wars in the 20th century, so I’m not sure what you’re complaining about.)

Eric Sheldon
Eric Sheldon
2 years ago

Judging from the world as I see it, many young women are convinced that their physical attractions entitle them to any man they want. They’re not looking for ‘better human beings,’ but for men who are rich. High-end men will sleep with any reasonably attractive woman, but it doesn’t mean they want to set up home with them. In the mean time, perfectly decent and competent males are ignored. The result of this is that nobody’s happy: neither the shallow one-night stand elite, nor the disappointed women who are ghosted, nor the single males who are left on the shelf and derisively told to cure their ‘toxic masculinity.’

Julian Farrows
Julian Farrows
2 years ago

For women to ‘succeed’, a totalitarian state apparatus is required to curtail men’s freedoms. Feminism doesn’t include men unless they present themselves as meekly and inoffensively as possible, hence the rise of politically correct speech and behavioral codes that we see emanating from universities and Human Resources departments. It is an unnatural way of existing and requires an ideology that perpetually excoriates and excludes men until they are raised never to be a threat to women ever again. We see this being enacted in transgender ideology (the turning of men into women), the deflection of sexual desire (directing the male sexual gaze to other men), and gender-neutrality which encourages passive behaviors but suppresses more energetic ones.
The result of this is that many young men are growing up feeling angry and impotent. Astute politicians are now picking up on this male desire to overturn the status quo and are likely to capitalize on it to increase their voter-base. Naturally, those who gained power and prestige through the feminist, sexual and racial identity industry are going to fight it tooth and nail. We already see it happening in the way movements and protests that deviate from the current world order are being labelled as right-wing extremism.

Bernard Hill
Bernard Hill
2 years ago
Reply to  Julian Farrows

Excellent analysis Julian. Perhaps explicit political division along gender lines, appearing first in Korea, aligns with its national character, as reflected in its flag. The Taeguekgi has at its centre, the symbol of Yin and Yang.

David Morley
David Morley
2 years ago

they want a better human being as a partner

This is doubtless true of some women, just as it is true of some men that they don’t judge women solely on looks.
But a rather frightening number of women seem to be both looking for, and feel entitled to, a man with dosh to spend.
I wish it weren’t so. One of the good things many of us expected to come out of feminism is that cash would be taken out of the dating equation. But for many it appears to have got worse.
For many women (I suspect not you, to be fair) feminism has given rise to an enormous sense of female entitlement.

David Morley
David Morley
2 years ago

they want a better human being

Just an afterthought – a better human being according to whose criteria? And if those of women, is there a similar obligation on women to be better human beings according to mens criteria?
I have to say that I see a lot of poor, and very selfish, behaviour on both sides. We really need to drop this Victorian narrative which paints women as angels and men as devils.

Jonathan Ellman
Jonathan Ellman
2 years ago

What are the aims of feminism?

R Wright
R Wright
2 years ago

An extremely poor article that utterly fails in most respects, in particular totally failing to explain where the massive antipathy to Korea’s infamous institutional feminism comes from. There’s not a single mention of how the previous government was quite literally collapsed because it turned out the president was part of a new age misandrist cult and admitted as such on national television. That ‘conservative’ government and its liberal successor have taken political steps against men that would have been unthinkable in the west, and yet have barely been commented on. The Eight Goddesses or whatever they are called are a major power in Korea, and the men of that country have had enough of them. Stop dishing out nonsense terms like alt right – this is not the Guardian.

Lucas D
Lucas D
2 years ago

We are told these people are sexist over and over again. Where’s the evidence?

UnHerd needs to up its editorial standards

James Joyce
James Joyce
2 years ago
Reply to  Lucas D

Only Julie Bindel can help here….

Jay Chase
Jay Chase
2 years ago
Reply to  Lucas D

Visit any major city’s Korean neighborhood and you’ll find yourself drowning in estrogen. South Korean youth culture is completely emasculated and some might say “b***h made.” I like asian societies in general but I find South Korean feminized consumerism revolting. I believe this writer is offended young men are finally starting to push back against this.

Jacob Mason
Jacob Mason
2 years ago

I enjoyed this look into happenings in Korea. Without knowing more, I’m going to take the allegations of misogyny with a grain of salt. Anecdotally, it seems the US and Korea are in a similar situation with household stability increasingly becoming the privilege of the wealthy.

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Matt M
Matt M
2 years ago

The real tragedy – in S Korea and at home – is that those same young women who tell pollsters that they reject marriage and motherhood will be desperate for those things in a few years time but only after the opportunity for them has passed.

Last edited 2 years ago by Matt M
Sean Penley
Sean Penley
2 years ago
Reply to  Matt M

I was very shocked to hear those statistics. Admittedly I haven’t been there since 2006. But still, back then most females still seemed to have the idea that they basically must be married by mid-20s, and would become less selective as they approached that age. It was a bit of a culture shock to me at the time, and I’m not saying that mentality is a good thing either, just amazing that the pendulum could have swung so far in what is actually a fairly short period of time.

David Morley
David Morley
2 years ago

Unlike older men, who held to a patriarchal worldview defined by rigid gender roles, young men reject the sense of masculine duty that typically accompanies old-school sexism.

Isn’t this just the way history runs? In a changed situation, tradition persists for a while by a kind of social inertia. But eventually the change is recognised and actors start to change their behaviour accordingly.
For many young men,”masculine duty” in these changed circumstances starts to look like a con job – and their reaction will be like anybody who feels they are being duped, and take for a fool.

JP Martin
JP Martin
2 years ago
Reply to  David Morley

He makes the corollary point that young women are rejecting marriage and motherhood without seeing the connections.

Douglas McNeish
Douglas McNeish
2 years ago
Reply to  David Morley

A “con-job” indeed. It was some vocal women’s objection to what they felt was a con-job that was the birth of feminism.

Chris Mochan
Chris Mochan
2 years ago

I’m not saying these young men aren’t driven by a hatred or disgust of women, but the article is a little thin on specific evidence of misogyny unless being opposed to feminist politics makes one ipso facto a misogynist.

JP Martin
JP Martin
2 years ago

An interesting article but this line: In this new environment, young women have fared better than before. 
Clearly, there are no winners here. What is the metric of success? University graduation rates? Employment rates? Some consolation for a life of loneliness, sexlessness, and childlessness.

Last edited 2 years ago by JP Martin
William Shaw
William Shaw
2 years ago

Sounds like democracy is alive and working in South Korea.
I am surprised that there was no mention of the state mandated compulsory military service for males (and only males, not females) as one of the main grievances.
Young women move ahead with their careers while young men are held back by military service. It’s hardly surprising young men aren’t happy. Including both sexes in the draft has been proposed but this is a long standing open wound.

Last edited 2 years ago by William Shaw
Frank Freeman
Frank Freeman
2 years ago

It is my understanding that South Korea has conscription for men, but not for women. Feminism is not about sexual equality, it is about spoilt children who want to have their cake and eat it, and to label anti feminists misogynists is lazy.

Michael Coleman
Michael Coleman
2 years ago

The author is very sloppy when he states “Sexism, of course, remains a problem: a recent study estimated that structural sexism depresses South Korean women’s wages by between a quarter and a third compared to South Korean men.”
The study Abstract at the link provided states: “Depending on models, one-fourth to one-third of female earnings disadvantage is attributable to prejudice against women.”
Ignoring the questionable methodology of the study , it is still obvious that these two statements are not the same at all; I am very surprised the editors would publish an author incapable of basic reading comprehension.

Samir Iker
Samir Iker
2 years ago

Why are you surprised, and why do you think the error is due to lack of reading comprehension.

Thanks for the effort, but I could have told you that statement was sloppy and erroneous without even looking at the original report.

Remember that “study” that claimed here was bias against women or non white musicians which was voided by blind testing? Similarly “sloppy”.

Kevin Dee
Kevin Dee
2 years ago

For some reason they hate feminism, when all it’s done is removed their chances of having a wife and kids. Quite the head scratcher alright.
It’s funny the article mentions embracing “sound conservative principles”. The current status quo is not based on any sort of tradition and seems to have produced a complete nightmare of a country, what’s to conserve?

Chris Wheatley
Chris Wheatley
2 years ago

The article gives the solution to the problem: they need to have compulsory military service for women.

SULPICIA LEPIDINA
SULPICIA LEPIDINA
2 years ago
Reply to  Chris Wheatley

That would be a logistical nightmare.

Linda Hutchinson
Linda Hutchinson
2 years ago
Reply to  Chris Wheatley

Unless there is an existential threat (as, for example, in USSR in 1941 – 45) then forcing women of child-bearing age into physical danger is not a good survival tactic for a nation. I realise that young women now serve in the armed forces, but it is only in low numbers at the moment, and for the reasons that I’ve stated I do find it problematic. Of course this doen’t stop women doing some national service in other capacities

William Shaw
William Shaw
2 years ago

A woman is just as capable of stopping a bullet as a man.

Last edited 2 years ago by William Shaw
Linda Hutchinson
Linda Hutchinson
2 years ago
Reply to  William Shaw

I’m not deny that. all I’m saying is that no society can afford to loose large numbers of fertile females. It’s a straight forward survival question.

Douglas McNeish
Douglas McNeish
2 years ago

Evidence shows their fertility is increasingly irrelevant, as the article demonstrates that a rapidly decreasing number of women want to exercise it.

William Shaw
William Shaw
2 years ago

I really don’t care.
Losing 100,000 women in a war would hardly affect the UK population. If women want to be treated as equals they must accept the responsibilities that accompany equality.
I would like to see half of all front line fighting troops to be women in future.

SULPICIA LEPIDINA
SULPICIA LEPIDINA
2 years ago
Reply to  William Shaw

However shooting from the prone unsupported position can be a problem, for obvious reasons.

David Morley
David Morley
2 years ago

forcing women of child-bearing age into physical danger is not a good survival tactic for a nation

but if they are not having kids anyway …..

Linda Hutchinson
Linda Hutchinson
2 years ago
Reply to  David Morley

You don’t know who will or will not have kids.

Douglas McNeish
Douglas McNeish
2 years ago

Why should it matter whether these women are of child-bearing age when the birth rate suggests they are not bearing children anyway?

Paul Scannell
Paul Scannell
2 years ago

The male feminist doth protest a little too much.

James Joyce
James Joyce
2 years ago

This is a terrible, terrible problem, and with respect, the author shed more heat than light on the problem.
UnHerd needs to send Julie Bindel to Korea–maybe she doesn’t even have to go, as she instinctively sees the problem is and immediately has the solution.
Please UnHerd, assign this story to JB, for a deep yet completely objective dive into misogyny in South Korea. UnHerd readers want–no need, absolutely need–her brilliant insights into the male Korean mentality.

David Morley
David Morley
2 years ago
Reply to  James Joyce

Or even North Korea!

James Joyce
James Joyce
2 years ago
Reply to  David Morley

Oops! Typo!

William Shaw
William Shaw
2 years ago
Reply to  James Joyce

I wonder if she’s aware that her attitude towards men have become so predictable that it’s become a joke?

Last edited 2 years ago by William Shaw
James Joyce
James Joyce
2 years ago
Reply to  William Shaw

Nah, mate. If JB has anything, it’s a profound lack of awareness…..

Jason Highley
Jason Highley
2 years ago

Correction: it will be a marvelous sign for South Korea’s future. On present trajectory, and captive to feminist interests, your own article shows that they aren’t even repopulating themselves. If anyone can rescue a country from depraved, lonely, sexless death, it’s a based young man with energy and passion.

James Anthony Seyforth
James Anthony Seyforth
2 years ago

From Wikipedia we can see what’s going on here:

“Criticism [of Lee Jun-seok]:

He is considered a somewhat moderate conservative within the PPP, but he has been controversial for his tough stance on some issues. He is mainly supported by young men who are negative about feminism, and he said feminism has a somewhat totalitarian inclination.[23] Na Kyung-won, a leading female politician in the PPP, described Lee political line as “Trumpism.”[24] Lee Jae-myung, the Democratic presidential contender in 2022, expressed concern about Lee Jun-seok’s political popularity, saying, “It could lead to the emergence of far-right populism.”[25][26] South Korean liberal journalist Hankyoreh also compared Lee Joon-seok to Donald Trump.[27]”

He is framed as just “another Trump” i.e. someone opposing the main stream deconstructionist liberal political paradigm and offering an alternative vision of politics and approach to modern social organization and levelling of society.

Rasmus Fogh
Rasmus Fogh
2 years ago

Interesting story. It would be interesting to know, though, whether the author welcomes the new developments that young males are rebelling against, or whether he has an alternative solution.

Douglas McNeish
Douglas McNeish
2 years ago

I suspect that women in Korea suffer from the same execrable exclusion from the building and other labour-intensive trades that they want so desperately to practice – were it not for the oppression if the patriarchy. And so to obtain equality they must resort to demanding a greater share if those better paid professional jobs – because equity. Sounds familiar.

Daniel Holt
Daniel Holt
2 years ago

Running around yelling ‘sexist!’ with hair on fire. Isn’t this part of the problem? A shallow effort this. Like, elsewhere, intentions which were noble, and frankly just basic biology, until yesterday have been ground into the dust as the liberal juggernaut crashes its way toward its dead end.

Justin Clark
Justin Clark
2 years ago

I enjoyed the article and found it insightful. thanks.

Jay Chase
Jay Chase
2 years ago

This is an interesting phenomenon I wasn’t aware of.
In LA’s Koreatown, which has a huge number of SK immigrants and visitors, I’ve noticed rampant signs of cultural decay, in the form of a highly decadent and superficial consumer-oriented society where family, community and hard work have been superseded by Instagram, handbag dogs, plastic surgery, feminized male celebrities and cuteness. Naturally this phenomenon goes completely un-mentioned in this article.
For the liberated young SK feminist consumer, freed from the obligations of family and motherhood and either uninterested in sex or else on the pill, these amusements offer temporary satisfaction, but it’s not hard to see how they eventually channel their lack of genuine fulfillment with their lives into whining about the patriarchy and hurling accusations at their male co-workers.
Glad to see young men there waking up to this, would love to get the perspective of a young man who lives there and isn’t a simp.

Gerald Koh
Gerald Koh
2 years ago

While there’s many pieces of interesting data that this author includes in this article – and honestly it’s interesting to have an article on South Korea – it reads as a leftoid screed and an aggressively feminist polemic by a male feminist.

leculdesac suburbia
leculdesac suburbia
2 years ago

South Korea women have organized numerous protests against the widespread misogynist practice of implanting hidden videos in women’s restrooms and other private sex-segregated spaces. Of course, web sites are set up dedicated to streaming the hidden film of girls and women using toilets and/or undressing in changing or shower rooms.
To the knee-jerk “but the men are so LONELY” reaction one has to say that this is an extremely misogynistic practice in which females are being told that aren’t worthy of basic human rights like privacy and that in the the public sphere they are subject at any time to be “undressed” and humiliated by having bathroom or shower photos published for literally billions of men to see. Women routinely file police reports but nothing is done about it–hence the protests.
Men are not OWED sex, or a wife. Maybe they should work on being better partners, rather than blaming feminists for empowering women not to have to put up with this bullshit anymore.

Last edited 2 years ago by leculdesac suburbia
David Morley
David Morley
2 years ago

Men are not OWED sex, or a wife

I’ve yet to meet a man who feels that he is.
Feeling that your life does not include emotional warmth, contact, intimacy, and, yes, sex – is very likely to make people unhappy and even resentful. That is not the same as feeling entitled.

Last edited 2 years ago by David Morley
Rasmus Fogh
Rasmus Fogh
2 years ago

Welcome to the bear pit. And thanks for a highly necessary comment on some of the undoubtedly misogynist practices that do happen in South Korea.

On the ‘men are not OWED sex’ front, might I add that men are also not owed a roof over their head or three square meals a day? The world does not owe you a living – but those who miss out while their neighbours prosper still feel find it somewhat difficult to resign themselves to quietly doing without. Could we agree that
1) The terms of trade have changed dramatically over a generation or two, advancing women (relatively, of course) at the expense of men?
2) That a lot of the ‘work on being better partners’ is likely to result in still not getting anyone or (if you are in a couple) not getting any? In my youth there were many who heard that women were attracted to nice guys and decided to follow that strategy. Generally we learned the hard way that no matter how nice we tried to be, no one was attracted to us. This is where the word ‘friendzone’ came from.
3) There seems to be a quite solidly rooted cultural preference to the effect that 80% of the women compete mainly for 20% of the men (see e.g. on dating sites)? That leaves the women who lose that competition with at least the choice of lowering her standards or staying single – which is more choice than the losing men will get.

DA Johnson
DA Johnson
2 years ago

Judging by the names and comments posted, it appears that not one commenter is Korean or has lived in Korea or is a student of Korean society. It is therefore hard to see how commenters could judge the accuracy of descriptions and assertions in this article.