'Anorexia acts as a Rorschach test for assisted dying campaigners.' Photo: Rob Stothard/Getty.

As Kim Leadbeaterâs Assisted Dying Bill returned to parliament, criticsâ attention turned to a previously unsuspected cohort that might soon be rolling down the slippery slope. Evidence delivered to her committee revealed that at least 60 patients with eating disorders have died by physician-assisted suicide or euthanasia overseas, with many in their teens and 20s. These were mostly women, classed by virtue of their emaciated bodies and weight-fixated minds as âterminally illâ or in the grip of an âirremediable condition causing unbearable sufferingâ, and so reaching the threshold for eligibility.
An obdurate Leadbeater seemed to think her billâs wording excluded this disturbing outcome in principle. Assisted suicide on the NHS, she insisted, will be reserved for the terminally ill, with a stipulation that âa person is not to be considered to be terminally ill only because they are a person with a⊠mental disorderâ. But as Chelsea Roff, the lead author of the anorexia evidence pointed out, the disease is â by definition â a mental disorder with devastating physical effects. In particularly severe and prolonged cases, a doctor might well diagnose the case as hopelessly terminal with recovery impossible, in which case eligibility for an early exit would be nearly assured.
This would be a mistake, though an understandable one. In fact, with anorexia, you can only say with confidence that recovery genuinely was impossible and further treatment futile, if and when the sufferer actually dies from the disease. Until then â doctorsâ illusions of omniscience aside â you donât know for sure. Some will seem to be at this point and then later recover; for occasionally, even entrenched anorexia can loosen its grip, and fuel-starved minds start to change. If a sufferer opts for assisted dying, then, we will never know for sure whether the same could have been true of them.
Indeed, it is potentially worse than this; for it seems that a diagnosis of terminal illness in the case of anorexia might have a rigidifying effect on a suffererâs intention to give up on life. This is one between-the-lines reading of a case history offered by US medic Jennifer Gaudiani concerning Alyssa, an anorexic who was eventually euthanised at her request. In an email to Gaudiani four days before her death, Alyssa insisted that her course of action was not being âpursued in isolation, but rather in the context of being in Hospice care following a terminal [diagnosis] of anorexia (i.e., estimated six months or left to live)⊠In my individual case, death was inevitable. I clearly understood my prognosis and accepted this. I saw [medically-assisted dying] as an opportunity to select a specified time and circumstances for my death.â
Gaudiani is herself supportive of assisted dying for so-called âterminalâ anorexics; but relatively few general campaigners for assisted dying positively want this sort of outcome, as such. Still, the logic of their own position inexorably corners them into it. For, though it is often unnoticed, the assisted dying movement is a collaboration between two radically different ethical ideals, whose goals have only surface compatibility. The state-enabled deaths of willing anorexics is just one side effect of the underlying tensions.
First, we have the Freedom Lovers. These are campaigners whose buzzwords are âmy choiceâ, âmy right to dieâ, and the like. Freedom Lovers are steeped, whether knowingly or not, in a liberal tradition which emphasises freedom from interference from others in various personal domains. Their pronouns of choice are usually I/me/mine. They tend to think of death-seeking as a wholly private matter.
The vision of the Freedom Lover can be seen most clearly when away from the morally murky domain of assisted dying, considering suicides of the unassisted kind instead. Possibly the most hardcore Freedom Lover there ever was, was anti-psychiatry psychiatrist Dr Thomas Szasz. A Hungarian-American, he wrote many books railing against the coercive nature of the medical establishment. He thought that if you decide to kill yourself, you have a right to noninterference from everyone else, even in the case of severe mental illness. Any reason to end your life is a good one as long as it is yours, and any attempt to stop you is an infringement on personal autonomy. Inspired by the pejorative âBig Pharmaâ, he once coined the concept âBig Suicide Prohibitionâ â though for some reason it didnât catch on.
Alongside Freedom Lovers, another archetype is also heavily involved in pro-assisted dying campaigns. Iâll call her the Altruistic Helper. Whereas the Freedom Lover is, at base, a suicide permitter, the Altruistic Helper is a suicide enabler: not so much interested in leaving people alone to do their thing, as positively helping them do it. Her preferred language mentions âcompassionâ, âhumanityâ, âmercyâ, and âquality of lifeâ. Her preferred pronouns are not first- but third-personal.
Unlike the Freedom Lover, she does not think of the value of a life as subjective, or that any reason to go is a good one, as long as it is yours. Some circumstances are more deserving of death than others. Though sometimes reticent to spell this out, it seems clear that Altruistic Helpers have firm views about what should happen, objectively, when a life contains so much suffering that it is not worth living. In that case, they think, its owner should be helped to die; itâs the morally correct thing to do.
While she pays due deference to the presence of consent to the assisted dying process, unlike the Freedom Lover the Altruistic Helper is not massively interested in it for its own sake. Rather, she simply takes consent as good proxy evidence for the presence of unbearable suffering in a personâs life. Her background thinking seems to go: if you have a terminal diagnosis, and you are deliberately seeking an early exit, the only possible reason for which you could be doing this is that you are suffering unbearably. (Indeed, Kim Leadbeater seems so sure of this fact that in her proposed process, the candidate wonât be asked about her personal reasons for seeking death at all.)
To say that the Freedom Lover and the Altruistic Helper are strange bedfellows is an understatement. Strictly speaking, what should interest the Freedom Lover according to the logic of his ideal is decriminalising private voluntary acts of suicide assistance, organised contractually between individuals. You want to die, for whatever reason; I want to help. Itâs all voluntary, and nobody elseâs business to interfere.
Yet thanks to the Altruistic Helperâs input, they tend to get something else entirely: a huge state-sponsored machine, involving thousands of healthcare employees, policies, and supposed safeguarding constraints upon who can access the service. Uber-Freedom Lover Szasz knew this, and was critical in his writing of assisted dying procedures, viewing them as constraining of personal autonomy. When he broke his back, aged 92, he killed himself alone a few days later.
Another weird feature of the awkward collaboration between these ethical archetypes is that the Freedom Lover canât really justify why terminally ill people already able to kill themselves on their own, if wished, are deserving of state-sponsored medical assistance to help them do it. Though unpleasant to dwell on, many already have this freedom, as the example of Szasz demonstrates. It is perhaps why Freedom Lovers tend to focus so heavily on paralysed or otherwise incapacitated people in their motivating examples. In contrast, the Altruistic Helper has no trouble explaining why terminally ill people who ask for death are deserving of state assistance, however mobile they are. Namely: they are clearly suffering too much, and so it is the right thing to do.
The anorexic with suicidal intentions â for all we know temporarily â ends up as collateral, falling between the two stools of these ways of thinking. Anorexia is a relatively anomalous condition, hard to fit into familiar binaries of active cause versus passive effect. The mind produces a willed behaviour with devastating effects on the body. The physical effects of anorexia are not exactly voluntary, given the role of persistent, near-automatic habits of approaching food; but not exactly involuntary either, and certainly not involuntary like those of cancer or arthritis.
Effectively, anorexia acts as a Rorschach test for assisted dying campaigners. To a committed Freedom Lover, the behaviours associated with anorexia, including accompanying suicidal intentions, look active enough to count as an expression of free will â at least, assuming mental capacity has first been established, as was the case for Alyssa. (Purists like Szasz may not even require this.) Those who are Freedom Lovers by instinct are not particularly inclined to go out to bat for the exclusion of people from assisted suicide provision who appear to have rationally decided it is their time to go. To say otherwise would look like a kind of interference in personal autonomy, and Freedom Lovers canât have that.
Meanwhile, the Altruistic Helper is likely to frame the terrible physical suffering produced by severe and prolonged anorexia as something that happens to a sufferer, rather than something she has any part in actively causing; an irrevocable, settled fact that merits a compassionate release into peaceful oblivion. As intimated earlier, Altruistic Helpers tend to see a personâs firm desire to die, accompanied by physical affliction, as an indirect indication that the amount of suffering present is objectively too hard to bear. This is supposed to be what justifies helping him to end his life. If Helpers were to admit that the physical torment of a severe anorexic, as awful as it is, is not enough to make an assisted death justified, they might just have to rethink their whole model.
And so, like the Freedom Lovers but for different reasons, Altruistic Helpers are also unlikely to argue forcefully for the exclusion of suicidal anorexics from an assisted dying service. Depending on who is looking, these troubled women and the occasional man will be seen as captains of their own ships or helpless victims of the storm. And either way, an artificially hastened exit from a sea of troubles will be theirs for the asking.
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SubscribeProfessor Stock always has such a tidy mind.
Stock seems to be building a new career on mocking and parodying the extreme suffering of people with full capacity who want to end their suffering. I hope for her sake that she never has to suffer from terminal cancer, neurodegenerative or cardiovascular debilitating disease that causes her to realize how glib she is being.
She’s done nothing of the sort, you have deliberately misread this article and have thrown in a strawman instead. DĂŹsgraceful.
He’s done nothing of the sort. What’s disgraceful is to dismiss the reality which many people face, in favour of an argument which can never be as valid as that which many would seek when faced with such conditions, including possibly your own good self.
Agan it has nothing to do with Kathleen Stock’s article. Save the appeal to emotion for an argument that deserves it, it’s not this one. Patronise someone else.
It is Prof Stock who produces the strawman argument here (there are only two types of people in favour of assisted dying and they are in oppositive to each other). See my other comment for more details.
If she wants her article to be read in detail, she simply shouldn’t start out from an obvious strawman. She really should know better.
Yawn yawn, yawn same old,same old. It was nonsense when the Nazis enacted it in pre WW2 Germany and it’s still nonsense now. Just like in the run up to legalising abortion we were assured that it’s no more traumatic than blowing your nose.
And we were assured in the 1967 Bill that the ‘safeguards’ would ensure that there were very few abortions and certainly fewer than 14,000 a year. It is now a quarter of a million as of 2022.
There are 250,000 men who should have had a contraception implant armt puberty, only removed at the age of 35!!! You do know nature causes more abortions than hospitals and clinics but little money is thrown at finding out why… I was one of the women whose children were kilked by nature but I still support a woman’s right to choose. It is called empathy.
Your argument suggests heart attack death justifies murder, i.e. Nature does it, so why shouldn’t we?
I fear that this Bill is suffering from the paucity of curiosity of its sponsor. Ledbetter (sp?) is so keen to make her mark that she has skipped through and/or past the reasoning, implications and nuances of this huge step, either because they are inconvenient to her goal or she lacks intellectual heft.
Either way, it is contributions from those, like Katherine Stock, who pick at the wrinkles and the (lack of) detail in, what appears, the egregious drafting of the Bill that serves to pick off its supporters when they understand that the issue requires more thought than merely attempting to be, or seen to be, âbeing kindâ.
Sometimes, and I hazard that this is one such time, muddling through is better than legislation; as Ronald Reagan said âdonât just do something, stand thereâ.
It’s of a piece with Bridget Philipson’s determination to fix all the things in the education system that aren’t broken.
What do bureaucrats do when the things we need them to do are done? They do things we don’t need them to do.
Life is terminal. I totally and fully believe that POVERTY will very quickly be framed as a justification for Assisted Dying or as I term it,State Execution. In most human cultures all through history being poor has been seen tantamount to criminality or at best contemptible. This is why The Mans pronouncements on the blessedness of being poor has always been so radical and Counter-Cultural. As well as very mind-fucked. I feel very threatened by this proposal and I feel that I will be one of those persons right at the top of the list for removal. For me this is personal. So is Dame Ratsbreath,she who ate all the BBC pies,it takes a lot of licence fees to get that wealthy,be the first.to sign up. And instead of oysters and champagne in Switzerland settle for a Maccy dees and a Cola in Wolverhampton?
Yes the possible slippery slope feels like a politer, more democratic Pol Pot. I imagine those on permanent disability benefits are sweating when Reeves is considering where to make her next lot of cuts.
What would be really super cool would be if both the Altruistic Helper and the Freedom Lover stopped spending so much of their spare time advocating for the introduction of State-sponsored suicide to reduce human suffering and indignity, and instead used it to volunteer in the care sector to…help us reduce human sufffering and indignity.
That would be really cool.
Yes, of course! The Freedom Lover and the Altruistic Helper should stop working towards something they feel strongly about, and start working towards something you feel strongly about!
You must have to be doing some pretty impressive mental contortions to draw equivalence between two differing sets of priorities while leaving out the distinction that only one of them is about killing people.
I absolutely understand that one is about killing people. The key is that it is killing people with their consent. It is something that I would wish to avail myself of at the appropriate time, and I don’t see why others can’t. The reality is that I have plans to kill myself if and when it becomes time to do so, but what if my hand is too shaky to pull the trigger?
What you’re saying now relates to the principles of the debate. Your previous remark however wasn’t about that, it was an accusation that Jack Robinson’s motives were simply selfish, which was very obviously unfair.
Yes, indeed. My accusation was that Jack Robertson considered that his views were the only ones of value, and that the Freedom Lover and the Altruistic Helper should adopt them (going as far as to say that if they did, it would be “super cool”).
Iâd be happy if the FL and the AH just pitched in a few shifts a week mate. Some VAD advocates I know do.
Good for them. They still hold their pro-VAD views though, right?
Probably. It may surprise you to know that VAD (pro or anti) is not really very relvant to us, so it doesn’t often come up. You are aware that assisted dying in the care sector is commonplace, right?
Commonplace, but illegal.
nope. doctors are deft like that. the line between a morphine pack + nil fluids + time, and an active administration of barbituates, is vanishly thin from a moral PoV, really. But it’s vast, from a civic/State duty-of-care (for the entire tribe) PoV.
Well I’m glad you’ve cleared that up. It confirms that you were talking nonsense.
Or what if you (or I) are in a care home/hospice. We wont be allowed to commit suicide. We would be sedated and tied to the bed. Probably in intense pain if we woke.
That’s what we’re trying to avoid. Those of you who object are being heartless. And short-sighted, too, since your own time will certainly come.
I have plans for when my time approaches. Mr Nine Millimetre will do his work, and I will go to the crematorium rather than the care home. Things can go awry to be sure (sudden stroke leaves me with no dexterity, say), but I will plan as best I can.
Bully for you. But why the need to keep talking about it in public?
Because gun ownership is very much restricted in Britain.
As it should be!. The US gun laws are a proven disaster. Ok, they are a product of history. Or are US citizens such notably sane, homogeneous and well balanced people that high levels of gun ownership pose few issues, as perhaps in Switzerland.
Extreme libertarianism is a totally selfish philosophy, full of contradiction, and could only even plausibly be half feasible in the wide open spaces of (parts of) North America.
Human beings are social animals and always have social obligations in every society ever known.
Achingly true. I have never met a real libertarian in my life. Not sure it’s possible to live as one.
And one thing I know about the Care Sector is this: most people, but especially those of a ‘libertarian’ bent, generally don’t give much of a thought/sh*t about it, or those of us who work in it. Right up until the moment they/a loved one needs its always-scant resources, including a few of us, themselves. At which point, most people – again, especially ‘libertarian’ types – tend to start demanding everything from it, and us. All at once and right now, as dictated by their ‘individual choice, libertarian-leave-me-alone’ needs.
It’s entirely understandable. But the idea that VAD is merely ‘about enabling individual choices’ is dishonest and self-serving.
Well, I live in Australia, where (fortunately) I still have access to guns. It is therefore quite simple for me to “end it all” when the time comes.
As you’ll be aware most jurisdictions have VAD now so it shouldn’t come to that.
I’m sure you’ll manage when the time comes, if you are really keen, Mav.
You might surprise yourself re: what you can tolerate as ‘a life worth living’, though. Especially if you’ve got good carers (like me).
Humans are incredibly resiliant and adaptable. One of the many things I adore about us. Best, and let’s hope you don’t have to worry about any of this for man years, if ever.
Once I get to asking whether the life I am living is one I can “tolerate”, I am out.
I suspect you’re the kind of person who works hard to make the most of whatever life you do have, so I’ll be surprised if you ever do take the VAD option. Humans are tenacious and resilient. often the ‘worst’ things we fear turn out to be very manageable, if we do get unlucky and they are realised. One of my biggest resistances to VAD is the way simply having the ‘option’ can become a self-fulfilling/encouraging pathway.
Caring for people who need it is not âsomething I feel strongly aboutâ, Maverick. Itâs something every human being should be doing as a matter of course.
The FL and the AH can do both: come and work the wards and homes with meâŠand advocate for VAD on their days off. No doubt some do.
I have respect for people who work in palliative care homes (I even know one), but it is not something within my skill set.
Nonsense. Youâre a human being.
Thatâs a total cop out. Itâs wearingly common in my line of work. (âOh, I could never do what you do..,â (Yea you could, you just donât want to. Youâd rather please yourself)
The next step is usually you dropping the patronising fulsome praise, Maverick, getting angry at me, and saying something like âYouâre not a very caring person, are youâ, then treating me like the menial flunky you secretly reckon I am, and then disappearing, crankyâŠto continue your narcissistic – and incredibly âbusyâ – life as it suits you.
Stop over-professionalising and fetishising care work. Women have done it – unpaid and untrained – for a million years.
OK, that was a bit sharp, sorry.
Look, we caters just get sick of the endless fulsome praise âŠand no extra hands on deck. Iâm a bloody good carer, have been for 15 years, if you get sick, pray/hope you someone as good as me to fight ferociously for quality of life. But Iâm also a bit of an arsehole, and donât need or want to be told how wonderful I am. What, just because I care about strangers? We all should. (Getting interested in the Care Sectors issues like VAD etc because you e had a loved one suffer or youâve suddenly found yourself needing careâŠdoesnât quite count. I mean we all care about Care when we suddenly need it. huh.)
I do care work first and foremost because it pays the rent. More or less. What the sector most needs is extra hands on deck. Not platitudes.
Chrs, sorry again for being bit too brusque. I am typing on the fly, on a gig.
See above. What you do is your path to walk, and I respect it. I just can’t walk it myself.
I am medically phobic. Not seriously so, but enough to make visiting hospitals and similar a huge chore. Working in one is simply not an option. On the very few occasions I have been a patient in a hospital, I have discharged myself as soon as I can crawl out the door.
You can do in-home care, then. The model is tilting sharply that way here in Australia. Most of my work is now in people’s homes. The hospitals and hospices burn you out. Mostly because too many non-care sector people are ‘medically phobic’ and choose not to go near the places. Or so they say. The reason ‘going into care’ is, I agree, so often pretty unpalatable…is because mopst of society shuns them. Too confronting, presumably. And then we Carers get publicly shredded because…we lack the help – the hands on deck – to help make the places more liveable. More inclusive. More integrated into normal life. More..human. You could go an volunteer to wash dishes, or work in the garden, or drive buses, for a hospice or home…so that the staff who aren’t ‘medically phobic’ and ARE willing to help make instituional care better are freed up to do the close personal care work.
Look, all
we carersI ask is that every time the VAD lobby uses a phrase like ‘a life without dignity’…they at least admit that the main reason most ‘lives without dignity’ are thus…isn’t becasue suicide isn’t easily available. It’s because most people don’t give a sh*t or a second thought about ‘Care’ until…they need it themselves.Have your VAD if you must. You’ll no doubt get it. Those of us who oppose it know we will lose this fight, like so many others of equity. Whatever, yippee for the State-sposored suicide squad.
But we just need more hands on deck in the Care Sector please. Pitch in, everyone, please.
Chrs.
Excellent comments. Thanks for your candid, hands-on perspective.
Leave me alone and let me make my own effing choices with medics that care. Preferably I don’t want to subject myself or my loved ones to a botched suicide.
Good for you, but legislation should try to deal with underlying, structural issues. In this case, the real issue is how we care for the sick and elderly. In fact, Jack’s suggestion is a practical idea that would improve the care of those who might otherwise find life not worth living. If the system were staffed more by volunteers it would be better off; if families looked after their own parents and grandparents the system would be less stressed.
The syatem needs more paid carers not volunteers. If we valued social care and care in the community, workers would not be on minimum wage ( not even Living Wage in parts of the UK) and of there were proper career pathways for these people, we would be in a much better place.
As for Ms Stock, there are another group of people she has left out of her pious article, those of us who have watched our partners die slow agonising deaths from terminal illness. When you give your partner a gentle hug and he screams in pain, you rethink things like assisted dying. He wanted to come home to kill himself but our home wasnt suitable. Every day he would say to nursing staff and the doctors, “if I was a dog, you would have had me put down by now”. Assisted dying would have stopped his journey into hell.
Back in â78, my Dadâs cancer returned for the 3rd time and he was told it was terminal. When my Dad mentioned to the doctor (oncologist) that heâd stockpiled pain medication in case it got too bad, the doctor had him immediately admitted to Princess Margaret Hospital where he was systematically poked, prodded, and needled for the last 3 months of his life. It was torture, and the Hospital was Hell. They promised my Mum theyâd no longer go digging for blood as his veins collapsed, she came back into the room after a bathroom break to find them doing exactly that-theyâd waited until he had no one to defend him to do it-heâd lost the power of speech and tears were spilling from his eyes. They wouldnât give him more morphine because he might get addicted. REALLY! Like this was going to be an issue? We watched our Dad die racked in pain-I wouldnât wish it on my worst enemy (except for the oncologist). If we could have helped end his suffering we would have done so. No human should have to suffer in such a manner, and no family should be put in the circumstances where they have to DYI a loved ones death.
Sorry to hear about the distressing treatment your father received at the end of his life.
I lost my own father recently, but he, fortunately, received proper palliative care. The medics explained carefully and in detail to family members how biopsies and other invasive procedures were pointless at this stage, for someone nearing 90 with cancer that was definitely incurable (i.e. the “cure” would itself be fatal). This meant that we could not be certain of the origin of the cancer, and the chronology of its spread, since the necessary procedures would have caused much pain and distress. His pain, when it began, was managed effectively, with no quibbling over morphine dosage.
The doctors you encountered sound like box-tickers, applying painful procedures that couldn’t lead to a cure, and ridiculously, as you say, worrying about addiction to morphine. And, as you also say, the family was excluded from discussion, and painful procedures inflicted behind their backs.
Bad medical treatment (that isn’t “care” at all) doesn’t necessarily make an argument for legalised killing – that bypasses the option of palliative care. Countries that have adopted legalised killing have uniformly starved palliative care of funds. You should also look into the pain often caused by “euthanasia” methods – people think that they will simply swoon off into a dream and then cease to be conscious, but what actually happens is often very different – dehydration, starvation or asphyxia are hideous ways to die when life support is turned off, and a significant minority of lethal injections fail to kill, leaving the patient to die in agony (and leading euthanasia enthusiasts to lobby for the introduction of swift, active and violent killing to cover cases like this).
Nope. Stop trying to outsource all the Villageâs care obligations to âprofessionalsâ. Itâs just another bullsh*t way of deluding yourself that you donât need to help.
But we certainly need more hands on deck. The key to good care isâŠnumbers. You donât need huge training or credentials to be a carer. (Credentialism is another patronising cop-out). I have spent most of the 15 years Ivd been doing care work advocating for Care Sector national service.
Itâs got to an all-of-society, village obligation solution. Thereâs not enough money in our needy, narcissistic age to buy our way out of the care shortage we face. Oddly, a compulsory test in the care service for everyone (somewhere between. aged 18 and 65) would do a huge amount to end the Bullsh*t Victimhood & Contrived Whiny Self-Pity Epidemic we are also afflicted with just now.)
Chrs. MJ Teid. I know your suggestion is heartfelt and I appreciate the advocacy for better pay for people like meâŠbut itâs not the answer.
Care sector national service is an excellent idea! I wish more people would work in residential childcare so maybe more people would understand the challenges we face and maybe less prejudiced,
I hate schools thinking theyâre parents and the parents who let them!
On the subject of assisted dying, I am torn. I recognise the slippery slope but I also remember my mum telling me that if my grandad had an off switch, he wouldâve pressed it.
So many positive outcomes of a society-wide egalitarian compusory national service in a care job (aged, disability, child, etc). The obvious increase in hands on deck, sure. But also a universally-embraced expression of common civic obligation. A fantastic insight into/reconnection to the realities of human life for us all. Practical preparations for our own old age. A handbrake on narcissistic self-pity and self-obsession. A brilliant way for young people to start their working lives, or middle aged/older people to remind themslves that they are just part of a comunity. An egalitarian leveller, and an especially productive way for young men to learn how to deploy their physical strength in the best way of all: helping the vulnerable. Superb for aimless youg men in terms of self-esteem, channelling of masculine reducancy, etc.
The biggest resistance will of course be from the commercialised Care Sector. There is now huge money to be harvested from care, especially here in Australia. The grubbiest kinds of people are making repulsive fortunes out of our instinct for compassion. Our National Disability Insurance Scheme especially is a demoralising dstroyer of care workers’ motivation. I won’t do NDIS work any more, the waste and exploitation is repulsive.
The culprit? Again, the way most people prefer to ‘monetise’ and ‘professionalise’ the system, as a way of avoiding any sense of having to pitc in. It leaves the system at the mercy of the worst predators and gougers. Another reason for mandatory national service. When everyone is compelled to get involved, the rorters will soon get scared/shamed away.
Enough from me. I talk too much and too angrily on this subject.
I worked in care settings for 25 years and loved the work, although the financial rewards were laughably small considering the responsibility and being faced with verbal and actual violence on occasions. Now I have a loved one living in supported living and the attitudes of some (not all) staff are quite upsetting. As long as meals and meds are issued at the correct time and the kitchen surfaces are clean then spending hours on their mobile phones seems to be acceptable to management. Building trust and positive relationships with patients is getting forgotten.
Yep, I sympathise. I do most of my care now direct with clients – the internet has enabled this – and using the ‘word of mouth’ networks I built up over the years. Together you can set up a bespoke care regime – you, rellies, the clinent themself – that works for everyone, using the funding that the taxpayer offrs but maximising its ‘bang for buck’. Most scale providers won’t do short visits, can’t ensure constancy of carer (= better more self-fulfilling care, and care work)…You are spot on about the money, it’s not great but it’s not as awful as it’s often protrayed either…you can make a living wage in care no probs. Unless you are an international student carer, usually young, language-limited and not great in terms of cultural/language fit for oldies, exploited as buggery by care companies trying to maximise profit margins for scale shareholders, bean counters trying to hit bottom line KPIs to get their executive bonuses etc. We really have f**ked up our Care Sector by recalibrating it to be all about money. No-one stays at the coal face of care to get rich, ffs.
Hope your loved one is doing OK. As you would know, the more you can visit them, make yourself personally visible to the care institution, speak up, politely demand standards…the more the carers are likely to give a sh*t and do the right thing. Squeaky wheels/most attention, etc. Best regards
Yes. Spot on. Spot on. Volunteering is the key. Everyone needs to be involved in caring – for kids, for the sick, for the old. For anyone who needs it. The day we monetised and professionalised basic care work – which anyone can do, you need two hands, half a brain, and a human heart to wipe bums and soothe brows – is the day we doomed our tribe to a subtle categorical segregation of âthe normalâ from âthe not-normalâ. Which is the day we started making qualitative civic choices about what âa life worth livingâ is. And what âa life not worth livingâ is, too.
Individuals can make that choice, about their own lives. But they have no right to co-opt The State into endorsing their private choices, just toâŠwhat, make the bloke who wants to die feel better about wanting to die? Give him some moral support? Hand him a superior State-approved noose to do the job right?? No thanks. The State has no business being involved in triaging the âworthwhileâ life from the ânot worthwhileâ one. Because imperfection – pain, affliction, sickness, anguish, decrepitude, decay, ugliness- is life, too.
Weâre a tribe, walking together across a desert. We donât know who we are, what weâre for, where weâre going, or what weâre supposed to do when we get there. But we know for absolute certain how to love and care for each other. And that includes not leaving anyone out of the journey, or anyone behind.
The obligation to demand The State choose life, not death, is a collective village pact we humans make with each other (including future humans). We donât get a conscience vote on it. itâs not about what we each might happen to demand forâŠme me me me me me me me me meâŠ
Because imperfection â pain, affliction, sickness, anguish, decrepitude, decay, ugliness- is life, too. That is your opinion, and you are entitled to it. However, when my life stops being fun, I’m out of here.
Fine, and I wish you well and I wonât interfere. Just stop bullying me – especially by accusing me of not caring enough about you/your future plight – to say I think itâs OK, or that the State should approve/support/enable your choice in any way shape or form.
best regards.
The State does little enough for me. In my view, it should at least do that.
Oh, Iâd happily leave you alone, Lesley…except you keep interrupting my care work to pester me for my approval, permission and help to kill yourself and/or someone else. Why donât YOU leave ME alone, love? Iâm busy wiping bums, changing sheets, dispensing pain relief, etc.
Go on, off you f**k and top yourself. I honestly wouldnât dream of stopping you. Just shut up about itâŠand stop bullying me for my blessing. Why the hell you need it escapes me.
You’re like children, you VAD narcissists. Please mummy State! O Please Daddy State! Let me me me me me me do what I want I want I want I want. Tell me itâs good to kill myself. Tell me itâs OK for my dear old granny to kill herself. Because I want I want I want I want. Me me me me me I want I want I want me me me me I want I need I crave Big Nanny Stateâs Seal of Moral Approval to Choose Death not Life..
No-oneâs stopping you mate. So just do it, Lesley.
And so, for all those who thought Jack had a ‘cool’ argument, here’s the reality.
Chortle. Ah, you progressives are so predictable.
For every one Lesley who deals with the life-changing catastrophe of an MND diagnosis or a SCI or a traumatic brain injury or extreme chronic pain or dementia by wanting kill herself, there are a hundred who want to keep living. as best they possibly can. The latter are where my limited time, energy and care gets directed mate. I am harming no one and trying do some good if I can.
Do what you want, too. I wonât stop you. But stop trying to get me to concede to you that I should think that itâs alright for any human being to kill themself. Itâs not. That opinion – it is just an opinion – isnât primarily a moral one for me; itâs a practical utilitarian one. The moment I start to think otherwise⊠is the moment I become a shit carer to those who are suffering, but donât want to die, and need not just my (OUR, tribal civic, communal) ) help to do so but my (OUR) ferociously unequivocal existential solidarity. Do you get it yet, Lanc Lad? Lesley is, like you, like us all, not an island. If The State is to say itâs OK for her to devalue her life (by saying itâs not âfunâ anymore, not worth living), just because of some transient (or terminal) peculiarity of itâŠthen it is The State devaluing all others, too.
If you donât grasp this, I think you are a narcissist. Yes, that word is overused now..but in this fundamental existential question it is an accurate way to describe those who think a pro VAD position is a mere matter of âindividual choiceâ. At least be honest enough to concede that an individual qualitative judgement about âaâ life becomes, once endorsed by The State, a collective qualitative judgement about âallâ lives. You are entitled to be a narcissist if you like. I am a collectivist; I am a desperately dependent member of our human tribe. I need other humans, and I like needing other humans. I might at any second depend on them for my life. I need to be part of a tribe that believes in caring for those who need it. Not killing them, as the easy solution to pain and indignity..
That used to be a politically and morally âprogressiveâ position, btw. I donât know when that changed, but I havenât.
My best regards.
For every one Lesley who deals with the life-changing catastrophe of an MND diagnosis or a SCI or a traumatic brain injury or extreme chronic pain or dementia by wanting kill herself, there are a hundred who want to keep living. as best they possibly can. The key phrase here is “want to keep on living”. This law will not impact on them. It will help those who “don’t want to keep on living”.
Why did you melt down there, Jack? The Lad was just indirectly pointing out that your indulgent rants donât help your knowledgeable and mostly sincere case. And I think heâs better labelled a centre-right freethinking atheist, or something. Or better left unlabeled perhaps, just as Iâm sure âcollectivistâ doesnât capture your combination of tenderness and anger, contempt and compassion. By the way, I share a lot of the two-sidedness I perceive in you (correctly or not).
About five years ago, my grandma suffered a great deal in her final months as several of us kept a rotating vigil around her, at home. Witnessing that suffering softened my stance toward the exit my Canadian uncle took just this past July at 85, after numerous and varied treatments across 20-plus years. Iâm not in favor of MAID (ghoulish acronym!), much less the non-terminal departures that are all to common in my birth country up North, but I canât be a strict prohibitionist anymore. I understand your point about state funding and meddling. It seems to me that even most badly incapacitated people could access an overdose privately, or in secret, if they were determined enough to exit this plane.
Please take this obvious point in the friendly way itâs intended: Any community or collective involves living with people we with disagree with, or even loatheâat least if youâre as disputatious as we are! Iâve enjoyed reading your thoughtful, passionate remarks.
Smacks of someone inbetween shifts, doing a shit job well & letting of steam.
While being amusingly trolled by a pack of icy & largely retired keyboard warriors (pronouns: I, me, mine mine mine).
Kind of you to extend me the benefit of doubt. But I’m just a bit of a mouthy d*ckhead, too. I should resist the temptation to imply any special insight or authority, I have simply been a disability/aged/palliative carer for around 15 years. There is a lot of diversity of view inside the sector; but truly it’s not an isssue that consumes a lot of time/energy (in my experience, anyway). Not really the headspace/opp for it. As I mentioned to someone above, most of my work is in-home care now.
I do not know how some of the veterans have surived in the instituional places. You never ever have enough time or reources to provide the kind of care you’d want for your own mum and dad, or disabled kids, etc. And, becasue you’re a captive audience, you end up being the brunt of all anger and frustration from rellies who…yep, come to hate the terrible state of our ‘care facilities’.
I couldnât handle home help for long, constantly chasing my tail because the time they give never includes travel time, as if they all lived next door to each other rather than across town. Plus they never got my wage right. Much preferring residential childcare, although that has its downsides too.
Maybe dont work in tbe caring services since you have absolutely no empathy for anyyone who no longer wants to be here and doesn’t want their death by suicide be botched. You are the narcissitic arrogant one here., not Lesley. How many people have you sat beside who are screaming for death and they dont get it. I have sat with 100s and it is not a great experience for the person who is dying or me, but I have done it vecause thay person needs someone with tbem. All of them were homeless with no family. Have you sat with a loved one who has terminal cancer and who begs the doctors to let him go because of the pain? I did for 6 weeks last summer abd it still breaks my heart. A strong robust man reduces to a skeleton of skin and bone with no dignity left. He wanted to die. No one was willing to help him.
Thankyou. THIS is the reality, that all those who pontificate are unable to countenance because it immediately destroys their argument. I would defy anyone who’s been in those situations to argue otherwise.
In addition, it seems you’d fall into the author’s Altruistic Helper category, which is why i’ve argued against using such stereotypes, as well as being philosophically unsound.
â How many people have you sat beside who are screaming for death and they donât get it?â
Very few. I do care work mate, not torture.
âMaybe donât work in the care sectorâŠâ
Quintessential âprogressiveâ vindictive petulance, chum. Scratch the surface of a moral crusader, find a totalitarian b***h. Iâve done care work for 15 years mate, and you will not find many as good. If you ever need a carer, you should hope you find an advocate and champion and devoted workhorse as good. I will go to wall for you to help make your life as rich, happy and included as is possible . But you have to want to live it. Thatâs all I ask of you.
Oh, by the way: Go f**k yourself. You are the kind of bullying VAD advocate who makes this debate so nasty. Thankfully, most are not as vicious as you.
Looks like the Unherd moderators arenât going to let me reply in the blunt manner your odious comment merits, MJ Reid, do I will just cordially sidestep your obnoxious remarks and wish you the best.
By the way, yes, I have sat with many terminally ill people. Including my dad (early onset Parkos’ and, after twenty years, cancer), and then my mum (cancer). I helped them die with dignity, tenderness, love and absolutely nignity…despite all the shit, pus, pain, anger and decay.
I did not need The State to authorise their suicide to do it. Palliative does this all the time. If we had more hands on deck in the business of dying – which we used to, before we pathologised and segregated All Of Life – then more people would get good palliative care.
I’m sorry I told you to GFY, btw. But do not accuse Carers of ‘not caring’, just because we don’t agree with VAD.
Whichever side of the debate one sits on, i disagree with the way KS deploys stereotypes in her argument. She, of all people, should know better than to do so, having been badly stereotyped herself, as part of the “terf” wars.
Freedom Lovers and Altruistic Helpers aren’t human beings. I really don’t consider it a worthy means of exegesis – simply a convenient one, and even if KS is right, are invalid devices. As a philosopher, she should think again.
They are not stereotypes but archetypes: composite figures which embody the assumptions and motivations of the proponents of the bill. Such archetypal figures are a valid part of philosophical argument
No, they can never be valid.
To trans activists, terfs are archetypes.
I have great respect for Kathleen Stock. In fact, she once wrote an article for Unherd about the way in which philosophers joust amongst themselves, using these kind of devices, and she wasn’t impressed with it. In this instance, she’s succumbed to that which she decried.
Have to disagree. See my other comments. I have had a living will since I was 16. It says if I end up on life support, switch the machine off after the first test for brain activity. But after harvesting my organs – the ones that are still okay now after more thqn 60 year on the planet now! This is assisted dying. It is well known even people who are brain dead but not being able to function in some capacity in the world, can and do keep breathing once life support is switched off, but it doesn’t nean they have a life. I don’t ever want that for myself and knew that at 16. I will take the assisted dying.
‘This fell sergeant, Death, is strict in his arrest.’
There are now to be many constables assisting in the detention, and the detained saying, “It’s a fair cop, guv.”
‘…a compassionate release into peaceful oblivion.’
What is released to feel this peace? If oblivion is the negation of all a person is, it would not allow the feeling of peace. If the deceased feels peace, oblivion must be a state where the person must be all they ever were in order to feel that peace.
This objective of release into a state of peace from one of suffering acknowledges the two perceptions of a deceased person that Henry Scott Holland argued for in his sermon, the King of Terrors; two perceptions that simultaneously conveyed information.
That is, looking at the body of the deceased, their lying in quiet repose indicates that on the one hand they are elsewhere, still all that they are, for without being all that they are they could not feel peace. If they remained here as a dead body they could not feel peace.
On the other hand, that the deceased body shows the end of all they are, including the ability to suffer. For without the end of all that they are they could not be without suffering.
In the manner that Holland argued, the terminal element in illness is Death, that other world of oblivion, already present in this world. Could anyone say No to the summons of Death? In the world of Harry Potter, Death is ‘greeted as an equal’.
Of course, Holland argued for the opposite. That the other world – the other world where the deceased feel peace – is already present in this one, albeit on certain conditions. ‘The body is the temple of the Holy Spirit’. ‘Flesh and blood cannot inherit the kingdom of God’: ‘the mortal must put on immortality’.
The law in England turns human beings into human machine parts. It is as if there is a part of the national character that wants to give up its agency. England is now the most Left wing country in the world. Lenin is looking down and smiling.
The next step is to legalise assisted dying. There has always been assisted dying and always will be. It is a sign of basic humanity. Keep it that way. Don’t turn it into an instruction manual to be blindly followed. For England to legalise it is a step towards inhumanity.
You would have to be crazy to formalise in binding rules what should be done in individual cases.
The dalek voice of Starmer lies at the end of that path. “You will be euthanised. I’m not making that decision. It is the law.”
Good point
Um, just one correction needed there: Ireland is in fact the most left-wing country in the world. Your current government may be radical left, but I suspect the same cannot be said of the general UK population..
Yeah Ireland fought and whined and complained for generations to get out from under Britain’s boot, only to become more statist, more anti-Catholic than GB. what a success story.
You can’t blame them for being anti-Catholic. The Irish people suffered long and hard under the Church of Rome.
free of UK. Free of RCC. they gave themselves divorce, abortion, contraception. Happy world.
No matter how left-wing you may think the UK is, it would have been more so had Corbyn been PM.
I love reading Katherine Stock’s articles, as even if they disagree with my own views they’re well enough argued for me to spend time contemplating if I need to change my opinion.
In this instance I agree, but would add as a more pragmatic, hands on guy whose wife has been involved in elderly care for most of her professional career, that some people have appalling relatives.
No article seems to air this objectionable fact, but some people’s relatives are greedy, selfish, coercive and manipulative. If they could find a way to get their relative put to sleep quickly so their life wasn’t inconvenienced with visiting, and their inheritance wasn’t dwindling week by week through care costs, they’d be pursuing it with vigour.
The current discussions seem to skim over the safeguards needed to prevent this, and the considerable conflict that would result from healthcare professionals advocating for their charges.
Some people have appalling relatives, so everyone should suffer. Check.
Well, yes. It’s the lesser of two evils. Of course I can sympathise with those in pain who see no relief but I fear enabling murder is far worse.
I don’t like suggesting that some should “take one for the team” but I fear 8 cannot pretend that this is not what I’m asking.
How many who were dismissed as lubatic extremists for warning against this sort of nightmare are furious to find that the reality is even worse.
I don’t know. How many?
The ethical issue with anorexia is that a simple change of regime would be enough to recover, therefore challenging the “terminally” and “uncurable” part of the disease.
And unlike cancer patients, anorexics tend to be young people who could, if healed, have a long further life.
Not an easy conundrum, though the financial pressure on NHS means that “assisted suicide” will eventually be enacted one way or another.
Iâd estimate that in the age of FAAC (Fame At Any Cost) at least 50% of Anorexics are motivated by being âseenâ on social media.
Is there already an assisted suicide video channel on YouTube?
“In fact, with anorexia, you can only say with confidence that recovery genuinely was impossible and further treatment futile, if and when the sufferer actually dies from the disease.”
I am surprised to find a philosopher writing something like this, conflating what is the case with what is necessarily the case. For you can’t say with confidence that recovery was impossible even if the sufferer does die. That something happens does not entail that it was impossible for it not to happen.
What a beautiful, clarifying assessment of those who would shape our future. Kathleen should be on the committee investigating the Bill. No chance of that, alas, for they would have to think about what they are doing, instead of how to get their bill passed.
Yeah but, just think how much the assisted suicide will save the NHS.
So, you are saying that the legislation is “win-win”?
I’ve got a horrible idea that’s what it’s really all about.
This whole discussion is peppered and salted with so many inconsistencies and contradictions that it can hardly be discussed. “- objectively too hard to bear”: The very words “too hard to bear” are a SUBjective judgment, not OBjective.
“Suffering too much; it’s the right thing to do” – too much for whom? The patient? or the state and its healthcare industry? And so on. In the end, no law has any value or usefulness beyond society’s will to enforce it. As with abortion, the issue is fought out in the entertainment world and academia, not Parliament.
Obviously the patient’s view is the paramount one.
Simply put, the law is that no one can assist in helping someone to die. Simple. Possibly brutal. The proposal seems to be, some people, can help some people, to die, in some circumstances. Complicated. I am not sure I like the odds on legislating for the complications.
Just do the legislating, and let it work itself out. It is working fine here in Australia.
The proponents of “assisted suicide” appreciate the rĂ©pĂ©tition of their sales pitch.
Cheers mate!
By this measure, is it therefore a good thing that anorexia is no longer fashionable and gender dysphoria has replaced it? More needless mastectomies but fewer assisted deaths of anorexics*.
* – Sorry, as per NICE guidelines, people experiencing anorexia.
I agree that making facilitated suicide dependent on a diagnosis of terminal illness would be a mistake. We should follow the Swiss law which lays down no medical pre-conditions for allowing the facilitation of suicide. The only legal condition is that the facilitating party have no selfish motives for their action. The law does not require any medical gatekeeping.
Prof Stock’s description of altruistic helpers reminds me of a probably related concept called compulsive helping from the addiction treatment world. Compulsive helpers actually appear in various forms in everyday life, not merely in the context of addiction, and they will be reasonably familiar to most people: busybodies, people-pleasers, guilt trippers, workaholics, and the various familiar forms of controlling behaviours.
This can become extreme, for example feeders, those odd people who want to keep a morbidly obese person bedbound through assisting with the destructive eating habits of the obese person, and various other forms where a sufficient degree of intimacy provides the helper with, in effect, almost complete control over someone else’s life.
The insight here is that such people, despite having a role that appears to morally selfless, are actually feeding a destructive internal imperative that is about helping themselves. It is unfortunately not well understood in psychological terms but it is well documented in an observational sense: there are lots of people who behave this way who possess similar associated traits in general.
If we are seeing the emergence of similar behaviour in those who are part of the institutional process for assisted suicide as described above, that is deeply concerning.
When a teen girl struggling with adolescence thinks she is fat, we donât affirm that belief and prescribe diet pills. We provide counseling.
When a teen girl struggling with adolescence thinks she is a boy, why do we affirm that belief and prescribe puberty blockers and make counselling illegal (and give it the defamatory term âconversion therapyâ)?
Just tell her yeah,you are fat and ugly and since yer don’t wanna eat anything I wont bother buyin yer food so you’ll save me a lotta money. She’ll wither from the lack of attention and go off and find herself a taxi driver boyfriend but that’s her problem,not yours. No one in our society every comes back on PARENTS or even casual PROCREATORS whose human bodily emission causes a societal problem. I know. Im horrible. So?
I dunno, it seems to me that anorexia is an Identity and it should be Affirmed. If a 65 lb girl thinks she is fat then she IS fat by self-identification and the system should do everything possible to help her lose weight.
This is the same vein of transhumanism that runs through the surgical and hormonal interventions on young women in an attempt to change their sex. State euthanasia is of the same philosophical bent.
I’ve warned about this for years. Mary Harrington, to her credit, got there first in terms of the British publishing media.
This is the year 2025, and thin-shaming is still a thing!!!??Anorexicx are just fat people born into the wrong body. They are transfats. They don’t need conversion therapy, and transfats should demand that the government bans all identity-denying medical treatment.
There are also oppressive normativities at work here. There’s food-normativity, that privileges eating, as if that’s natural and starving isn’t. Then there’s life-normativity, as if living is somehow better than dying. This is fascist thinking.
Telling anorexicx that they’re “thin” is genocide.
I for one think that it is a great idea to introduce medically assisted state sponsored offing of oneself. After all the medical establishment in the government has shown such an effective job of doing things correctly and doing the right thing, like the wonderful way they handled COVID with a totally unbiased and perfectly scientific and rational world view that wasn’t heavily influenced by politics at all.
Or for example the recent trans decisions, it’s not like the UK medical establishment has shown to be ideologically captured by radicals that reject evidence, and the scientific method itself when it disagrees with their preconceived beliefs.
No the UK has a stellar record of implementing and managing health care programmes and initiatives, and I am sure that if you Brits decide to allow them to start helping people off themselves they’ll do it with a level of competence they’ve demonstrated time and time again.
Well put!!!
I disagree strongly with Dr. Stock’s advocacy.
I heard this story just yesterday. The mother of a friend died recently after the usual long illness. With her last breath she bitterly cursed her family for the pain they forced on her by not “pulling the plug”. She died weeping; miserable and in pain.
If we’re going to judge policies by anecdotes we should tell both sides of the story.
That’s manipulative selfishness,it’s the octopus syndrome. It’s evil.
Please explain. Are you referring to me or the old lady?
Good article, with overt moral suasion that was left in the subtext of Stockâs recent âsex stuffâ pieces. I know altruism builds some hellish roads despite good intentions, but I donât think it deserves to be positioned at the bedside of voluntary death. Instead of Altruistic Helpers, maybe they should be called Utilitarian Facilitators or Ghouls Against Suffering (GAS).
I think the author has described two major assumptions that (to my mind) have been causing harm to society for years. Examples are the laissez faire economics of this second Gilded Age created by Freedom Lovers, and the enabling of drug addiction in places like San Francisco by the Altruistic Helpers. These strains of thought don’t seem to go together, as the author says, but perhaps their commonality is in their infantilism. They both seem to express the desire for the “Good Breast”, the object of satisfaction in Melanie Klein’s object relations theory. One is the desire to do whatever one wants, and the other is never to experience suffering (displeasure). Neither seems to take circumstances, consequences, possibilities, or others into account, like an infant. Stock seems to have hit on something here that has wider implications and explanatory power than just in this narrow, but important, issue. Thank you, very interesting article.
I donât think I could ever truly trust a physician again if it became part of their legally sanctioned role to assist in killing, or even their role to sign off the deed. They would be at my bedside one moment discussing symptoms and care; two minutes later in the next ward they would be ending a life.
This is a fundamental shift in the attitude of the profession has been too little considered. There have always been understanding medics who allowed hefty opiate painkillers to take their course or who resiled from yet another operation, knowing it was kinder to lay down the scalpel and adopt a palliative approach. The fear of NHS trusts and private healthcare companies of being sued for failing to act has made such kindness much rarer and more risky professionally. And âkindâ Dr. Harold Shipman muddied the debate.
Kathleen Stock has clarified the ethical arguments splendidly and with characteristic concision. But in the hospices, wards and care homes things will often be much messier. Decisions will be made under stress, shared with partners and relatives in distress, made to short order and sometimes at the end of long shifts. At least part of this debate is factual as much as moral; it is about the consequences of medical âprogressâ pushing curability thresholds ever onwards so we are less clear what a terminal condition looks like.
Medical culture would for me be further damaged by the ability of practitioners to deliberately terminate lifeâlike a vetâas a routine task.
A frankly fatuous strawman argument that pretends there are only two types of people that support assisted dying – and then that these are in opposing tribes.
It’s complete nonsense. There is a whole spectrum of opinions. One can be in sympathy with both the Freedom Lover and Altruistic Helper extremes. Or with neither.
The fact the Prof. Stock explicity labels the Altruistic Helper as being “she” rather gives the game away.
We can only expect more of this “desperate marketing” (to borrow a term from the Private Eye column) from opponents of the bill as it progresses. Let’s hope it’s better than this though.
When I ran the legal department for an inner London Borough’s Social Services in the late 1990s, a Consultant Psychiatrist who specialised in eating disorders, Dr. Dee Dawson, told me that a third of her patients were young men and adolescent boys.
The idea that eating disorders affect only women is profoundly wrong.
My involvement came from a young person in our care who had petitioned the High Court for the right to refuse further treatment. The House of Lords, as they were then, declined and said this was an exception to people being g able to determine their own medical care as the patient was obviously mentally ill. (Re C 1998).