by Debbie Hayton
Friday, 26
February 2021

LGBT: an elegy for the L and G

More and more young people claim not to be straight
by Debbie Hayton
Far from being a fringe movement London Pride attracted more than 1.5 million in 2019. Credit: Getty

The LGBT community is expanding. The Office of National Statistics found that the proportion of the UK population — aged 16 years and over — publicly identifying as lesbian, gay or bisexual increased from 1.5% to 2.0% between 2012 and 2017.

In a separate study of 15,349 American adults published this week, Gallup estimated that 5.6% now identify as LGBT. But drilling down into the data, an astonishing 15.9% of 18- to 24-year-olds were huddled under the LGBT rainbow. That is almost one in six, but this surge does not come from the L and the G. They are now a minority in their own community.

Credit: Gallup

Bisexuals dominate the figures, though Gallup also reports that the vast majority choose opposite sex partners, while transgender people push lesbians into fourth place. What is going on?

Times have changed since I grew up in the 1980s. Gay pride — once a political protest on the fringe of society — is now a mainstream carnival. In 2019, Pride in London estimated that over 1.5 million spectators watched 30,000 people parade from Langham Place to Whitehall.

The message to young people is clear from the colourful flags on show. Every LGBTQIA+ identity seems to have one. But the monochrome heterosexual flag — yes there is one! — sits alongside like a relic from the black and white era. Why be a boring cis-heteronormative supporter standing on the sidelines when you can identify into the party and be special?

That may explain why their elders, long since settled in our lives and our relationships, do not seem to feel the same way. Only 3.8% of my age group — Generation X — identified as LGBT. Maybe the need to identify into groups wanes with age? It appears that way to me. After gender reassignment I am certainly transgender, but there is much more to me than LGBT.

Will today’s youngsters grow out of these identities like we grew out of the fads and crazes of our youth? If they involve no more that friendships, a flag and maybe coloured hair (we did that too), maybe there is no harm? Hair dye does wash out.

But lurking within Gallup’s data, we find that 1.8% of 18 to 24s identified as transgender, almost ten times greater than those of us in our 40s and 50s. Will most of them desist in time? We do not know, but we know that some are changing their body in ways that cannot be reversed. Others appear to be locked into a perpetual conflict with a wider society that might pay lip service to gender identity but assesses us by our sex, nevertheless.

I worry that the ongoing impact on their physical, emotional and mental health may be profound. The forthcoming census in England and Wales will collect data on sexual orientation and gender identity. I only hope that the government goes beyond infographics, and uses it to help these young adults move on in life.

Join the discussion

  • Children in the angst of puberty struggle to find themselves as the hormones surge. Trying to rationalize the flood of feelings they may very well decide they now must have become someone ‘special’, a trans person. “when you can identify into the party and be special” is a motivator. Experimentation with their sexuality is normal during the change. Sticking a finger in the eye of social norms during their rebellion can now be tolerated. We can hope they don’t get trapped by their choices. Most won’t.

  • I too think children should be protected until they are mature enough……and I don’t mean physically … make their own decisions. You are right, as with a good many issues today, the activists have the loudest voices and there is no one really challenging them. No matter which political party you are aligned with, politicians profiles, their suitability to social media fanatics and their woke credentials are more important. Where have all the people with grit gone? As for the rise in LGBT and others in recent years, perhaps life style choice is the reason after all.

  • I recall reading that 100% feminine and 100% masculine do not exist. Everybody is a mix. I guess I accept this, but applied to personality traits and interests, not to sexuality. Sixty-some years ago in college my all-female psychology class took a test which measured, among other things, “masculinity” and “femininity.” I was horrified to discover that I scored 18 out of 20 points on the “masculine” side. Protests broke out in the class, but Dr. Mundt said No, this was the way it was – there really was a measure of masculinity and femininity.
    I do not know now why I was so upset. I certainly had no doubt whatsoever that I was a raging heterosexual – maybe youthful hormones made that unmistakable. Though now, in my 80’s, I find men more sexually appealing than ever.

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