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Is Prince Harry the new Edward VIII? This cruel, mad system demands that royals be treated both as demigods and as prey

Prince Harry in Malawi Credit: Dominic Lipinski - Pool/Getty Images

Prince Harry in Malawi Credit: Dominic Lipinski - Pool/Getty Images


October 22, 2019   4 mins

Can you untangle monarchy from madness? In an age of apparent equality it makes no sense to have a queen who is the conduit to a god most people now deny. In an age of human rights the contortions that the royal family must endure – the lack of privacy, the global attention – are ludicrous. And yet we go on with it, more as entertainment than the fulfilment of a spiritual need.

On Sunday, in the ITV documentary Harry & Meghan: An African Journey, the Duke of Sussex told friendly journalist Tom Bradby of his misery at the negative coverage he and Meghan receive.

Harry is suing various tabloid newspapers for breach of privacy and alleged telephone-hacking. Using Africa as a backdrop – gruesome and tin-eared, but what in his life has allowed him to develop empathy? – he spoke of their misery at the intrusion.

Harry has suffered from monarchy, and has spoken about the trauma before. “I thought I was out of the woods,” he said. “But suddenly it all came back. And now I have a family to protect, so everything that she [Diana] went through, and what happened to her is incredibly raw, every single day. And that’s not me being paranoid. That’s just me not wanting a repeat of the past”.

Then he said: “I think being part of this family, in this role, in this job, every single time I see a camera, every single time I hear a click, every single time I see a flash it takes me straight back so in that respect it’s the worst reminder of her life as opposed to the best”. It was shocking, but so were the sanctimonious responses that Harry should be silent, and grateful for the expensive kitchens – to be a vessel.

The system demands that royals be treated as demigods but what happens when one of those demigods allows itself to be seen as human, with needs which are not served by being royal but are instead maimed by it? Usually, a crisis.

Edward VIII abdicated using the excuse that he was not allowed to marry Wallis Simpson, an American divorcée. Any perceptive reader would understand that Edward chose Wallis so he could escape; but royalty is not allowed to be that honest – a sacrifice is a sacrifice, and who wants to hear the sobbing at the altar? Princess Diana told of her unhappiness, brought monarchy to another crisis, and we know how it ended. We laid the flowers.

Now Harry will not be silent, and this must be the cause of the apparent rift between him and William. By seeking to shed light on monarchy, and how it maims, he is imperilling his brother’s throne. We know that the Windsors are ruthless. That is why they are still here.

I wonder if Harry’s course is similar to that of his great-great uncle King Edward; if, unconsciously, he married a woman who did not understand monarchy and so, in not understanding – or tolerating it – would free him? Meghan, like Diana, obviously believed in the fairy tale; she had either forgotten, or never known, that fairy tales are brutal.

Harry has broken the convention that royalty does not say how it feels. He has shattered the bargain that, in return for obsessive attention – I will not call it privilege, because it isn’t – you submit to be feasted on, in every aspect of your life. The only possible way to survive is to say nothing, do nothing, be nothing – to be the vessel – but Harry cannot do this. Catherine Middleton, born into the middle class, can; it is as if, as an outsider who watched monarchy, she knew the market.

The non-royal Elizabeth Bowes-Lyon could do it too. Diana couldn’t, and she did not live in the age of Twitter and Instagram, and a surfeit of news accelerating every trend. Nor can Harry, trying to recover from the death of his mother, after which he has coerced into walking behind her coffin, presumably to protect his father’s reputation.

The duchess, meanwhile, said she was not living but existing, that she is not “okay”. Her British friends had told her not to marry Harry “because the British tabloids will destroy your life’’. She then said: “I never thought this would be easy, but I thought it would be fair.”

I found this touching, because it was never going to be fair. Are you fair to that which you consume? The media does not hate Meghan, nor does it love her – it is simply indifferent. They are material to be consumed, which is why a tabloid will have pieces both for and against them within pages of each other. This piece, of course, is part of the consumption.

I would liberate Britain from this dirty bargain, which infantilises the public, succours the class system, fills newspapers with junk and ruins the object of its obsession. I think Harry is right to sue, but it will not serve him. You cannot make monarchy rational, or safe for its victims; you cannot amend it, or make it kind.

It was always brutal, but this is an age of infinite cruelty and dehumanisation. It was sad to see them so bewildered, for they do not understand the bargain they have made. Harry is demanding to be allowed to be human, and, for monarchy, that is crisis. I wonder if, when he speaks of continuing his mother’s work, this is what he really means.


Tanya Gold is a freelance journalist.

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Jonathan Ellman
Jonathan Ellman
3 years ago

He could have abdicated. It would have been an act of love, more than a romantic gesture, a dignified sacrifice. Instead, they used their royal status to grab everything they could and then trash talked his family.

Simon Denis
Simon Denis
3 years ago

Well said. But I suspect that Markle’s morality is rather more ruthless and utilitarian than Mrs Simpson’s, who stuck with Edward VIII even when he was the Duke of Windsor. Should “Harry” relinquish his titles, you wouldn’t see Markle for a cloud of make-up.

Andrew Thompson
Andrew Thompson
3 years ago

Speaking of Edward the VIII reminds me of the old saying “He who learns not from from history is destined to repeat it’ And look how a downtrodden led by a lead in the hand of an American divorcee he ended up. The Queen mother must be turning in her grave like a washing machine on fast spin. Good riddance to the pair of them; her star will dim much faster than she knows

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uztazo
uztazo
3 years ago

He isn’t Edward VIII, he is Paris of Troy – the prince who invited the Trojan horse that razed his father’s kingdom to the ground.

sharon johnson
sharon johnson
3 years ago

Their celebration of privacy – at last! – was announced, at length, on the Oprah Winfrey show. 17 million viewers in the US alone. H&M are whiny immature hypocrites who, if they’d wanted a degree of anonymity could have found it with 1. a small, private wedding 2. leaving all the royal millions, titles, uniforms, behind 3. shutting their gobs. Harry is too flaccid to make any decisions on his own so he follows the sanctimonious Meghan to Montecito, CA and a mansion with 17 bathrooms and her rescued chickens.

Wilfred Davis
Wilfred Davis
3 years ago

‘In an age of human rights the contortions that the royal family must endure – the lack of privacy, the global attention – are ludicrous.’

So congratulations to Harry and Meghan on escaping all that lack of privacy and global attention, then.

Annette Kralendijk
Annette Kralendijk
3 years ago

Meghan was the catalyst for Harry to live a life of victim hood. He wasn’t really a believable victim just on his own, he needed racial credibility and he certainly could not get that all on his own. But an American actress with a penchant for social justice was tailor-made for Harry to assume the status of a victim. He has now set his own child up as a victim. Who does that? Will Archie be told all his life how he could have been a prince except for his race?
It’s interesting that Harry was specifically not present when Meghan tried to make it look like Archie not getting a prince title was racially based. Because if Oprah had asked him why Archie didn’t get the title, he would have had to admit to knowing exactly why and that race had nothing to do with it.

Last edited 3 years ago by Annette Kralendijk
Nun Yerbizness
Nun Yerbizness
3 years ago

“In Brexit, a group of old, white English people voted for the glories of an imagined past while rejecting a global, multicultural future. 
“The main lesson of the interview is that the UK royal family, tied to a crumbling tabloid press, is behaving much the same way. 
“How it works: Prince Harry detailed the symbiotic relationship between the royal family and the UK tabloids. Meanwhile, a glowing Meghan and Harry, happily ensconced in Santa Barbara luxury, are doing deals with Netflix and Spotify estimated at $100 million and $25 million respectively.
“The erstwhile royals might still be reliant on media companies — but the media companies they’re reliant on are young, international, and much richer than the tabloids.
“By the numbers: Netflix reaches more than 200 million subscribers; Spotify reaches more than 150 million premium subscribers and has a total user base of some 350 million. The Sun, by contrast, Britain’s biggest tabloid, has a circulation of just 1.2 million, while rival the Daily Mirror reaches less than 400,000.”
Felix Salmon, author of Capital; AXIOS

Christian Moon
Christian Moon
3 years ago

Monarchy is of the Earth, energetically. It is solid and reliable and stands for order. It stands for the masculine. The same is true of a state religion, at least if it is to flourish.
Tanya Gold seems more like something of the Air and of the intuition, clever but nervously so. I’m not surprised that she cannot readily connect to our monarch, but the failure narrows her.

Christian Moon
Christian Moon
3 years ago

Monarchy is of the Earth, energetically. It is solid and reliable and stands for order. It stands for the masculine. The same is true of a state religion, at least if it is to flourish.
Tanya Gold seems more like something of the Air and of the intuition, clever but nervously so. I’m not surprised that she cannot readily connect to our monarch, but the failure narrows her.

Nun Yerbizness
Nun Yerbizness
3 years ago

“In Brexit, a group of old, white English people voted for the glories of an imagined past while rejecting a global, multicultural future. 
“The main lesson of the interview is that the UK royal family, tied to a crumbling tabloid press, is behaving much the same way. 
“How it works: Prince Harry detailed the symbiotic relationship between the royal family and the UK tabloids. Meanwhile, a glowing Meghan and Harry, happily ensconced in Santa Barbara luxury, are doing deals with Netflix and Spotify estimated at $100 million and $25 million respectively.
“The erstwhile royals might still be reliant on media companies — but the media companies they’re reliant on are young, international, and much richer than the tabloids.
“By the numbers: Netflix reaches more than 200 million subscribers; Spotify reaches more than 150 million premium subscribers and has a total user base of some 350 million. The Sun, by contrast, Britain’s biggest tabloid, has a circulation of just 1.2 million, while rival the Daily Mirror reaches less than 400,000.”
Felix Salmon; AXIOS

Nun Yerbizness
Nun Yerbizness
3 years ago

So many old white Englishman lost in the misty past when the sun never set on their empire…so sad.
Tell us again what a bang up success Brexit has delivered.

Annette Kralendijk
Annette Kralendijk
3 years ago
Reply to  Nun Yerbizness

Where would you want to be trying to get a COVID vaccine, the U.K. or the EU?