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					<title>How anti-racism can make you rich</title>
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						<![CDATA[Sam Leith]]>
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							<![CDATA[<div><strong>Sam Leith</strong> is literary editor of <i>The Spectator. </i>His latest book is <a href="https://www.amazon.co.uk/Haunted-Wood-History-Childhood-Reading/dp/0861548183" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><em>The Haunted Wood: A History of Childhood Reading</em></a>.</div>
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						<![CDATA[ is literary editor of <i>The Spectator. </i>His latest book is <a href="https://www.amazon.co.uk/Haunted-Wood-History-Childhood-Reading/dp/0861548183" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><em>The Haunted Wood: A History of Childhood Reading</em></a>.</div>]]>
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								<![CDATA[Diversity has become a business tactic, rather than a moral imperative]]>
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								<![CDATA[<p>“First they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you, then you win”. These wise words can be found in any number of Instagram statuses, attributed to any number of people who didn’t say them. How would we recast them for the age of late capitalism? First they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you – then they find a way to make money out of you? Put that on a £19.99 T-shirt next to a picture of Mahatma Gandhi.</p>
<p>In Stage Three of this process as seen during the Black Lives Matter protests, you’ll remember, right-wing media were filled with hair-raising scare stories about what BLM really wanted. “Revealed:” burbled the <em>Daily Mail</em>. “The British arm of Black Lives Matter’s full agenda – abolish the police, smash capitalism and close all prisons”. No reference to this loose and decentralised racial justice movement went unaccompanied by mention that three of the prominent figures in it had described themselves as “trained Marxists”. You feel on stronger ground, I suppose, resisting a movement that you&#8217;ve decided wants to tear capitalist society and its institutions to bits than one that asks us to give people of colour an equitable stake in society and the hope of walking the streets without being harassed by the cops.</p>
<p>Yet, capitalism being miraculously forgiving, we have now entered Stage Four. Robin DiAngelo, of <em>White Fragility</em> fame, makes her main living as a “diversity consultant”, and is reported to charge north of £10,000 for a speech. She lectured Coca-Cola last year on “Confronting Racism”. And a brace of new books in her tradition indicates that far from wanting to smash for-profit workplaces, the diversity-industrial complex now wants to make capitalism safe for diversity. We have reached the stage, in other words, that trained Marxists would call co-optation.</p>
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<p>Two books — one by Y-Vonne Hutchinson, <em>How To Talk To Your Boss About Race: Speaking Up Without Getting Shut Down</em>, and the other, <em>A Judgement-Free Guide To Diversity and Inclusion for Straight White Men</em> by Felicity Hassan and Suki Sandhu — are similar in scope and approach, though Hutchinson’s primary focus is race, while Hassan and Sandhu cover racism, sexism, ageism and homo/bi/transphobia too. They’re both aiming squarely at the business how-to market, most shamelessly in the case of the latter, which again and again mentions the “business case” for diversity and inclusion and barely makes the moral case at all.</p>
<p>In genre terms, we’re seeing the collision of two well established discourses: the boilerplate of antiracist discourse folded into the numbing cliches of the business self-help manual. This has the unfortunate effect, at least stylistically and in publishing terms, of making the case for antiracism or workplace diversity read like another vogue in management style — the new “mindfulness”, say — rather than an urgent moral imperative.</p>
<p>The books adhere to the same, by now familiar, theoretical framework — with leading anti-racists DiAngelo, Kimberlé Crenshaw, and Ibram X Kendi liberally and respectfully cited, and microaggressions and privilege given the traditional working over. They both address the reader in a buttonholing, folksy way. “If you feel concerned that you may now be labeled ‘cisgender’ for the first time in your life, hold onto that thought”, say Hassan and Sandhu. “It&#8217;s all part of the learning curve”. Hutchinson opens with the words: “Let’s cut the bullshit”. If you resist any of this, in other words, it’s just another sign that you need to do “the work”.</p>
<p>That doesn’t mean, I should say, that the ideas they’re selling are in broad strokes wrong. We can agree that people from historically marginalised minorities continue to be disadvantaged even when they achieve <em>de jure </em>equality. To take one of the most obvious examples, racial disadvantage in the US is generationally baked in in all sorts of ways, and prejudice survives and adapts to legal remedies. This is why it makes sense to talk about “structural racism”.</p>
<div class="ref-ar"><a href="https://unherd.com/2021/08/how-activists-captured-publishing/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><a href="https://unherd.com/2021/08/how-activists-captured-publishing/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><img decoding="async" src="https://unherd.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/08/GettyImages-1218190450-scaled-e1628089600519-1.jpg?w=300" /></a><div class="content"><a href="https://unherd.com/2021/08/how-activists-captured-publishing/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><span class="meta">More from this author</span></a><a href="https://unherd.com/2021/08/how-activists-captured-publishing/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><h5>How activists captured publishing</h5></a><p class="author"><a href="https://unherd.com/2021/08/how-activists-captured-publishing/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><span>By</span> Sam Leith</a></p></div></a></div>
<p>There is much evidence — cited generously in both these books — for the notion that not only are black and brown people disproportionately under-represented in agreeable and well-paid jobs, but that more black and brown people in those jobs would make everyone, not just the black and brown people, richer and happier. And that what goes for black and brown people goes, in the broadest sense possible, for other minorities. It’s also true to say, as both these books do, that privileged people – white, cis-male, straight, able-bodied etc – can get a bit defensive when confronted with their complicity in such a system. Hassan and Sandhu address themselves, primarily, to the notional white dude standing in the way of reform; Hutchinson, primarily, to the person of colour seeking to start a Difficult Conversation with that white dude.</p>
<p>They both offer, in styles apt to the genre (Hassan and Sandhu: Venn diagrams, bullet-points, away-day exercises and wince-making tint-panels in which the likes of Richard Branson puff themselves by spouting abstract bromides about how much they value diversity), explanations of the jargon of the territory for bewildered newcomers, and hand-holding step-by-steps on how to help to centre marginal voices, be a good ally, and be the change in the world that you want to see. Most of the practical advice is not unobvious. Hutchinson, that said, has useful points to make about the way in which the task of changing workplace culture can all too easily fall on the unpaid labour of minority employees, and warns all too plausibly of how corporate HR departments are generally more interested in shielding the company from legal and financial risk than treating individual employees fairly.</p>
<p>But there&#8217;s little sense in either book that the received ideas or the received vocabulary of antiracism or gender politics needs any interrogation. This is, perhaps in keeping with the turn in identity politics where an individual’s own sense of themselves (in the case of the argument over aspects of queer and trans identity) or of their experience of oppression (in the case of much race discourse) holds an almost theological authority: that unless you have “lived experience” you don’t just have an inferior standing to consider the issues, but no standing at all.</p>
<p>Both books proceed from a position of epistemic confidence. “Is your workplace racist?” asks Hutchinson. “The short and simple answer is nearly certainly yes. The more nuanced answer is still nearly certainly yes”. What can the reader do? They can start, say Hassan and Sandhu, by “learning the language of diversity and inclusion”. A set of terms, rather than a set of ideas. “Set up a debate to debunk the philosophy that women compete more with each-other than their male counterparts”, they advise chirpily at one point. Foregone conclusions, regardless of the subject, isn’t what debates are traditionally about.</p>
<div class="ref-ar"><a href="https://unherd.com/2020/12/harry-potter-fans-need-to-grow-up-2/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><a href="https://unherd.com/2020/12/harry-potter-fans-need-to-grow-up-2/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><img decoding="async" src="https://unherd.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/07/GettyImages-801210080.jpg?w=300" /></a><div class="content"><a href="https://unherd.com/2020/12/harry-potter-fans-need-to-grow-up-2/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><span class="meta">More from this author</span></a><a href="https://unherd.com/2020/12/harry-potter-fans-need-to-grow-up-2/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><h5>Harry Potter fans need to grow up</h5></a><p class="author"><a href="https://unherd.com/2020/12/harry-potter-fans-need-to-grow-up-2/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><span>By</span> Sam Leith</a></p></div></a></div>
<p>Yet the vocabulary is contested; and the remedies, when it comes down to fine detail, are contested too. Hassan and Sandhu make a distinction, for instance, between “diversity” and “inclusion” (though they seem to muddle the two at other points) and between “equity” and “equality”. They disagree with Hutchinson, a little, on “unconscious bias”. <em>The Judgment-Free Guide</em> finds the notion useful; <em>How To Talk</em> thinks we should stop pussyfooting around and call it racism, so as not to centre white people, their intentions and their feelings in a conversation about the harms done to people of colour. Do you capitalise “Ally”, as Hassan and Sandhu do, but leave “white” lower-case; or do you capitalise “White”, as Hutchinson does, and leave “ally” lower-case? At this point, I should say, my fragility is perhaps causing me to indulge in what Hutchinson identifies as the racist-in-denial tactic of “sealioning”: “focusing on details and small points of argumentation rather than the larger themes of the discussion”.</p>
<p>What I can say, which I don’t think is my fragility talking, is that however we may endorse those larger themes, or humbly submit to be educated by the emotional labour of their authors, this subject’s established orthodoxies can make for wearyingly abstract and repetitive writing. “Power is not binary”, Hutchinson writes, “It’s multifaceted and fluid”. I lost count of the number of times Hutchinson uses the word “leverage”, or Hassan and Sandhu — the front of whose book promises “everything you need to lead positive change” — talk about “journeys” and “driving change” (though, be it said, these are more the failings of bollocksy business books than identity politics books per se). As a side-note, isn’t it careless when writing about diversity and tolerance to quote, as <em>Judgement-Free Guide</em> does, Henry Ford and Chairman Mao — one antisemite, one mass-murderer — with approval? That’s a bit more judgement-free than many of us will be comfortable with.</p>
<p>Both these books default too often to a tissue of generalities and buzzphrases that tend to leave little or no impression on the mind. That isn’t sealioning. You can agree that the elimination of structural racism and all the other structural-isms is an urgent necessity, and still wish that writing on the subject were lively and original and precise; indeed, the more you recognise the urgency the more you’ll want some decent books on the subject. It’s a bit depressing to think that wine made from the vineyards of Sojourner Truth, Frederick Douglass and James Baldwin has found its way into bottles designed by Tom Peters.</p>
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						<![CDATA[Dan Hitchens]]>
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							<![CDATA[<p><strong>Dan Hitchens</strong> is Senior Editor of <em>First Things </em>and co-author of the forthcoming <em>Cambridge Introduction to Samuel Johnson</em>.</p>
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						<![CDATA[ is Senior Editor of <em>First Things </em>and co-author of the forthcoming <em>Cambridge Introduction to Samuel Johnson</em>.]]>
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								<![CDATA[<p>The 2008 crash remains the great turning-point, the before-and-after moment. It’s hard to imagine, for instance, a book like <em>Eat, Pray, Love</em> being published today. Elizabeth Gilbert’s self-help-memoir, which was published exactly 15 years ago, followed the author through an early-to-midlife crisis in which she spends four months in Italy eating carbs and sightseeing, four months at an Indian ashram learning the secrets of spiritual life, and the rest of the year in Indonesia resisting, then succumbing to, a heady romance with a Brazilian businessman. 12 million book sales and a Julia Roberts movie adaptation followed.</p>
<p>It isn’t just the ease of international travel that makes <em>Eat, Pray, Love</em> seem like a document from another era. It’s also the book’s unselfconsciousness about economic inequality — about the fact that you can only have this sort of adventure when you happen to have received, say, a <a href="https://www.refinery29.com/en-gb/eat-pray-love-travelling-alone" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">$200,000 book advance</a>. And if the book was “a voyage of self-discovery” (a phrase Gilbert used with hardly a trace of irony), it was also an ode to consumerism: the dream held out by travel agents — sunshine, hedonism and enlightenment rolled into one — has rarely found a more persuasive salesperson.</p>
<p>And yet for all that, <em>Eat, Pray, Love</em> possessed a kind of absurd magnificence. At the start of the book, Gilbert’s marriage is in crisis, and as she collapses onto her bathroom floor at 3am, sobbing uncontrollably, something wholly unexpected happens, like “one of those crazy astronomical super-events when a planet flips over in outer space for no reason whatsoever, and its molten core shifts”. For the first time in her life, she finds herself crying out, in fear, in desperation, in hope, to the creator of the universe.</p>
<div class="ref-ar"><a href="https://unherd.com/2020/07/would-you-rather-be-someone-else/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><a href="https://unherd.com/2020/07/would-you-rather-be-someone-else/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><img decoding="async" src="https://unherd.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/07/MV5BMjQxNTM4Mjg1NV5BMl5BanBnXkFtZTgwNDYyNzM4NjM@._V1_SY1000_CR0012941000_AL_-e1594994670352.jpg?w=300" /></a><div class="content"><a href="https://unherd.com/2020/07/would-you-rather-be-someone-else/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><span class="meta">More from this author</span></a><a href="https://unherd.com/2020/07/would-you-rather-be-someone-else/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><h5>Would you rather be someone else?</h5></a><p class="author"><a href="https://unherd.com/2020/07/would-you-rather-be-someone-else/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><span>By</span> Dan Hitchens</a></p></div></a></div>
<p>What happens next isn’t quite Augustine’s <em>Confessions</em>. But there was an appealing sense in <em>Eat, Pray, Love </em>— a sense never quite lost even as Gilbert moved relentlessly onwards through the world’s finest <em>gelaterias</em>, yoga studios and beach bars, distributing her publisher’s vast wads of cash — that life itself is a stupendous gift. You have a body, so feast! You have a soul, so how could you possibly spend less than four months on trying to unlock the mystery of prayer? You have the capacity to love, so why not travel halfway around the planet for it?</p>
<p>Fiffeen years on, self-help has become a far more sensible affair. Or rather, it has been supplanted by “self-care” — those miniature, fine-tuned adjustments to soothe you through a demanding day. Instead of going on a voyage of self-discovery, people download mindfulness apps called things like “Ten Per Cent Happier”. Whereas Elizabeth Gilbert searched for a God who is “an experience of supreme love”, we have Marie Kondo telling us to throw more stuff away and Sarah Knight offering <em>The Life-Changing Magic of Not Giving a F***.</em> The new mood was anticipated by the ironic subtitle of Oliver Burkeman’s 2011 <a href="https://www.waterstones.com/book/help/oliver-burkeman/9781784709655" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">post-self-help book</a> <em>Help!: How to Become Slightly Happier and Get a Bit More Done</em>.</p>
<p>To the generation which has acquired its disposable income since <em>Eat, Pray, Love </em>appeared, Gilbert’s scheme must appear pretty dubious. Eat? No thanks — I’m fine with this kale juice. Love? Not likely: according to a recent <a href="https://www.prnewswire.com/news-releases/millennials-swap-selfies-for-self-improvement-300991755.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">survey</a>, 20- and 30-something travellers “would rather improve mental health (30%), learn a new skill (29%) or get fit (24%) than find love (12%).” Pray? Well, in the next few weeks a book will be published which is in certain ways the opposite of <em>Eat, Pray, Love</em>.</p>
<p>True, Sarah Sands’ <em><a href="https://www.amazon.co.uk/Interior-Silence-Lessons-Monastic-Life-ebook/dp/B08L4K52MP" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">The Interior Silence: 10 Lessons from Monastic Life</a> </em>would also cost a fair amount to emulate: flights to Japan aren’t cheap, and nor, one imagines, is a stay at a Buddhist monastery in Koyasan. For Sands’ other nine lessons she visits religious houses of various, mostly Christian traditions in Italy, Spain, Egypt, Bhutan, France, Germany and Greece — and, as lockdown restrictions start to bite during the writing of the book, in Britain too. Even so, <em>Interior Silence</em> is less an extravagant journey in pursuit of sublime knowledge, more an accumulation of useful habits to help stay afloat.</p>
<div class="ref-ar"><a href="https://unherd.com/2020/10/humans-dont-know-how-to-be-happy/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><a href="https://unherd.com/2020/10/humans-dont-know-how-to-be-happy/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><img decoding="async" src="https://unherd.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/GettyImages-1222773841-e1603821049481.jpg?w=300" /></a><div class="content"><a href="https://unherd.com/2020/10/humans-dont-know-how-to-be-happy/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><span class="meta">Suggested reading</span></a><a href="https://unherd.com/2020/10/humans-dont-know-how-to-be-happy/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><h5>Humans don&#039;t know how to be happy</h5></a><p class="author"><a href="https://unherd.com/2020/10/humans-dont-know-how-to-be-happy/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><span>By</span> Sam Leith</a></p></div></a></div>
<p>From the harmony of the Japanese monastery, Sands concludes that tidying her handbag could be the key to a more ordered life. At the Abbaye Notre-Dame de Sénanque, she discovers that giving up caffeine and alcohol “brings a quietness of mind”. Sands’ monks and nuns teach her to ignore the news cycle, to practise patience, to enjoy simplicity. These are the small, familiar steps of self-care — and it’s not entirely clear how much Sands’ newfound tranquillity is the result of drinking deep from the wells of ancient knowledge, and how much it is just the usual effect of a really nice holiday.</p>
<p>Nevertheless, the book is gripping, both because of Sands’ witty, sometimes poignant prose, and as a fable of our times. In the 21st-century meritocracy, whose greatest prize is to have a fun, well-paid job which impresses strangers at social events, Sands is unquestionably one of the winners. As editor of the <em>Evening Standard</em> from 2012-17, she spends “every evening in theatres or restaurants or at parties” — some of them at the proprietor Evgeny Lebedev’s Umbrian castle:</p>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;"><em>It was my job as editor of the London newspaper to deliver Boris Johnson to these weekends. The preparations were elaborate, and our welcoming party would breathe more deeply when our cars finally accelerated up the avenue of cypresses, taking in the jasmine air, and preparing for a weekend of medieval splendour: feasting, dancing, boar hunting. I have a memory of a dishevelled Johnson chasing Evgeny’s wolf, also named Boris, because it had eaten his computer dongle.</em></p>
<div class="ref-ar"><a href="https://unherd.com/2019/04/the-myth-of-meritocracy/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><a href="https://unherd.com/2019/04/the-myth-of-meritocracy/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><img decoding="async" src="https://unherd.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/04/GettyImages-452181862.jpg?w=300" /></a><div class="content"><a href="https://unherd.com/2019/04/the-myth-of-meritocracy/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><span class="meta">Suggested reading</span></a><a href="https://unherd.com/2019/04/the-myth-of-meritocracy/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><h5>The myth of meritocracy</h5></a><p class="author"><a href="https://unherd.com/2019/04/the-myth-of-meritocracy/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><span>By</span> Polly Mackenzie</a></p></div></a></div>
<p>Then, as editor of the <em>Today Programme</em>, Sands covers the edge-of-your-seat drama of post-Brexit politics, rising at 4.30 to “a frenzy of news wires and Twitter”, only returning home in the evening to catch up on emails. And how does it feel, this thrilling life at the centre of glamorous invite-only occasions and world-shaking political stories? Terrible, of course. The news becomes a numbing addiction. Sands’ mind fills with “noise, chaos and anxiety” to the point where she struggles to sleep. And then, among monks and nuns, she realises that with their lack of ambition, their small needs and simple lives, these people seem to have found happiness.</p>
<p>At moments, Sands hints that monastic living may have more to teach us than just some novel approaches to self-care. The book circles around the possibility of divine revelation, without quite deciding what to make of it. Sands quotes a phrase from St Thomas Aquinas, “the light of faith”, but doesn’t mention that he tends to use it in a fairly blunt way: by that light, he <a href="https://www.newadvent.org/summa/3001.htm" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">comments</a>, “the human mind is directed to assent to such things as are becoming to a right faith, and not to assent to others.” Sands adopts a very different tone, as she looks out onto the old convent wall at the bottom of her garden:</p>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;"><em>I think of what St Thomas once called “the light of faith”. If there is a divine truth beyond knowledge and reason, then my wall, bright behind the silhouette of the yew tree and the big dark sky, seems a testament to it.</em></p>
<p>Like <em>Eat, Pray, Love</em>, <em>Interior Silence</em> is haunted by the possibility of finding God. But here the possibility fades away into a beautiful image, just as in the earlier book it dissolved into a consumerist paradise. Perhaps there are some questions which the self-help genre just isn’t designed to answer.</p>
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