It is said that misery loves company, but what it really loves is in-depth journalism. If you’re feeling miserable, then there’s no shortage of long-reads that detail how other people are feeling miserable too.
I’m not talking about people living in miserable conditions or struggling with clinical depression, but the apparent ‘winners’ of our society – those firmly on the path to a successful career.
I’ve unpacked much-discussed pieces about millennial misery here and here, but today it’s the turn of a slightly older age group – those in the prime of their careers. They feature in a New York Times article by Charles Duhigg, in which he focuses on a very privileged group – his fellow Harvard Business School graduates:
“A Harvard M.B.A. seemed like a winning lottery ticket, a gilded highway to world-changing influence, fantastic wealth and — if those self-satisfied portraits that lined the hallways were any indication — a lifetime of deeply meaningful work.
“So it came as a bit of a shock, when I attended my 15th reunion last summer, to learn how many of my former classmates weren’t overjoyed by their professional lives — in fact, they were miserable.”
There’s that word again: miserable. But why?
“Based on my own conversations with classmates and the research I began reviewing, the answer comes down to oppressive hours, political infighting, increased competition sparked by globalization, an ‘always-on culture’ bred by the internet — but also…an underlying sense that their work isn’t worth the grueling effort they’re putting into it.”
It’s true that some careers demand everything from those pursuing them, but then so does holding down two or three jobs just to get by on poverty pay. At least top-flight bankers and management consultants are well-remunerated for their efforts.
That said, there comes a point at which extra money isn’t worth it anymore:
“…once you can provide financially for yourself and your family, according to studies, additional salary and benefits don’t reliably contribute to worker satisfaction”
But why, given choices that the poor can only dream of, do the rich stick with jobs that make them unhappy?
There are many reasons – one of the most basic being social expectation and the funding requirements of an ‘enviable’ lifestyle.
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