June 25, 2024 - 7:05am

I didn’t ask for the moon. I asked leading figures in the Labour Party, including Sir Keir Starmer, to listen to me and other women. I explained why making it easier for men to “identify” as women poses a risk to our privacy and safety. I provided examples of threats and violence against feminists, and asked Labour to stop making dishonest claims about “toxicity on both sides”.

I asked the party — and this is surely the minimum I could expect as a woman and a member — not to make things worse by giving in to the demands of trans activists. Labour didn’t listen. Of course it didn’t. And that’s why I resigned my membership today.

The party has taken an inexplicable decision to treat women, who make up half the population, as less deserving of attention than the tiny proportion who are transgender. When journalists ask leading Labour figures to commit to supporting women’s rights, they all (with the possible and only occasional exception of Wes Streeting) start talking about what trans people want.

Just under 100,000 people in England and Wales identify as a trans man or trans woman, according to the most recent census, compared to a population of around 30 million women and girls. Who could seriously believe that unreasonable and unscientific claims about “gender identity” are as urgent an issue as an epidemic of violence affecting millions of teenage girls and women? Yet we are told to form a very long queue while men who claim to be women dictate what Labour’s priorities should be.

Fast forward a year or two into a Starmer administration and men will be able to find a compliant doctor, do nothing for two years and get a gender recognition certificate — and a new, falsified birth certificate. Parents, teachers and counsellors who don’t accept young people’s insistence that they need to “change sex” may be facing charges. Even I didn’t think Labour would remove the right of wives to get an annulment before their trans-identified husbands are issued with a GRC, but that seems to be the plan. What we won’t have is a much-needed clarification of the Equality Act to remove any doubt that “sex” means biological sex.

When women raise the need for single-sex spaces with Labour candidates, the response will more than likely be: “but trans”. Aspiring Labour MPs evidently can’t hear women — our voices are too high-pitched or something — but they listen to activists and repeat their claims like well-trained parrots. The party can’t even be straight about whether it will support a proposed ban on teaching “gender identity” in schools, with different lines coming from Starmer and Shadow Education Secretary Bridget Phillipson.

My patience has finally snapped. No, middle-aged men who identify as women are not the most vulnerable and oppressed people in existence. No, they aren’t at higher risk of suicide or murder than anyone else. What they do have is access to leading Labour figures, including the party’s Women and Equalities team, that feminist organisations can only dream about.

I’ve had enough. When the suffragettes risked their lives to get the vote, they could never have imagined that a mainstream political party would one day solicit women’s votes while prioritising men’s demands so unashamedly. Labour’s embrace of gender ideology is a betrayal of more than a century of struggle by inspiring women, some of whom died for the cause. I can’t not vote in a general election, but that’s why I will spoil my ballot next week.


Joan Smith is a novelist and columnist. She was previously Chair of the Mayor of London’s Violence Against Women and Girls Board, and is on the advisory group for Sex Matters. Her book Unfortunately, She Was A Nymphomaniac: A New History of Rome’s Imperial Women was published in November 2024.

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