Marcus Rashford after he missed his penalty (Photo by Visionhaus/Getty Images)

The news used to be something that people absorbed, and responded to, largely in private. It arrived as a pre-produced, packaged entity. People opened their morning paper and expostulated over the breakfast table. Or they settled down for the 6 o’clock bulletin, with its urgent bleep of news-music, and yelled back at the television from the sofa.
There used to be, too, a difference between the things people said — remarks intended to vanish on the air — and the things they wrote and published, which were generally more considered: physically laborious to produce, and passed through selected gatekeepers in order to reach a mass audience.
And then came Twitter, the most powerful modern illustration of Marshall McLuhan’s dictum that the medium is the message. Here, the flow of news is continuous, unregulated and fierily interactive. The instant, throwaway nature of conversation has been imported into a published, preservable medium. Spats that arise on Twitter now regularly flow back into the “old media” of print; and then — with the ease of retweets and replies — it has technically enabled the rapid amplification of praise or abuse, the latter resulting in the “pile-on”.
As with the emotional contagion that sweeps through a physical mob, the particular structure of Twitter encourages users to behave in ways which would have been contrary to their “public self” five or ten years earlier — although it may, sometimes worryingly, have unleashed the private self to speak more freely. Those who join in often sport the blue ticks denoting a verified account, and it’s clear that they don’t think of themselves as bullies, but as the righteous enforcers of a fluid but tangible moral order.
One recent episode involved Darren Grimes, a young, gay, pro-Brexit conservative commentator who has over 150,000 Twitter followers. In the aftermath of the Euro 2020 final, when emotions were running high, Grimes posted a tweet in which he tagged in the young England footballer Marcus Rashford — who had missed a penalty — and said “penalties not politics from now on, aye?”
It was a snide tweet, partly designed to set the Twitter hive-mind buzzing in irritation. It was unfair, too: plenty of hard-training players miss penalties — and since the press and public spent years berating footballers for their boozed-up, skirt-chasing antics, it seemed weird to deride one young player for dignified campaigning on free school meals. Many people disagreed with Grimes’ tweet, and said so. But the blue-ticked rugby pundit Brian Moore went one better, tweeting of Grimes that “this little done-nothing twat deserves a good kicking.”
The kicking was duly delivered elsewhere, in electronic form. A different tweeter, from the now-defunct account @hepcatsector, came up with the dubious story that his cousin had gone to school with Grimes, and that in year 9 he had a nickname associated with masturbation under a desk. This tweeter also posted a series of messages between himself and Grimes, which later turned out to be fake. The allegation was designed to be both sexual and shaming. Twitter adored it, naturally, and sent it viral — endlessly hashtagging the alleged nickname, expanding on it, illustrating it with obscene memes and videos.
Grimes replied that he didn’t have that nickname at school, but that he was certainly called “poofter,” “fag” and beaten for being “gay”.
The Twitter rumour wasn’t directly homophobic, although certainly nasty. But anyone who recalls homophobic taunting from their schooldays will remember how frequently it caricatured gay adolescents as inappropriately sexual, prone to getting “turned on” in situations and ways that allegedly repelled their tormentors. In effect, the baseless rumour that Twitter spread about Grimes as a schoolchild is precisely the kind of rumour that school bullies spread about gay teenagers. Those revelling in it would mostly count themselves on the “progressive” side of politics, and would no doubt officially deplore homophobia. Yet somehow that line of attack arose – and they all joined in.
The spat had barely cooled when Giles Coren, a columnist on The Times, posted a tweet about Dawn Foster, a Left-wing fellow journalist who recently died suddenly aged just 34. Foster, who could be a combative Twitter presence herself, had made acerbic comments about Coren some years earlier. These had rankled, and upon her untimely death — to sum up his tweet, which was later deleted — he wondered aloud about a response which began in faux-commiseration and ended in gleeful laughter.
His tweet itself suggested someone playing a high-stakes game of risk, not only with the boundaries of taste in the aftermath of a death, but with a huge and volatile audience: a kind of Russian roulette with a “post a tweet” button, testing if this might be the one that triggers disaster. And Twitter did indeed respond, sometimes with pained disbelief, and sometimes with foul insults and escalating threats of real-life reprisals over many days.
British speech was once heavily associated with understatement, which itself was tied to civic virtue. The most inconceivable pressures and agonising wartime losses, for example, were often described in stoically minimal terms such as “a spot of bother” or “a bit sticky”. Quite the opposite mode of speech, however, has spread throughout social media: the language of wild overstatement. It frequently employs adjectives once applicable to the extreme depths of human behaviour – “vile” “disgusting” “horrific” – to perceived minor transgressions of some fast-moving social code. This fury is often triggered by nuance, while leaving major, real-world offences untouched.
The Guardian film critic Peter Bradshaw, for example, recently described Scarlett Johansson’s “sensuous cough-syrup purr” in a review. The actress is known in Hollywood for her seductive voice: in my days as a film critic I wrote about it myself. Yet this mild expression of admiration drew the ire of an LA features editor called Alisha Grauso, who tweeted her anger at a “middle-aged male film critic” being “so GD f*ing creepy when writing about female characters.” Thanks to outrage inflation, a key element in the Twitter economy, a large band of Grauso’s 27,000 followers were soon rocking away in performative horror like the young maidens of Salem: cue vomiting GIFs, fierce accusations of “fucking gross”, and the now-formulaic imitation of stunned disbelief: “…I just…what…”
What is this? Anger looking for a place to earth, I suppose. Restless anger coming out, sometimes skimpily dressed as satire, and attracting more and greater waves of anger to it, as a kind of confirmation of its existence. Boundaries of what it’s acceptable to say are being dissolved. And, increasingly in modern Britain, physical boundaries are being crossed too. Twitter’s mechanics are reshaping national codes of behaviour.
Last June a crowd demonstrated outside Dominic Cummings’ family home, erecting a giant screen. A different crowd recently sought out the place where it thought the chief medical officer Chris Whitty lives. Whitty himself was mauled, jostled and filmed in a park by two young men, who had just been to an anti-lockdown rally and had its speeches ringing in their ears. The wall outside Coren’s house was daubed with Foster’s name, and dog excrement left on the pathway.
In every case, the people crossing the boundaries believed that outrage and circumstance had given them the moral authority to behave outside normal codes, and to take the argument directly to their opponent’s door, sometimes to family homes in which partners and young children also live. What people do when they think they’re allowed, of course, is what part of them wanted to do when they weren’t. Regardless of what one thinks of each individual trigger, this is cause for concern.
I grew up during the Troubles in Northern Ireland, a conflict in which physical boundaries were frequently crossed in the most horrific ways. People were shot as they answered the door or blown apart when starting up their car. It didn’t begin with that, of course. It began with the gradual heating-up of rhetoric, the stentorian sectarian speeches of the young Ian Paisley, the impassioned orations at IRA commemorations, all fanning the existing fears and resentments of their listeners into uncontrollable action.
For conflicts more explicitly activated by the media itself, one need only look to the central role that the Radio Télévision Libre des Milles Collines played in the Rwandan genocide. Its hate-filled patter inciting murderous violence against Tutsi “cockroaches” was woven in with jokes and songs, pop music and phone-ins. Conscious of the part the station was playing in directing genocide, human rights groups including the US Committee for Refugees asked that US military resources be used to jam their broadcasts. The US government refused: for reasons outside Rwanda, it had a strong commitment to broadcast freedom, and was culpably slow to see the urgency of the argument in this case.
We’re a long way from these horrors in the West, but a strange inversion has already taken hold in the thinking of many — especially those who are most vocal on university campuses. It’s said that ideological difference, even when thoughtfully and politely expressed, is “literal violence” and deserves a commensurate response. But actual, direct threats of stabbing, raping, killing or bombing are meant to be interpreted as metaphorical.
The area where this pattern of thought is most apparent is in the current highly charged argument over trans issues. It was evident in a recent article in Jezebel magazine, in which the writer, Ashley Reese, berated JK Rowling for making public a tweet wishing her “a very nice pipe-bomb in the mailbox”. Discussing the tweet, Reese mocked the idea that anyone would feel directly threatened by a Twitter user who in this case describes themselves as “a genderfluid lesbian and a cybermarxist” and uses an anime avatar.
Yet the article demonstrates a fundamental misunderstanding of who issues violent threats, and of what such threats — even if not enacted — are intended to do. Is there really a “type” from whom we should take threats seriously, and another we should comfortably ignore? History suggests that would be foolish. The Price sisters, Marian and Dolours, for example, were intelligent, highly attractive young women who had attended teacher training college. In 1973, aged 19 and 22 respectively — fired by a belief in the purity of their cause — they participated in the IRA Old Bailey bombing which left 200 people injured and one dead. The journalist Neal Ascherson remembered Ulrike Meinhof as a “tender and vulnerable” 30-year-old journalist, the mother of young twins. That was before she “took up the gun” as a leader of a gang responsible for a wave of bombings, shootings and assassinations across Germany.
Soon after the tweet that Rowling highlighted — one among many threats she has received — another piece of writing came to light, this time from a paper written by an LSE Gender Studies student, Matt Thompson. In it, the author makes an explicit threat to “TERFs” or gender-critical women. “Picture this: I hold a knife to your throat and spit my transness in your ear. Does that turn you on? Are you scared? I sure fucking hope so.” It’s the type of statement frequently found on Twitter, now immortalised in an academic paper. Thompson self-defines as “an autistic genderfuck” and also someone “who loves cats, running, books and plants.” By Reese’s logic, who could possibly be afraid of a student who loves cats?
And yet it seemed Thompson very much wanted certain women to feel afraid. There’s a negative, insidious power to open threats of harm, which is exactly why people and paramilitary groups make them. They deliberately invoke fear to shut people up. They take root in the victim’s psyche, stealing their peace of mind, making them feel that violence might be just around the corner. And sometimes death threats do come true.
We cannot put the genie of social media back in its bottle. But we can certainly stop persistently lying to ourselves — as individuals and as a society — about what it is permissible to say to those we dislike or disagree with, and how we say it. The truth is that, most of the time, the state’s not going to stop you from bullying, smearing or even directly threatening someone online: there’s simply too much material for it to handle. But brick by brick, word by word, we’re either building or tolerating a world that we will all then have to live in. And most people in the UK are simply not prepared for what that could entail.
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SubscribeThe world needs to realise that the UN, UNWRA, western NGOs, and the biased media like BBC, c4, Guardian, CNN, etc, do no favours for the gazans, by propagating their refugee status.
YouTube video titled ‘best speech by Israeli diplomat 2009 Oslo’ outlines the nub of the conflict.
Kurdistan and Sudan are Queer issues. Let’s get our kurdish head scarves and t shirts and get out there to fight for free free Kurdistan….free free Sudan. Biden while you hide, people die!
I question if Palestinians are not tribal….they were tribal prior to 19th century of Zionism and reacted tribally to Zionism. They have seen the 2nd terror war launched by Arafat end with more regulations and so called “humiliations” for getting around…taking jobs within Israel or on Israel’s Judean/Samarian communities….I question if the newest post Oct 7th generation isn’t as nihilistic as ones before. The rubble of Gaza today is just more fuel for their certainty that Allah is on their side. Rational thinking be damned. Coexistence with the Jews….I don’t see any sign of that being accepted just as Arafat’s so called acceptance was his clever ruse to trick the gullible Jews and the Western nations.
I cannot see Hamas disappearing unless political influencers in the ‘Western Democracies’ start calling them.
It is about time the atrocities of Oct 7 were revisited.
When Trump takes over, it appears that the US will call it what it is.
“For supporters of Hamas, October 7 was not a day of infamy, but an eruption of vengeance, a modern re-enactment of the Prophet Muhammad’s slaughter of the Jewish tribe of Khaybar, which ended Jewish resistance to the Prophet’s call”
It doesn’t make sense to both claim indignity to the southern levant whilst identifying with early islamic conquest.
Exactly- those from the Arabia peninsula are settler colonialists and cultural appropriators in Palestine.
I do think part of lineage comes from roman Judaea & other Canaanite peoples.
Who has just captured Aleppo ? Tahrir Alshams or Shams Altahrir? Palestine liberation front or Front for liberation of Palestine- the names are irrelevant, what feeds the insurrection is relevant. Just imagine your family ( who had nothing to do with Hamas) has been killed by Israelis, your house demolished, all your life is violence, smoking ruins and hatred. What would you do?
Hamas was/is the government authority in Gaza. Every single Gazan knows that it is Hamas that brought the disaster on Gaza. Every single Gazan knows that it is Hamas that uses mosques, schools, hospitals and private homes as weapons depots, as access to its tunnel network, as emplacement for missile and mortar shooting. Every single Gazan knows that Hamas is using them and their houses as shields, and is doing everything to prevent civilians from leaving combat zones.
Every Gazan knows this in his heart. And yet, when asked, he will blame Israel and will never mention Hamas. Because blaming Israel gains him rewards of sympathy and support, while blaming Hamas can result in torture and death. And so the cycle continues, of attacking Israel, then blaming it for the consequences, and finally receiving sympathy and aid from the international community. Rinse and repeat.
yet another excellent response
since your hypothetical example includes one group of Muslims killing other groups of Muslims, what is your point? The people clutching their pearls whenever an Israeli is involved are strangely silent when it’s just Muslims killing each other, something that happens far more often.
You mean there aren’t mass protests on the streets of Western cities related to the butchering going on in Syria, Sudan, Kurdistan, Yemen (although that’s all our fault apparently), Somalia.
The Gazans should count themselves lucky for such great PR and support. Driven by antisemitism mind.
Yes, Like you I have been heartened by the massive campus encampment for an immediate cease fire and end to genocide in Sudan and Kurdistan. Block the Brooklyn Bride and Lincoln Tunnel until such time as the starvation and indiscriminate bombing of Sudanese and Kurdish women and children ends. Yes, I’m very heartened by Queers for Kurdistan. and so on.
Much like when the us carpet bombed the Iraqi guard units the diminution of Iranian proxies will provide space for their enemies to reassert themselves.
We will be talking about this for the next 20 years.
Blame Hamas. I would know that if it wasn’t for Hamas I, my family and my people could be living in safety peace and comfort.
Free Palestine.
From Hamas!
Blame Hamas, and before Hamas blame PLO, and before PLO blame Haj Amin ( actually he refused a very reasonable Peel plan so yes, definitely blame him)
I believe Gerecht is a bit optimistic. What he didn’t take into account is that Hamas receives considerable succor from the relentless anti-Israel demonstrations in North America and in Europe. These demonstrators, that include both Muslim immigrants and Western progressives who are willing to fight Israel to the last Palestinian, maintain the illusion among the Hamas militants that eventually they will be able to bring Israel to its knees. Second and perhaps more significant is the fixation of Israel’s allies on the need to protect Palestinian non-combatants at all price, which has the double consequence of instigating Hamas to increase the Palestinian civilian death toll, both real and made up, and of maintaining Hamas in power via the provision of aid, which Hamas then diverts away from the civilians and to its own uses. This policy is just a continuation of the decades-long massive provision of aid to Gaza by the international community, aid that relieved Hamas from the need to take responsibility for its citizens, and which it taxed in order to build up Gaza as a fortress from which to attack Israel. That the donor nations do not appear to be reassessing neither this policy nor UNWRA’s role in Gaza’s disaster, signals to Hamas that after the war, it can expect to remain in charge of Gaza.
None of these factors obtained in the other examples of Islamic militant groups that Gerecht mentioned.
pretty accurate response.
I think you’re both right and wrong in different aspects. With respect, I’m not sure how much the moral support of American college students who probably couldn’t find Gaza on a map before this nonsense started really factors into the thinking of people who are dodging bombs and hiding in basements hoping to find enough food to avoid starvation. I can’t imagine the people on the ground derive much succor from this, if they’re aware of it at all. People who have experienced real hardship and suffering on a daily basis for most of their lives probably aren’t moved one way or the other by overweight pink haired protesters wearing hijabs to show solidarity or chanting ‘from the river to the sea’ without knowing what they’re actually implying by doing so.
The second part of your argument though, shows how these seemingly ridiculous protests can have an impact, because they can actually produce tangible results in the countries where they exist. If short-sighted western politicians more concerned with winning the next election than with the long term survival of either Israel or Gaza decide to change policy or give some superficial aid package to the poor starving people of Gaza to appease some constituency of voters, it has an impact. In practical terms, places that receive such sympathies and aid are usually poor and often dangerous, yet this aid be distributed by somebody, and usually that somebody is whoever happens to be in charge of whatever facsimile of government exists in said dangerous area, in this case Hamas. That’s when the distorting nature of western misplaced sympathy really comes into play because the people see Hamas distributing food and clothing when they have none. Hamas uses the donations to keep the people dependent upon them, when otherwise the people might demand change through means peaceful or violent. In this aspect, you are correct in your assessment.
Denying aid to Hamas in response to their calls for the destruction of Israel would undermine them, but it would also likely result in an immediate humanitarian catastrophe that wouldn’t play well to sheltered western audiences. We would be essentially doing the same thing Israel is, that is starving them out and punishing the people collectively for allowing Hamas to represent them and implicating every Palestinian for the October 7th attacks. The fact that this is an eminently practical strategy, and the only one that might actually result in driving the Palestinian people to collectively accept that they’ve lost, Israel won’t be destroyed, and by fighting against this they’re only prolonging their misery and oppression for the foreseeable future doesn’t actually matter, because a certain segment of westerners are emotionally weak adult children that can’t handle the harsher realities of the world. Sometimes doing awful things in the short term allows for better things to happen in the long term. Sometimes in war you have to do more than simply occupy a capital or win a battle. Sometimes you must break the will of your enemy to continue fighting, and often harsh methods will be required. Western politicians don’t care about any of this. They are by and large concerned primarily with domestic issues, as they frankly should be, but too many of them will throw Israel (or anybody else really) under the bus to win an election. The only sensible thing for westerners, both politicians and citizens, is nothing. Western intervention has done less than nothing to help this situation over the longer term. They’d be better served to stay out of a conflict they have no part in fighting and no stake in winning. The only people who need to be involved in this war are the people fighting it, the people who will have to live with the outcome. Bleeding hearts wailing for the suffering Palestinians from the comfort of their couches in front of the TV have no place in this conflict and do both sides a great disservice by their participation.
Well said, Steve.
I agree with everything you wrote. And I did specify that the demonstrations in the West give succor to Hamas – not to the Palestinian civilians – for exactly the reasons that you give.
Perhaps, a new US administration can take the money sent to the UN spent for Palestinians, provide it to Israel, and let Israel be seen as the distributor and source of largess.
Give peace a chance.
Hamas needs to be disbanded and the only way possible is if the bleeding hearts in the un and western society stop supporting their efforts to martyr another generation of Palestinian children.
They should likely take responsibility for allowing Hamas to build a citadel in Gaza with children as a shield, but they are too much of a weasel to do the right thing.
Thank you Reuel. Forceful change of the Arab world by Arabs is the only way forward. I would agree that the obliteration of Hamas is inevitable. We must be ready for the next round and whoever is chosen as the Muslim champion.
Nothing made by human hands exists forever, without ending; our handiwork is flawed. Only God’s handiwork is without flaws. To say that a human ideology cannot end, is false. I suggest that Hamas (having little in common with a peaceful sort of Islam), which worships violence, vengeance, and might – none of which are Godly principles, must find its end, and God send that it be soon ….
Right sentiment, wrong agent.
Hamas, the work of men, can only be overcome and consigned to history by the work of other men (and women). Anything else is “waiting for godot”.
There is only one kind of Islam Samuel. How the individual Muslim chooses to interpret it is the issue.
Indeed ….