When I was a boy, growing up in Gaza, we used to play a game called “Arabs and Jews”. Two children would be designated captains and pick their teams, then we would find some sticks, pretend they were guns, and spend hours happily pretending to shoot each other. When one of the Arab team was “killed”, his comrades would hoist him onto their shoulders and utter a chant in Arabic. “With our soul and our blood,” we cried, “we redeem you, martyr.”
I still live in Gaza, and I still see children playing after more than a year of war, usually in the large open areas that have been flattened by Israeli airstrikes, among the ruins of destroyed buildings.
But their game has been updated. Now, the children of Gaza call it “Hamas fighters and Jews” — and they’ve added other new elements too. They pretend they’re being chased by Israeli drones, whispering to each other, “there’s a drone coming! We must hide!” Sometimes, they pretend to blow up Israeli tanks with mines and IEDs. They play for hours, because they have no other entertainment, and nowhere else to go. But the chant when a fighter “dies” is the same as it always was, though there are far more real martyrs now than when I was a kid. Many of them are children too.
Thousands of children under the age of 18 have been killed since Hamas attacked Israel last year. Many more have been injured and maimed and thousands are thought to be uncounted.
Every aspect of the lives of those who have survived has been upended. The schools and kindergartens have been closed since October 7, and untold thousands have lost their homes.
Palestinian society has always been characterised by close family relationships, and young children find it very hard to accept that a brother or sister is dead. I hear them all the time. Adults will tell them they’re in paradise, but they don’t really know what that means. “He went shopping, but soon he will come back,” they say instead. “She went for a picnic and had to stay away a few nights, but I’m sure she’ll be home quite soon.”
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SubscribeWhat as sad article. The saddest part is the end. Just when you thought that Hasan, an adult Gazan, would take some responsibility for Gaza’s children, you find that he is still lionizing Yahya Sinwar, the man who put Gaza in this predicament, that he is rejecting all responsibility for the situation that led to the death of thousands of Israelis and tens of thousands of Gazans, and that he is calling on the “international community” to find a solution.
Until Gaza’s adults stop acting like children and start building an ethos of construction rather than of destruction, until they take responsibility for the future of Gaza’s children, this future will be doomed.
Aside, and this may provide a glimmer of relief to this bleak topic, I met Danny Kaye, as a 14-year-old, in Kansas City. He was visiting a close friends of my parents, down the block, with whom he was friends going way back. He was kind to stand when I walked in the room. (Is that your real name, and not a play on Danny Kaye, the actor?)
It is a sad article but the saddest part is not at the end. The saddest part is in every sentence.
Israel left Gaza with a port, an airport, a functioning economy, a beachfront with vast tourist potential, and an industrious population. Gaza could have become a prosperous and important banking and tourist centre, and Israel would have helped them develop. Instead the people of Gaza chose leaders whose sole interest was to use Gaza to import weaponry and attack Israel. Israel reacted by destroying the airport and embargoing the port, and controlling movement in and out of Gaza. What else did Gazans expect? They had an opportunity and they blew it. As Abba Eban so accurately said long ago, the Palestinians never miss and opportunity to miss and opportunity.
I am confused, why do you not have an answer to little Abdeltaffah Montasir’s question about when the war will end? Israel has always said, openly, the war will end when the genocidal terrorists give back the 101 human hostages they stole. Now, of course, they don’t want to so the war which Hamas started, and for which they use their civilian population as human shields will rage on.
But there is a relatively easy answer. Here’s another hugely insightful piece of information about avoiding further conflicts – stop genocidal missions against Israel. Poooow, mind b l o w n.
You decry that the children miss the education they receive which inculcates and imbues them with pure hatred and antisemitism, teaching them that Israelis are the enemy and must be killed – that’s the education you fear they’re missing?
Well said. Is that the “education” their parents care so much about?
Unfortunately, it is this “education” that creates homicidal monsters that rejoice in rape, torture and murder.
So, no, no regrets.
Should we not at least try to end the war and change what the children learn ?
I find it very hard to sleep when I think of all the children killed and maimed in mind and body, when they of all people have no capacity to act in any direction
“People were astonished that Sinwar died the way he did. They thought he was spending all his time in the tunnels, yet there he was, fighting on the frontline.”
This is simply not true. Sinwar did indeed spend all of his time in tunnels. He was merely caught moving between them as the IDF closed in, and he was in fact armed only with a stick it seems!
There should be an award for writers, and indeed reporters, who produce Palestinianist apologetics like this. The literary style is to trace a thin red thread through the history and the politics of Gaza and the West Bank, weaving an emotionally manipulative narrative that carefully avoids any sense of Arab agency or political responsibility.
Well, tell your ‘fighters’ to stop putting other people’s children in the microwave.
And those hostages, they are people’s children too.
It saddens me to read how little Hamas values the future of these children and their own people’s land and prosperity in the Gaza Strip. Instead, Hamas happily traded them all for the wages of war: Destruction, displacement, despair, death, ashes and dust.
When will an older generation in the Gaza Strip be strong enough to stand against those in Hamas who seek to steal the future from their children as well as their loved ones? A generation that is wise enough to guide and direct the younger generations to no longer play at dying in wars with neighboring States, but to play at living in peace instead?
When will this day come?
Whenever they realise that the problem is their irrational belief in a religion that calls for the deaths of those who don’t believe.
I find it hard to believe this article was written by someone who is trying to portray Palestinians in a positive light. It’s a written testimony to the culture of death, infantile narratives, and total reliance on the charity of nations for help. With leaders and intellectuals such as this writer, how unsurprising it is that they’ve achieved nothing.
NO future in Gaza or with Hamas or as Palestinians…..there corrected for you. Neither did the 2 million germans kicked out of their homes in Eastern Europe in 1945….Or the millions of Christian Arabs kicked out of Syria, Lebanon, Iraq……How about Iranian Jews?….Yazidis? A pattern repeated in hundreds of conflicts over the world. Shit happens. They are refugees. They assimilate and next generation are Egyptian or Syrian…… The only reason this is the exceptional hill the left choose to die on is because ‘the Jews’. The only reason
Exactly this. In fact there were about 8 million displaced persons in East Central Europe at the end of the War. And let’s not forget the hindus and moslems who lost their homes – and lives – when the India/Pakistan border was drawn.
The Palestinian exception is that for domestic political reasons the surrounding Arab countries continued to pretend that the war which was lost in 1948 can still be won. In recent years that has been changing, which is why Iran/ Hamas attacked last October.
The children of Gaza will have a wonderful future when the psychotic puppets of Tehran are put of power and rational, peaceful life can emerge.
I think you mean Tel-Aviv
I think you are demonstrating my point perfectly.
Maybe Sinwar was booking it for Qatar and didn’t quite make it? Most soldiers don’t go to war with 10k in their pockets.
This is the life that their elders have made for them, decade after decade.
When Imperial Japan was defeated by the USA, I notice that the children, adults, and elderly amongst the Japanese population worked on their national character to improve and bring peace to their country. Ditto for Nazi Germany under the same circumstances. Both nations lost land after WWII. Both nations were defeated after aggressive war. But both underwent genuine regret and change for the good. Will Gazans do this? That is the question …..
How tragic. It shows a great lack of proper parenting. Parents need to tell their children that Hamas are evil and look at the death and destruction they have brought upon Gaza. They need to say that even if they don’t like the existence of Israel, its existence is a fact and that they must learn to live in peace and harmony and concentrate on making Gaza successful instead of working to destroy Israel.
Well said, Hugh.
What was the point of this article? The Arabs are the settler imperialist coloniser rapist enslavers. They began this conflict, not just on 7 October. And not one mention that hamas refuses to let its own civilians use our raid shelters. When the rapist mass murderers of October rang their mothers to tell them what they’d done, the scum shouted back ‘my son is a hero!!’. This article somehow misses that and more. It’s one long turgid boohoohoohoo for those who dont deserve our sympathy.
That’s religion for you. It turns normal people into sociopaths. Without religion, good people will do good and bad people will do bad; but to get good people to do bad, that takes religion. I grew up in a council estate in Northern Ireland in the 70s and 80s. Some of us see through the bullshit, others get sucked in.
People wanting to fight find reasons one way or the other.
Solution: everyone accepts everyones claim to a homeland here and the right to live peace. A 2 state or one state multicultural
Peace and coexistence solution is rolled out. Has the current war changed the situation on the ground apart lives cut short and rubble. Is forever wars going make 7 million Jews or several million Arabs and a host of minorities disappear from this land?
Not a solution. An extermination. Here is an idea: Hamas surrenders immediately without condition, like the nazis they resemble. Gazans, including Gazans, stop dying. De-nazification of Gaza leads to peace, prosperity, freedom.
It is discouraging that a post which tries to illustrate the consequences of hate on children, should be met with hate (judging by some of the comments).
Like nearly all Arab writing on this issue, it has a subtext of emotional manipulation. See the comments about Sinwar and note what he doesn’t say. What these kind of accounts don’t say is more important than what they do say. They very scrupulously avoid any concept of Arab agency.
It is discouraging that the post opens with how young Arab children are taught to hate, and how they apparently, like the author, grow into heartless monsters who are ok with Hamas deliberately using their own children as props in a war they started.
Nothing personal, just wrong time wrong place. Israelis don’t hate Palestinians, they just see them through a narrow tribal lense. They fundamentally don’t care.
Of course they care. They care about the safety and ability to live in peace of their own younger generation(s), including the young people still held hostage.
The children of Gaza could so easily live in peace, once their elders stop attacking Israel, release the remaining hostages and stop supporting Hamas. Did anyone release articles or films in the UK about the children of Germany during 1914-18, or 1939-45? This article is pernicious.
Our attitudes to war have changed since then.
Because we can now see what happens within minutes.
The killing of children is evil by anyone,
Unless it is Christian children by Moslems, Jewish children bt Moslems, Yazidi children by Moslems….
You write as though Israel attacked Hamas and not the other way round.
So you not only don’t think Hamas and its primary controller, Iran, bear any responsibility in starting a war that uses the deaths of their own children as an explicit strategy.
The Palestinian leadership has helped them not care.
Food for thought
Let’s take on a pro rata basis the Gaza / UK Population
Then consider that the UK had been attacked in a similar fashion as Gaza has been
Well got this far then here is the simple blunt truth and reality of exactly what The UK would be like today
Killed – 1,302,000 of which children
558,000
And it’s certainly fair to assume that similar numbers exist for those that are buried under the rubble
Therefore
Killed – 2,604,000 of which 1,016,000 are children
Now let’s move on to the destruction and actual situation
Every UK city Flattened
No sewage or fresh water system
No roads , rail or port facilities
Total collapse of all heath facilities
Ditto for education
64,000,000 UK Citezens herded into refugee camps and continually
Issued with evacuation notices some of which issued with less than 30 minutes warning
Complete lack of a reliable food supply essential not only for Life
But for future health particularly of
Children
Now 2 very simple straight forward
Questions for you all and each only requiring a one word answer without any caveat whatsoever
Q 1 – Is this civilised YES or NO
Q 2 – Is this Genocide YES or NO
I am the Lord God almighty
For those who answer wrongly
Then a place in Hell awaits your arrival
Gaza wasn’t attacked. Gaza did the attacking. Gaza was the agressor.
Pretty funny they get such facts wrong.
Out of curiosity, will the Gazans endeavor to remove the boot of Hamas from their necks? Hamas took over the government half through elections and half through violence, and kept it by force for 20 years (ish). I suggest that the responsibility for removing Hamas lies with the Gazans who truly desire peace.
Since your premise, that Gaza,was attacked, is a lie the rest of your execerable anti-semitic blahblah is irrelevant. You you are the genocidal monster for supporting Hamas. You have condemned yourself to hell.
Agreed always the victim the Palestinians no responsibility taken for starting a war. No call for release of hostages which could stop the suffering. More Palestinian pathetic excuses.